One thing I consider fairly important is to not take girls seriously, at least until they prove they deserve to be. This mindset seems to prevent getting nervous around a girl, and allows for natural joking with her. Through negs and jokes, all done lightheartedly, I make the girl laugh and often give me incredulous, amused looks.

However, I'm coming to realize my game is dominated by the push, and I don't have enough of the pull. I can neg the girl and make her laugh, but I need to work on alternating push and pull and demonstrating that I'm still interested in her. Any advice, Seddit?