Today it just made click for me. I´m still not quite sure how or why but today I just figured it out how to talk to any girl I want to. I was just sitting there in the bus next to that easily 8/10 blonde girl and said "Hey.". She had her earphones plugged in so she didn´t hear me. I could have just given up there but I didn´t. I slowly waved at her in her peripheral vision. She took them out and we got into a funny conversation. Two minutes in I pulled out my phone and let her punch her number in. She even recommended me to join her at her Zumba dance class. She says it´s always fun though sad that there are no guys.

I was pretty amazed by my new found abilities and basically went throughout the day talking to more pretty girls. At the end of the day I gathered a couple more. Wondering how good my game got I decided to try my luck in a club. Confident and suavely I entered the dancefloor and quickly made aquaintance with several people. Guys, girls, you name it. I animated some to dance, spun some around, ChaChaCha'd and Waltzed,etc. but in the end... I just could not land at the dancing crowd.

I´m good in conversation now I guess, since I could easily approach pretty much anyone and rope into a happy chat, but what is the secret of the club scene? I could not build enough rapport (I assume so at least) with the girls I danced with to at least kiss them. I´ve seen some other guys kissing the girls I warmed up but what is it about clubbing I still lack of? I had socialised with almost everybody, was enjoying myself, kinoed, and was stone cold sober through it all.

I´m assuming I´m just not really the club type. Afterwards I managed to get me three more numbers and got into a conversation with other strangers, so I don´t think I lost my mojo. So I´d just like to know "What makes a clubman?" or "How to succeed in clubs".