I've been doing daygame for the past year and a half. I'm naturally an introverted guy who is always up in his head and rarely present, and always worried about others' perception of me. So this whole daygame thing has been a really good way for me to break out of my comfort zone and be more in the now.

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During the course of this new seduction career, I have dated around a dozen and closed 1 girl. (I have my own place now so I'm expecting better results this year)

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One thing however that I continue to struggle with is the idea that I must not think and surrender to the current moment, but at the same time, in my head, be aware of where I am in the LDM (London Daygame Model). I like this model because, while not executed perfectly, I have noticed the girls hook more because of it. But it's so damn hard to not think and be present - where I notice myself be smoother and in flow....yet also think about "ok I've gotta vibe now, or qualify now after the hook. It's hard to keep the flow of a conversation going while at the same time commanding the direction, spiking her emotions, which is what a good seducer does.

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To the experienced seducers on here - was there a moment where one night it just clicked?

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Love to hear your thoughts.