Waiting too long

champlu · 2017-09-24T16:12:57+00:00

Moving on is the only thing to do here. It seems like she knows you have these feelings for her, but she sees you as just a friend. It really sucks, but it's happened to all of us and the best thing to do is to move on. Time always helps with getting over these kind of feelings. Definitely do not tell her how you feel.

jimmiepop · 2017-09-24T16:01:47+00:00

DO NOT TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL.

This is a classic case of One-itis and being Friend - Zoned. You need to stop being so picky, develop a little game, fuck some other women. So you can stop obsessing over this girl. It's not healthy. Good luck.

You_Have_No_Power · 2017-09-24T15:39:58+00:00

If she didn’t tell you she liked a guy or was seeing a guy. You’re not special to her, sorry. Seemed like she needed you as an emotional crutch.

You’re going to need space. Be cordial but don’t do shit for her.

privacy_agreements · 2017-09-24T16:08:00+00:00

Geez don't tell her how you feel. Just move on she did.

ThatOneGuyFrom93 · 2017-09-24T19:33:09+00:00

Ask her questions that suggests she has a boyfriend without suggesting you're interested. She'll either deny that she has a boyfriend or say they're not really together (You have a chance here if you want to take it!) or she'll agree/ not deny it (Which you should just keep her as a friend for now and move forward. Don't be a dick).

p0r1x · 2017-09-24T16:20:09+00:00

I have to disagree with the posts above. You should definitely tell her how you feel!!! I mean how else would she understand how you feel if you don’t tell her. She might reject you which would suck but it would still be better to know than to just wonder. If she rejects you distance yourself and move. No matter what you do your friendship is dead so don’t let that stop you. Man up, tell her how you feel and face the music. That’s what i would do.

ThatOneGuyFrom93 · 2017-09-24T16:17:58+00:00

I'd say you should just treat her as a friend and flirt with other women at this point; if you must, ask her about her dating situation and depending on her response laugh and discuss it as a friend or make a move. When moving on just don't fall into the same situation by not asking them out on a date for months. Most people aren't gonna wait around forever waiting on you to make a move. People lose interest or will think you have your eyes on someone else. If she's always smiling, laughing, asking you questions, remembering small details, and touching you casually SHE LIKES YOU ASK HER OUT ON A DATE NOW. And don't call it hanging out as it's not clear enough that you want to be more than friends.

Title	Waiting too long
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	10
Comments	17
Date	September 24, 2017 2:57 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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