So this chick I met via tinder on a thursday came out to hang out with me on saturday at my home. So the date went fine, we kissed got her topless on my lap and shit but she didn't want to have sex on the first date. She texted me the same night about how nice it was to meet me.

The next day we texted a bit but it wasn't like before we met. So I found a way to see if she still liked me and she said she did, we set up a date for thursday but she was cold as fuck texting at times and then sometimes she's just texting normally about what she's doing and bla bla.

So whenever she responds with a single smiley or whatever I kept initiating (not endlessly), but after a while I just stopped texting because I felt she wasn't as interested in me as I was in her. I Pulled back for a day no contact.

I text her on wednesday to ask her what time she wants to hang out. She tells me she's not sure if she still wants to hang out she's not sure about what she wants. So I tell her its cool but I asked why. She said she doesn't know why but she does like me. Then she said I shouldn't plan around her or some shit.

At that point I was ready to walk away and told her I'm not planning anything around her because we are not going to be seeing eachother anymore.
So after that she texts me back with yeah no I still really want to hang out with you. So I gave her the option to hang out on sunday. She tells me she doesn't know whats she's going to be doing in the weekends but she'll think about it. BIG WTF from my side here but I was like alright we'll see.

So thursday comes we chatted a bit I told her I liked the way she kissed (we where on the subject of kissing) me she responds with some stupid ":)", so I just switched the subject, she still gives me cold answers so I stopped talking.

I stopped till the next day midday, I was planning to ask her out for drinks at a specific place and time no chitchat or whatever for this saturday. If she doesn't want that I'm out. Is this the right thing to do? I don't feel like wasting anymore time on this girl.