Hello guys, I just recently started to work on my game, while practicing mostly indirect, due to my town being small. Now I need some advice. I now had a girl on 2 dates, we made out on both occasions, but she neglected my direct try to get her in bed, followed by me, asking her where this will end and makimg clear I have further interest and usually I would just leave now. We speak pretty open and both don't want monogamy (I know, woman talk one thing and do the other). I failed a few shit tests and passed a few, but I think I went a bit to deep into comfort, already.

I invited her for a skiing weekend with two friends of mine in a woodhouse my friends parents have. While I don't think it will get sexual over there, I plan to make the next move shortly after our trip and try to get laid. If not, I will tell her that I liked and like her as a person, but don't believe in friendship between women and men due to sexual tension and just leave. And I AM ready to do this.

My "problem" is now: She triggered my savior-mechanism and I told her I will look into her sleeping problems, as she has exams awaiting her. Me being me, I have researched a lot and trialed a few sleep medications (harmless stuff like melatonin/ also cheap) and noted the results on myself. I'd do that for a friend of mine in a heartbeat and I do like her. But while I really know I can just walk away from her (cold and sports are good coping mechanisms in case) I am torn between this being an overinvestment from my side, and the fact that I've already done most of the work.

My momentary thoughts while writting this are: Show it to her. If it's overinvestment and it ruins my chances, I shouldn't care anyway. I've done something good and I have to be ready to drop her anyway. Also: I wanna stay true to myself, as I told her, I will look into it.

Sry, for the wall of text :D

Tltr: I've researched her sleep problem (she being a potential lay, after two times making out). I'm ready to tell her: "fuck it" and walk away. But I fear to get far too deep into comfort when presenting her my investment.