Use "How" questions to keep the conversation going

GET_IN_THE_VAN · 2018-03-15T22:54:34+00:00

I posted this as a written article a month ago and it seemed to help a lot of people. This is the video version. The written version can be found here

amauryt · 2018-03-16T05:24:24+00:00

Yeah, but... how???

recyclablebanthas · 2018-03-17T04:30:52+00:00

To supplement this, the main thing is active listening to the person you're talking to and use the information you pick up to follow-up on what she just said.

Singling out why questions as bad because the person could say they don't know is not a valid knock against all why questions. Why questions are great. Any question that's not a yes/no question is great.
The issue with someone who can't or won't tell you the answer to a "why" question, is that they're failing or refusing to connect, or they just suck as a person. They don't know why they got the job they have? They just did it because they were running their life on auto-pilot? This is just them failing as a person and failing a shit test.

Advising people to ignore it when a person is lame, is not the best way to go.

Title	Use "How" questions to keep the conversation going
Author	GET_IN_THE_VAN
Upvotes	74
Comments	3
Date	March 15, 2018 10:52 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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