Today I learned: if a beta-male mandrill monkey wins a fight, it begins to morph into an alpha-male. It gains facial coloration, bigger testicles and the ability to breed.

An interesting fact.

Then, I started to think...

Us humans aren't too different.

Let's say you and I have a boxing match in front of thousands of people.

If YOU win, you'll start acting like an alpha-male instinctively.

You'll stand up straight. You'll pull your shoulders back. You'll hold your head up high. You'll walking powerfully, with massive confidence. When you feel like a winner, you naturally display alpha body language.

Meanwhile, my body will probably start to hunch over. I'll feel dejected. All the energy will disappear form my voice and body. Beta-male body language to the max.

Why does this matter?

Because SO MUCH of what we communicate to people is non-verbal.

When you meet a hot woman, she's looking you up and down for signs of alpha-male characteristics.

If you display those characteristics, she'll perceive you that way. End of story.

That's the beautiful thing about cold approach. You're only ever as alpha as you show her in set.

So, what can we do?

OK, so women like alpha body language...and we display when we feel like we're winning.

That's why it's so useful to frame everything you do on a night out as a win.

  • You just approached. That's a win.
  • You approached again. Another win.
  • You approached and stayed in set for 30 seconds. What a win.
  • Everything is a win.
  • The moment you say hi, it's a win. Everything else is a bonus.
  • As the night goes on and on, you feel free to push things further and further. So many wins.
  • Your body language becomes more loose and relaxed.
  • The creative side of your brain opens up. Gold effortlessly spews from your mouth
  • The stifled side of your brain shuts down. Now, you're approaching and opening without even thinking.
  • Before you know it, you've hooked the hottest woman in the club.

That's how my nights tend to go anyway. We'll name it after the monkey though...

You don't have to win fights to feel alpha. Just create small social wins and build momentum throughout the night.

Learn to do this with consistency. Watch your testicles grow and watch in wonder as you gain the ability to breed ;D

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