Hey so I've been hitting online dating hard. Been getting around 2 numbers a day on average. As much as 15 numbers within a week or so.

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I have been hitting the up to go on dates the day of, as I learned from many that this can help minimize flakes.

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Out of all the numbers only 3 have actually met up. I can't seem to figure out how to get them to actually meet. I have, what I feel to be a good script that I use on the dating apps to get numbers, and once I text on the phone, I don't have long conversation.

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I just either keep it warm by sending some anecdotes about my day and then suggest we grab drinks later if they respond.

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I've heard from many to not text too much on the phone but feel that I may be too quiet as there's not much momentum or rapport except for suggesting a meet up, when checking out some pua coaches text threads.

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I'm wondering with people successfully getting a good amount of women to meet them up in person for dates, how much are you texting on the phone before a date? Are you looking to get a good back and forth? Stay aloof and busy?

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Any guidance is appreciated!