In my experience, whenever I approach a girl, there are four rejections that I have had A LOT of experience with. This is regardless of whether it is daytime, nighttime, club, grocery store, etc. A girl will usually reject in one of the following ways:

1 I have a Boyfriend

2 A polite "No thanks"

3 I am married

4 Ignore

First, never take rejections personally. She doesn't know you. You don't know her. Don't beat yourself up wondering why she rejected your offer, or your "shot". If you really want to know why SHE rejected you, you can straight up ask her if you want to know. She will likely say she has a boyfriend or something. She could be telling the truth, she could be lying. Who knows and who cares? Move on.

In my experience, when a woman initially rejects me, but I am persistent, she may give in- in that moment, only to flake later on after the interaction is over. Some guys choose to fight through the bitch shield, and sometimes, it may be worth it, and it may pay off in the end. However, in my experience, it has not yielded dividends to try to overcome intial rejections, especially so early on. Rejections or obstacle that occur later on can be addressed a different way.

I would recommend that you go out and get your own results, don't go off of mine. I am simply sharing my experiences with you. And if you have similar outcomes, don't think that there is anything wrong with you because I had the same thing happen.

My goal is to connect with women who showed some interest in me. If there are 10 women in a social setting; of those 10, two are down to fuck you, three are down to see you again, two don't want anything to do with you, and three will reject you and waste your time.

You approach the first girl, and she ignores you. You build up enough courage to approach a second girl and she ignores you. (You might start to think that it is you that is the problem. That your value is too low. That you aren't wealthy enough. That they smell you don't have your shit together, therefore, they are rejecting you as a person. WRONG! Everyone in this thread is ENOUGH! No need to go "fix" yourself. )

Most guys will quit after these two consecutive rejections. And these are the toughest rejections in my opinion. When girls ignore me, it does bruise the ego a little, at least it used to. When people don't even acknowledge your presence is pretty painful. It is as if they are saying, "you aren't even worth looking at. You aren't even worth lying to. You aren't even worth getting mad at."

Fellas, this comes with the territory. If you aren't experiencing any form of rejection, you aren't going for what you want.

For those that build up enough balls to keep approaching, you will encounter three girls that have boyfriends, married and time wasters. You have approached 5 girls, and have been rejected by all five. Your competition is going to tuck their tail in and go home, or just give up on the night. It is okay to take a breather, to go get your state up with the fellas, but you need to stay in the now. Take action.

You go approach the sixth girl. She is feeling you. You are feeling her. BOOM!!

You approach the seventh girl. She is giving you major signs that she likes you. BOOM!!

BOOM BOOM BOOM BOOM!!

Your night started out horrible but ended up good. Why? Because you kept going.

Don't get it confused that all nights will be this way. The first girl you talk to could be the one who is dtf. Or all 10 girls might ignore you for that night. Will you give up? No, you won't. That girl who is looking for you could be the next one you approach. Have fun.