The key to talking with anyone

IamProfessorO · 2020-03-26T20:01:47+00:00

I love this man. Please keep it up.

I actually had a situation just the last couple days where I was talking with a girl, and I had a total crush on her, and I totally froze. I never knew what to say, and it was because I was THINKING about what to say... I was rarely present and I was in fear the whole time (fear as in worrying about what I was going to say next, was she enjoying herself, was she bored, was she thinking things in her head, etc.) and I haven’t felt these things in a long time.

The last girl I had a physical relationship with, I was always present. Never overthought anything. We would talk about the most random things ever, and there was never pressure on myself to do anything or act a certain way.

So I say this to say, you’re totally right. We already know how to talk with people. But the key is to learn how to become as relaxed as we are with friends. I guess that’s something I just realized I need to learn how to do.

phelfil · 2020-03-26T20:57:04+00:00

Thank you for such a great video! I agree with you, sometimes overthinking makes us lose our train of thought and just be more awkward than ever. But I also want to add that sometimes the way the conversation goes depends on how the person you're talking to is reacting. Sometimes the person might not act as interested or their body language isn't as expressive which makes us overthink about what to say, and sometimes the person is so easy going and talkative which makes it easy for the conversation to flow.

ACEM2Infinite · 2020-03-26T23:22:52+00:00

Your French voice is smooth as chocolate

Edit: is that a good pick up line since I didn’t even have to think about it to say it?

xfyre101 · 2020-03-26T21:40:44+00:00

i run out of things to my friends all the time lol.. the difference is it doesnt get awkard if there is a silence or a gap in the conversation because you're actually friends...as opposed to a stranger haha

asspatheticAF · 2020-03-27T16:51:57+00:00

How to talk to anyone = feel relaxed. How to relax = assume they are already your friend.

FXeditzz77 · 2020-03-27T00:21:21+00:00

Great video man! Do you think this can go same with doing commentary for a YouTube video? Like being in the present moment and not thinking much of about what to say, do you think this could help? I have trouble sometimes starting a video because I’ll stay stuck in my head thinking what can I say to be a good entertainer and was wondering if staying the present moment can help with that.

Trump_Donald_J · 2020-03-27T04:37:17+00:00

Great video man. Thanks for the tip!

mr-chaos1234 · 2020-03-26T21:25:51+00:00

Its remove qtf?

dayinfinity · 2020-03-27T04:04:51+00:00

Very true! Thanks

Title	The key to talking with anyone
Author	socialanimal_us
Upvotes	383
Comments	14
Date	March 26, 2020 7:07 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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