So I've been a lurker here on seduction, and have learned a lot. Thanks guys! What I've learned, this may not be a problem for some but may be for others like me.

First off, I do have outer game, if that means getting physical with the opposite, I could use some work on that but in the end practice makes perfect right? Nothings impossible, that'sy motto, and that's what keeps me going. So I know how to dress and look nice and presentable, I'm in really good shape so Im always getting some looks (sorry if this sounds cocky!). I find that if you have inner game that most of these things don't even really matter. As long as you can get the other person to have the mindset, "God, this guy/girl is fun to talk to, I wanna hangout with em more and I wonder what he's/she's like in bed". That's all that matters, as long as they're thinking of YOU while you're talking to them and still THINKING OF YOU when you two depart is all that matters.

I have no inner game, despite my outer game, I can't seem to build the confidence to go and meet women. I am often left feeling depressed and lazy. Usually wake up late and play video games, but when it comes to interacting with other women there's a part of me that's says "get out of here, end this right now", sounds silly but that's how it's been and I don't know what I can do to change this mindset, it's been with me for a while and I just want to get out there and meet women, I sometimes fear of not bringing enough to the table, I have very small sense of humor, and if I was just a bit funnier it would be so much easier.