This year feels different

YouLoveYouLoose · 2022-02-07T23:27:14+00:00

A bit to unpack here... But topline: no shame in being a virgin and don't put pressure on yourself. It should be fun getting to know people you're attracted to, but if you are always judging yourself it won't be.

TheRiverOfDyx · 2022-02-08T02:06:52+00:00

Building sexual tension with girls takes wanting to build sexual tension WITH them. Not towards them. It’s chemistry, its calibrating yourself to them or them to you, or both. Both, actually.

If you want to be sexual with them, do it. Crack the door, get a toe in the water, then get your ankle to the water, then a leg, then your hips, by god you’re halfway there.

Commit. Not even in a “commit to a relationship” sense, just in a “I want to jump the shark” way. You’re scared because you know you can get hurt. You know what actions you should take to not get hurt? Give up…which WILL hurt you, you’ll hurt yourself over it. “Why can’t I fuck?! I GAVE UP! Fuuuuck!”

OR, you can jump the shark. Do it. Fuckin SEND IT there, buddy, full send or no send. Huck and pray. If you half ass pedalling down the ramp you’re gonna get halfass results.

If you send it flying down the ramp, let your sexual side out - feel comfortable being a sexy man, NOT an abuser or harasser, a “monster” for wanting sex, then you’ll more readily get sex.

If you believe expressing any sexuality as a man is bad, which you might because that is literally what society tells us these days, well then you’re not gonna get some. If you are not comfortable with your masculinity, you’re not getting any, except from desperate types and those are a boatload of problems and misery. Simple as that

JUMP THE SHARK! JUMP THE SHARK! JUMP THE SHARK! JUMP THE SHARK!

Pro tip: Believe that: You’ve already jumped the shark. You’re ALREADY fucking the girl you’re crushing on, she’s “yours”…she said yes. So now go ask her, she’ll say yes. If you get a “No”, well that’s just as good an answer. A girl saying “No, I won’t date you” is actually her saying “Yes, you have permission to go ask other girls out, don’t wait up and hold your breath over me, yes…go fuck other girls”

See? Now you got a “Yes” to try jumping more sharks. Reframe EVERYTHING in your life. Anything good, stop seeing it as good. It just is. Anything bad, it’s not bad. It just is.

Soldier gets drafted, he gets shot in the leg and they have to amputate, he’s sent home later to his wife. Soldier previously worked in a factory, it exploded while he was in the line of duty. Had he not gone into something considered “Bad”, he wouldn’t be alive to experience the “Good” of going home with a missing leg to his wife. The “Good” of not being drafted wouldn’t end in a “Bad” end, him dying. So reframe EVERYTHING you experience as “Good or Bad…doesn’t matter. There’s bad for every good, and good for every bad.

The lord works in mysterious ways. One door closing is the sound of another door opening. One girl rejecting you is another girl accepting your offer to date

davyjones1219 · 2022-02-08T02:08:41+00:00

We’re on the same boat man. Got 0 game. Gets no replies on dating apps etc.

2022-02-08T05:27:44+00:00

If you want to get a girl, you should keep approaching, but stay casual with it. Some girls will fall for you, some won't, you will fall for some girls, for some you won't. Don't take things so personally. If you aim high, there is high possibility that you fail :)

Title	This year feels different
Author	Organic-Policy-1039
Upvotes	6
Comments	5
Date	February 7, 2022 11:08 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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