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[–]puaCurveBall[M] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl
This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides.
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Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
[–]Tobzn[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks man. Will repost it ;)
[–]Tombstone31 -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The whole "debt" thing is a no-go. It doesn't sound like it was a flirty excuse to make out; instead, you were actually holding it over her head. By definition that's manipulative, and betrays a lack of belief in yourself that this girl would hook up with you because she liked you. It's also pretty creepy IMO.
[–]jimmyayo 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude its just a flirty game. Do you really think this girl was making out with him and then following him outside to continue because of some real debt that he was holding over her head? Girls love playing flirty games with guys. OP did well w/ that whole debt thing.
But he lost the girl's attention by talking to his cousin for too long.
[–]Tombstone31 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do YOU really think that a girl would walk away from a guy she's interested in because he stops to talk to his cousin for 30 seconds? I think she walked away because he pushed the debt thing too hard.
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