What do men want?

Captain_w00t · 2024-08-01T10:34:35+00:00

I have to block this thread before it becomes a huge flame (to say the least).

However, I want to leave some some sort of generic answer:

you can’t fit an entire population (males in this specific case) into a single box
regardless of gender or age, everyone is different, there’s some people which is a “chronic cheater” for whatever reason (usually, total lack of confidence and craving for validation), while others are loyal at any cost
as you said, everyone has preferences in terms of look or sex, and there are always exceptions. There is people with extreme kinks that can’t have sex without doing it in a certain way (eg: some people into BDSM), while others are just open to vanilla as well
same goes for the “innocent Vs dirty”, sometimes it’s a matter of age or culture. many men would love a “talk dirty” girlfriend, except that they wouldn’t marry her. I have had friend which considered their girlfriend “innocent and pure”, but then they cheated with the other ones.

There isn’t an universal truth, it’s also a matter of maturity and communication.

What I suggest is, as always, to be yourself and to do what you think is right for you. Let yourself to be open to new things as well, but if it doesn’t fit your personality, you can’t force yourself to please someone else.

You look very young (and apparently from some conservative culture), you’ll have your opportunities to explore and make experiences.

Captain_w00t · 2024-08-01T10:34:15+00:00

I have to block this thread before it becomes a huge flame (to say the least).

However, I want to leave some some sort of generic answer:

you can’t fit an entire population (males in this specific case) into a single box
regardless of gender or age, everyone is different, there’s some people which is a “chronic cheater” for whatever reason (usually, total lack of confidence and craving for validation), while others are loyal at any cost
as you said, everyone has preferences in terms of look or sex, and there are always exceptions. There is people with extreme kinks that can’t have sex without doing it in a certain way (eg: some people into BDSM), while others are just open to vanilla as well
same goes for the “innocent Vs dirty”, sometimes it’s a matter of age or culture. many men would love a “talk dirty” girlfriend, except that they wouldn’t marry her. I have had friend which considered their girlfriend “innocent and pure”, but then they cheated with the other ones.

There isn’t an universal truth, it’s also a matter of maturity and communication.

What I suggest is, as always, to be yourself and to do what you think is right for you. Let yourself to be open to new things as well, but if it doesn’t fit your personality, you can’t force yourself to please someone else.

You look very young (and apparently from some conservative culture), you’ll have your opportunities to explore and make experiences.

Title	What do men want?
Author	BellatrixBellpepper
Upvotes	19
Comments	2
Date	August 1, 2024 10:10 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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