There is a lot of emphasis on not placing women on a pedestal. When you place a woman on a pedestal, you make her higher value than you therefore you are trying too hard to prove your worth. So on and so forth, there's been much discussion about this subject that I'm sure you can find on these boards and in books.

What I want to get into is the use of our "HB numbering system" Basically, as you all should know, HB stands for "hot babe" and the number next to HB. Typically seen in front of a number (1-10). The HB “scale” doesn’t just refer to how beautiful a woman is - it also refers to how highly she’s valued by other people, as well as how highly she values herself.

HB1-10.

I'm sure you most of you guys have used this in typing up FR's or just in general thought processes. What you guys may not know is by using this type of numbering system; you might still be unconsciously placing women on a pedestal.

I know the numbering system may seem innocent enough to many of you but have you noticed how you act around different numbers?

There are some of you guys out there that no doubt that have defined your lifestyle and mentality to the point where you can easily act the same around an HB4 as you would around an HB10. That's awesome! You've reached a point where this tip is no longer relevant to you. That's something to be proud of; give yourself a pat on the back.

A lot of us however have not forged that mindset yet; be it that we haven't done enough approaches, or felt enough rejection or failure, or just haven't find the comfortability and confidence in our lifestyle. We're all trying to get there however and everybody starts at a different point in their life and social dynamics.

When I used to subconsciously categorize a woman as an HB8, I didn't treat her the same way as I did an HB4.

Ask yourself; Do you act the same way around an HB5 as you do around an HB9?

Mark Manson simply stated in his book that instead of using a numbering system such as the ones we use; that we should switch to binary.

1 = A woman you would like to get to know.

0 = A woman you wouldn't like to get to know.

Basically this all goes back to having the mindset of always just thinking; "I wonder what she's like?" and having the ability and the freedom to have outcome independence and not be intimidated nor anxious around a certain type of woman.

This is all credited back to Mark Manson's book "Models". I would really like to suggest many of you guys pick it up and have a good read; it definitely changed the way I thought and how I went about my lifestyle and taught me how to be confident and comfortable with myself, my lifestyle, my mentality & attitude, and social dynamics more than anything.