pain.

My mission is to save everyone from the pain of divorce.

The problem I see with pickup is that it puts the sex way to early in a relationship. If anyone cares to look, Dean Busby of the University of Brigham Young has done a lot of research to show that couples that delay the sexual gratification until they have married, report better marriages with deeper communication etc.

As men, we are all effected by the sex-force, and modern women in western countries don't make it any easier walking around all scantily clad. But we can rise above our sex force, and learn how to control it like St. George did when defeating the dragon in the allegory about sexual energy.

So we should use the skills we develop in pickup to find the right one for us, and then invest heavily in the friendship/spiritual connection, then once we make a serious commitment, introduce the sex.

Doing so will create what we all really want, a greater sense of true love. Endless hookups will leave us empty and falling short of our true potential as new-world men, willing to improve the world.

Nate Grage http://truelovedivinelove.com/soulmates