Value and vulnerability

quinntuplets · 2016-10-14T23:40:42+00:00

Being a leader of men just means making decisions based on what you want to do. Not really that important in most settings. The cure for neediness is simply knowing that you are enough. That means you know that people would like you if they knew your authentic. You have to know in your head that there are girls out there that will be attracted to you and that you do not "need" to be with one specific girl but rather just that you want her.

Leo947 · 2016-10-15T02:32:56+00:00

Be assertive. That's all it means. Don't worry about why it's important, just do it.
The cause doesn't matter. You're not trying to achieve psychological enlightenment and fix all of your issues, you're trying to get results. Nobody can read your mind. If you aren't doing anything that comes across as needy then nobody thinks you're needy.

Too many guys try to rationalize their failures by assuming that they did or said something that betrayed their inner blah blah blah. It isn't true. She didn't think you were attractive or she wasn't interested in hooking up with anyone. Don't worry about magically changing her mind, just move on to the next one.

Title	Value and vulnerability
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	October 14, 2016 9:57 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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