So there's this girl I met on Reddit from a post where I said, me being brown 24M expat in the Netherlands, I'm free for Saturday night and whether anybody was up for hangout in the city. This woman, 28 yo, texted me that she's got a ticket to a party and I accepted the invitation.

She set a time, asked for my insta, then asked me whether I know dutch or not! Of course she knew I don't, but that gave the excuse for rejecting me.

If not racial issue, what else?