Hey guys, been lurking here for quite a long time now, im also new to dating (never had a gf, early 20s). This is kinda like a FR and asking for advice in one so lets start. So i met this girl, about my age, while going out. We noticed each other because we are from the same town so we started talking casually an nothing special happened. We added each other on social media like snapchat and instagram and after a long time of writing back and forth we agreed on a date, and yes we BOTH called it a date ! So i picked her up from her place and we drove to a near hill where we chilled and talked for about 3 hours. Nothing special happened. I didn't really enjoy the date because she was very shy and did not talk much so i thougt of not meeting up again, but she insisted on a second date which was a big surprise for me tbh. I agreed because she is very hot, 8 out of 10 at least ! So on the second one, she was way more talkative and we felt a much better vibe, so after eye contact for a long time (secs +) and slight kino from both sides, i just thought "fuck it" and kissed her and we made out for about 2h lol. Things were heating up in my car as we started undressing each other, it was unbelieveable for an introverted virgin like me. Unfortunately we did not have sex but it was fine for me. We met up a couple times after that and she always told me that everything is perfect how its is right now. Everything felt like paradise and i thougt "what could possibly go wrong now ?" Thats where she started to cut contact more and more till the point we barely spoke or even wrote each other. She never told me a specific reason. One time the fact that she is going on a 3 month trip during summer was her problem, the other day she just said it simply didn't work out for her. Any idea of what could have been the reason for her going cold ?