Don't know what's wrong, but this is the vibe I've been getting a lot. All of my friends and acquaintances love me, but I'm too 'goofy' to get the girls? I'm the guy that's always cracking jokes and having a good time. I try not to take myself too seriously. But girls don't seem to like this for whatever reason. I can make them laugh, and I even pull numbers often. But they always flake. How to balance this out so that people see me as a serious person?