Uk university 18y/o approach

OnlyDreamsNow · 2017-01-12T17:15:35+00:00

19 yr old at uni. I go to flat parties and talk to girls, add them on instagram/fb get their snapchat and then send them a selfie saying something flirty or playful or whatever, if they reply positively just keep talking. I talk to them about music or if they like my room and shit like that. Usually on from there I just ask if they wanna hang out and often get invited over to netflix and chill. If the girl gives you a bland response like huh?? I wouldn't give it too many tries and would suggest moving on. There's a lot of girls at uni and when they're not into me I just move on.

edit: also my dude I'd like to add don't do this with the expection of getting sex, I just do it for fun and just mess around with them like friends would. do however make your intentions clear from the start but don't make it creepy or seem desperate unless you know they're gagging for it.

Boo-urns93 · 2017-01-12T19:06:49+00:00

Depends what your aim is.

If you're looking for a serious relationship immediately then coffee or lunch is fine.

However, if you're looking for something more casual then drinks is good or as the other poster said invite them round 'to watch a movie'.

If you're looking for just sex then clubbing is your best bet. One night stands as a result of going clubbing are pretty common at uni. I would also recommend joining a society that has mixed genders. They're almost incestuous with the amount of people from within the society that have slept with each other and it will also be a good crowd to go clubbing with.

If you've been texting a girl for a bit or met up a few times try and meet up with her on a night out. For e.g if it came up in conversation that she was going to x club on Wednesday you could be like 'oh yeah, me too, might see you there'. Then on that night you exchange some texts throughout the night, then meet with her in the club. Then you dance, get with her and maybe go back to one of yours.

Title	Uk university 18y/o approach
Author	throwawysed
Upvotes	5
Comments	11
Date	January 12, 2017 11:40 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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