First of all, I want to start by saying that most of the stuff I will be posting here, has already been posted. What Im saying is, that this post is a compilation of knowledge I have acquired trough my time in /r/seduction.

A little bit of my background: Growing up I wasn't always a looser I had friends and I was really good at sports. On the other hand, when it came to females the story was a little bit different. I was shy and didn't have the nerves to ask anyone out. I got in to the PUA stuff about 5-6 years ago after while having lunch with a few friends they keep mentioning this one book called "the game" and how the stuff in it worked so perfectly with the ladies. I went home, got in to my computer and downloaded (""legally"") this one book they were talking about for over an hour.

I read the book in less that a week (Im not a reading person). Later that month, I went back for lunch and sat down with the same friends and then brought back the subject. Now i will be providing you with a brief description of what i've learn since then.

Before you even think of approaching there are many details you need to work on. To start with, you need to find what is that you want. what kind of females you like? Then, is really important that you start to think like the female. But how do you do that? Well, ask your self, what kind of guy will she be more likely to be with? is it a professional looking one? or maybe one more sporty?

After you find out the kind of male the female that you want would date, then theres more homework to do. If you want to be a well rounded guy in this game, then you need to work on some things. For right now I am going to focus on three main ones. The first one, personal appearance (the way you dress). Second, your posture. Third, tone of voice.

First, you need to learn how to dress. Subreddits I would recommend are /r/malefashion, /r/malehairadvice and /r/malefashionadvice. Make sure you dress well. Theres no need to go all out in the mall and spent your whole paycheck. There are stores out there who sell retail stuff for really cheap, like Ross or Marshall just to give an idea. Check the news, read fashion magazines, find out whats the trend out there. Also, do some gym. It never hurts to be a little buffy in the arms & chest and have a smaller waist.

Second, work on the posture. On my time off some times I read books or check on videos explaining the science behind body language. Learn what are body movements or posture that express power and authority Good video to watch. Theres no need to become an expert on this area but it would help to know the basics. I will help your game offensively as well as defensively if you know what i mean...

Third one, the tone of voice, practice practice practice!!! Avoid stuttering, put some bass on your voice. I once read that there was a study showing that your voice tone dictates how likely a person/animal is to find a mate. Apply that!!

When it comes to approach, with the time, I learnt something that never fails me. Just approach and never back up. Approach as soon as possible. Sometimes we take a break to study the situations and one of two things happen. First, you put up a mental barrier for fear to rejection. Second, somebody else acted in a faster manner, therefore stealing your prey. Don't fear looking like a fool, you will only look like a fool if you don't act at all. People generally really respect other guys who have the guts to go and introduce them selves to others.

You are probably wondering, what if I get rejected? Let me tell you, If you don't get rejected is probably because your are not trying hard enough. We all get rejected. All we need to do is to keep trying. I once when to a club and got rejected three times in a row. I realized when to the bar got a drink and analyzed the situation. While taking a zip I realized that i was only getting rejected because i was not smiling when approaching and I was also seeking for approval (big no no!). I later when back to the dance floor and... BANG!!! jackpot! Danced a bit, made a connection, got the digits and fled the scene like a villain (No need to try to have a one night stand).

After you get the number make sure to text within the next thirty minutes. If you don't then theres a chance she will forget about you/lose connection. It doesn't matter what you txt but txt something. "LOL crazy fun night!!! save my number (Authority, you are telling here you had fun while telling her to save your number)." Females want to have fun so remember to point that out too. After you do this wait til next day then txt again have a small conv and invite to a date without her knowing. Find out what is she into, is she into movies? "OMG theres this new movie that just came out, you should come watch it with me."

Something that PUAs dont really tell you is that sometimes we will not be compatible with some females and that is completely normal. Maybe because of different backgrounds, example can be cultures or social classes or simply music styles. But hey! Remember! as i stated before, females only want to have fun. Show them what you are about! Show them that you are the funnest guy out there, show them that you have a degree authority and you deserve some respect but more important that anything else, show them that you also have options! The game doesn't end after you hook up.

The seduction game is not a tool to play with females feelings. Even tho it can be used to, its not design to create players and hang out there breaking hearts . If you ever become successful, learn how to appreciate what you have! This is only a mean to make us grow as a person, to help those who are almost there but for some reason cant get to find that one person in their lives.

If you read the whole thing then I hope you provide your own point of view down here in the comments. I'm not the best at doing this but I do have a place on the rankings. Ask me anything, criticize my game. it would only make us better.