Too nice?

Nephlam · 2020-04-14T23:49:43+00:00

That’s a tough question man. You gotta be willing to work to change that mindset.

You’re nice because you want to be kind. Or you fear rejection. Or you want to be accepted, etc. most reasons people are nice or pushovers are because of deeply seated beliefs about yourself and others.

The quick fix is to act a little arrogant/cocky every time the opportunity presents itself. The hard part of that is being consistent.

On the other hand, the real problem is not being nice. But the fact that you think being nice is a problem.

Some of the best seducers I know are super nice, down to earth guys who are willing to go to the end of the world for a complete stranger. They got laid left and right.

You’re here asking this question because SOMEONE ELSE told you you’re too nice. Which is their opinion. Fuck their opinions. Opinions are dime a dozen. The cheapest commodity on the whole fucking planet.

Put yourself first and do you brosky!

livelearnplay · 2020-04-14T23:27:35+00:00

I would recommend the book, “ no more mr nice guy”

Thoremboar · 2020-04-14T23:34:50+00:00

If you structure what you say just to please other people it can come across as weak. What helped for me was to speak your honest opinions and really just talk to please yourself. People tend to follow whoever has the most firm beliefs so stand strong and you'll naturally become more respected.

ryan_sin · 2020-04-14T23:28:59+00:00

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Title	Too nice?
Author	ryan_sin
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Comments	9
Date	April 14, 2020 11:21 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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