Hey guys! Throughout my time understanding seduction and attraction I’ve built up a number of relationships, both casual and serious. As with probably most in this time of age, many of these stemmed from online and began through texting. I find it is important to keep the texting light and fun in the beginning. I was thinking we should share some of our own methods of doing so.

My tip for you to keep the conversation light and fun is all about in the questions you ask. I like to create stories from the answers I receive. For instance, one of my go-to questions is, “If I told you I had two tickets to anywhere in the world, RIGHT NOW, where would you take us?” This is a great question for those profiles that talk about how much they love traveling, which let’s be real, is just about every other girl. I usually get a pretty great response from this question and from their answer I begin our story. I will give my reaction to their chosen destination, either agree or disagree with it (push/pull), and then mention how I will detour us to some other place before we head back home. I would also tell her about some of the adventurous we’d go on, what foods we’d eat, things like that. This allows me to have a unique and fun conversation with the girl and becomes an easy transition into proposing a date.

What about you? What are some tips you could give the community on having a fun conversation with a girl, whether through text or in person. Do you have any go-to questions you use that can create some dynamic in the conversation? If so, I would love to hear them.