Thinking too much. Need to be more like myself when I'm around her.

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-09-29T20:25:28+00:00

Stop thinking about what to say. A conversation is not just you thinking up what to say and waiting for her to pause so you can say it.

Listen to her. If you listen carefully, you won't have to think about what to say, your response will come naturally. If you listen to a woman, she will tell you everything you need to know. She will tell you what is important to her, she will even tell you how to seduce her.

duffluff · 2013-09-30T00:57:18+00:00

i've had this problem so much lately. it's like my mind goes to mush as soon as she enters the room and I become this fucking idiot weirdo. I think I'm just trying too hard to make her laugh and accentuate what I think are my good qualities so it ends up backfiring. Maybe I think I need to be at my best every time I'm around her or otherwise she won't notice me or something. Don't know man, shit sucks. I'm putting her on this pedestal but I just can't help it.

evilnanobots · 2013-09-30T05:02:03+00:00

I've had this problem too, and it's only with the person I used to date... Chances are that there isn't an adequate amount of chemistry, your personalities may not be compatible at all. There must be tension, try to be honest about it, there's nothing wrong with telling her.

CodeMagenta · 2013-10-01T06:15:57+00:00

just keep trying to fuck her and if it doesnt work then you learn something about how to act

Title	Thinking too much. Need to be more like myself when I'm around her.
Author	TiitsMcgeee
Upvotes	13
Comments	4
Date	September 29, 2013 8:16 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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