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[–]EnvironmentalTwister 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Approach during the day, places where you have commonalities (in class, exercise class/activity) etc
[–]acava2424 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
When I was your age I got a job at a popular restaurant, I couldn't believe how many girls I met that way. That being said I grew up in Los Angeles so there was no shortage of options
[–]TheNiceGuy___ 8 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
I’m in LA too, from the valley
[–]levelUpLA 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm also from the valley 36 years old, did pua for 1 1/2 years, I talk about this all the time but PUA is mostly a waste of time in the valley, I rather you become a "natural" or the go-to guy as I call it for cool events, and things to do. Pretty much the guy who fills his life with substance and the guy everyone knows who is just cool.
I didn't grow up in the valley, but this is what I did at your age however it's a bit different now with social media and whatnot, Make friends at nightclubs and invite them over. Build a rep with promotors so soon as you turn 21 you can work better clubs. Most 18+ clubs suck as far as looks for women go but just be social. (plenty of my fat girlfriends brought hot cousins to me for being just a normal none pushy dude)
Do go to the Goth/hip-hop 18+ clubs (Boardners, OHM Nightclub, Grand star) but also go to places like Roxy, the echo, los globos (beware everyone knows each other for boarders, los globos, grand star) and the girls who go aren't really attractive to me at least. OHM has hot chicks but imo not worth all the drama ( so many fights due to underage drinking)
If I had to do it over again I would do ballet, yoga, gymnastics or take a women's study class at mission or valley college. Talk to everyone but only flirt with the hot girls, lie to them you have VIP at a nightclub ( pay for there way in duh) Trust me it's worth it if you pick up the girls and pay for them. (pre game in your car) 3 girls in your car I'm sure you can fuck one of 3 if you pick all 3 up in different locations, or let them pay for uber nowadays lol
IMO be okay with everything and you will get laid way more often meaning be okay to fuck in front of your friends, be okay with fucking a few fat chicks (just to get over the novelty of being a pua),work on your body, flirt with everyone even guys, be okay with settling for layup lays (the last girl who is in your car duh) sooner or later you will become a natural and you can move away from the shitty valley and score hot girls.. let me know if you have any questions
[–]acava2424 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Valencia. Live in Santa Monica these days
[–]TheNiceGuy___ 8 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
What do promoters do in clubs like wtf even are they and why does it matter that I get to know some?
[–]mymuse100 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Promoter here in the festival edm space/locally norcal. I met an instagram cannabis model at lightning in a bottle this year. She goes i love lib but i hate having to wait a whole year... i go all i do is promo hippy festivals, and get invited to renegades in town. When shes like im bored in town wtf id there to do. This year NN has emerald cup.
I also told her about chalice cup and that bassnectar was headlining. She didnt even know about these event and she wants to go get a hotel with me. Ps shes probably paying for the hotel.
Also promoters can make expensive clubs realllly cheap. I dont pay for motiv on a wed because i know the scene that runs it. I hit 18+festivals in a year and havent paid for 1. Also you always know something to do and who is big playing. My july is all booked festivals and some im trying to go with sernna in town and out of town. company and prmoters throw events, to promotions, to marketing and PR. It’s just incredible now how these have become actual jobs.
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