Visualization technique to bust approach anxiety?

TopMali · 2020-04-14T00:17:34+00:00

I mean whatever works for you, personally I just stay aware that all women are inherently insecure and as long as I give enough validation to get her on the hook but not enough for her to take me for granted it’s definitely going to be a smooth walk.

Just don’t put the punani on a pedestal

Zenath01 · 2020-04-14T02:11:17+00:00

Practice. If you suck at approaching, “these five magic words will make any woman eat your asshole!!!” These tactics and techniques are complete bullshit. You only get proficient at something through continuous micro victories. Week 1- Everyday for a pretend your phone is broken and ask 5 random girls what time it, than walk the away. Week 2- everyday ask 5 girls their names. Then walk away. Week 3-introduce yourself to 5 girls. 2 min of small talk. Walk away. Etc. Etc. Don’t look for a shortcut and start putting in the work. In 2 months you’ll never be afraid to approach again.

Zenath01 · 2020-04-14T02:43:11+00:00

Use this time to get your mind, body and game right. I wouldn’t approach people directly right now. I don’t unless they’re my one of my regulars. I don’t appreciate it when randoms cold approach me right now. The ones that do are desperate, and you don’t need those girls. Do honest objective assessments and develop your plan right now. Work on bringing your market value up. You don’t have to be in the 1%. Just better as a complete package than most of your competitors.

bemore_ · 2020-04-14T12:40:45+00:00

Anxiety starts in your head but lives in your body. You just have to drop your attention into your body amd relax as much as possible. Your mind will follow your body

Zenath01 · 2020-04-14T02:25:43+00:00

You got this👍. Put in the hours. Leaders aren’t born, they’re made. Likewise with smooth guys. Make honest assessments of yourself and make a plan. Does your fashion need help? Your body? Your eye contact? Be resourceful. You got this.

2020-04-14T02:40:43+00:00

Just talk to people. Obviously you can’t now but when you have the opportunity, talk to whoever is closest

theatom88 · 2020-04-14T09:28:50+00:00

speed. the longer you delay the approach the more anxious you'll get. don't think. just act. have faith in your game. you see the girl; you make your move ASAP

Nicaddicted · 2020-04-14T16:07:53+00:00

Honestly the best way for me is to look at your surroundings, where we are, how you got here, what was before you were born? What’s after you die? What are we truly?

We are animals.. with a conscious, we have thoughts and emotions and those are getting in the way.

We are on a giant rock hurdling through an endless vacuum that is a size so large that you could take every grain of sand on this planet and separate them one by one 6 miles apart and that’ll give you a representation of how big the universe is, observable universe.

What was before you were born? Nothing

So nothing matters, if you get rejected then she’s rejecting you to move onto an even more attractive and an even better sexual partner.

You’ll need to get rejected about 100 times until you start to have fun with being ejected.. by fun I mean you’ll start to think of fucked up ways to approach, maybe you want to be bold and whisper in her ear that you are an undercover officer and you’re going to have to tie her up and bring her back to your place after she finishes her drink.

After rejection 200 times, doesn’t matter if she’s the baddest bitch you’ve ever seen. It will not effect you, you’ll talk to her like you’re talking to the lady at the grocery check out that’s maybe a 6/10.

Talking to girls is just like the first time you hopped in a vehicle, you had sweaty palms, shaky arms, cranky voice. After driving for a year or two you get a lot more comfortable and that anxiety goes away. How? Experience.. repetition

It’s like any sport, skill, language, writing, math. The more you practice the better and more confident you will be

Title	Visualization technique to bust approach anxiety?
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Date	April 14, 2020 12:14 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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