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[–]Pedalcrunch 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
yeah ask her, but keep in mind she might turn you down and you guys work together.
[–]Zave__ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
see that’s what i don’t want to do, because it might make things awkward if she says no
[–]rustoof 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Seducing co workers is delicate. Basically, you show up to work, look good, be competent and dont be a bitch (no complaining, no crying, no getting frustrated). Then you ask if they want to get a drink together after work (I guess for you guys that would be a snack). For plausible deniability its best if youve asked a couple other coworkers to hang out first. That way its not blatantly obvious you just want her.
Once youre hanging out just you and her then its the same as any other set. Just be sure its worth it. I slept with my coworker a couple times and now she said something about me and now my boss who I used to be friends with barely speaks to me. Still totally worth it.
[–]Zave__ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
ok, i see what your saying, but every post about co workers i’ve seen say it’s a bad idea
[–]rustoof 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
The number one place people meet their spouses is at work. Ive slept with 4 coworkers in my life and everytime was worth it.
[–]Zave__ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
ok then i guess it’s just up to me to make a move, our past convos were good, i’m just not sure that she likes me
[–]rustoof 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If she wont hang out with you outside of work as friends then you had no chance anyway. If she just wants to be friends you have plausible deniability.
[–]Zave__ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
how do i go about hanging out with her outside of work, like what would we do
[–]rustoof 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Get coffee. Get dessert. If she does something helpful at work just be like "hey thanks for doing x for me. Can I buy you a y treat from z place thats nearby to say thanks?"
ok, i might try that
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