To be direct or indirect.

ilikepie145 · 2019-07-02T14:57:58+00:00

Start slower unless she is obvious interested in you. But don’t get friendzoned at the same time

Imperator_Pyra · 2019-07-02T16:33:41+00:00

Direct and indirect are about whether you are hiding your romantic and/or sexual intent early on in the interaction or not. Note: EARLY ON IN THE INTERACTION. In your case, you seem to know this girl already, and you have not expressed your interest yet - so you already went in indirect. Thing is, you have to show that you have balls at some point, and you can't ask a girl out "indirect" - like, what is that even supposed to mean? Are you trying to be that guy who is asexual in her mind? The "gay best friend"? If not, just let her know of your intentions and ask her out - unless you know her for months and yet you have not done or shown anything that could be understood as "male to female" yet, in which case you asking her out suddenly might seem very unexpected and "out of nowhere" for her, and a very chode move, but do it anyway, I guess.

Title	To be direct or indirect.
Author	Lavosier
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	July 2, 2019 2:55 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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