Hello r/seduction,

This is a throwaway - but I need a bit of help/perspective.

There's this girl at the gym, and she's consistent. I mean, I've been training for years, and I have never seen someone so consistent as I (this is why I've noticed).

I'm really attracted to her for her resilience, but what I am afraid of is that if I were to approach her and ask her out, I'd make it awkward for her. Now she was there for attention (like 90% of females who go), I wouldn't have a problem approaching since I know they'll probably not come back anyways. But she seems focused. But she is there every day.

So, I've been trying really hard to get signals, but it's super mixed. She stares at me, but never meets eye contact, ever. It's kinda frustrating. Every time I work out around her, I notice she gets jumpy (legs shaking), she then gets up and leaves to work out somewhere else from afar. She stares at me again, then looks away when I look back. I'm so confused.

I always wear all black + a certain type of shoes, and I've noticed she came in today with the same exact outfit. I was honestly astonished. To me, it was a go signal. Am I looking into this too much?

I mean don't get me wrong, I'm not a bad-looking guy, but I don't want to fuck up her resolve. Thoughts?