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[–]edgar_alan_bro 3 points4 points5 points 14 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Of course she was interested. You seem like an awesome, well rounded guy, you look good, you have the confidence (your lying to yourself when you say its fake) and your pretty smart. You should've asked! You had nothing to lose but a lot to gain. But its OK you practiced, faced your fears, and best of all got to talk to a beautiful woman.
[–]it_wasnt_me_ 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
edgar alan bro, you are def a bro. i think i got more of an ego boost from your comment than talking to a beautiful woman. you are awesome!
[–]edgar_alan_bro 3 points4 points5 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good to hear. Now next time go make them ladies faint
[–]chet_hunter 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
the obvious brother, ask her to break you off a piece of that math. digits girl. digits.
eat ass
[–]it_wasnt_me_ 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i should have used those exact words.
[–]hotwingz83 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Just say something along the lines of "Well it was really nice meeting you, we should meet for a drink sometime. Give me your number and I'll call you". I always ask for the number as a command, such as hand them your phone and say "Here put your number in my phone". Always number close, otherwise, why even talk to them?
[–]it_wasnt_me_ 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
well i think the latter approach is a bit too aggressive since i am a laidback kind of guy and i dont want to make her feel uncomfortable either. the reason i didnt ask for her number was because i didnt feel like we had built up enough rapport to go for that. 10 more mins of bsing and it would have been fine. is there any other way to subtly imply that you want her number?
[–]hotwingz83 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Girls like it when guys take charge. You aren't being pushy, you are just letting her know what she wants. If you are getting IOI's, the next step is to plan a meetup. Hesitating too long will show you are not confident and haven't done this before. It felt awkward for me at first but after a few successes it becomes natural. Just try it...
Think about it this way: Say she is really interested in you and wants you to ask and you don't do it out of fear of being pushy. You just missed out on a girl who really dug you and you will never see her again. Worst case scenario she says no and you never see her again. Best case scenario...well you know that one.
[–]it_wasnt_me_ 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
makes sense. you dont know til you know. i plan on doing this today when i talk to some other beautiful girl on the train. thank you sir.
[–]hotwingz83 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just think: She probably wants you to ask for her number too because she is into you. What girl doesn't want to go home and say "This handsome nice guy asked me for my number on the train today:)".
[–]it_wasnt_me_ 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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