So a few questions for this:

First is this a thing? Is setting up a video date taboo if there is no possible way of meeting another in person? (such as long distance)

If it is a thing is there a way of actually making it happen? Should you start with some texting/facebook-messaging to get her to videochat with you-- and then go on with the videochat

lastly, what would be things you can say or...do?