Let me say that I am fresh out of a relationship (about a mo.) and I've never been great with attracting women. So I decided that I wanted to up my game and I started reading this sub-reddit.
Things I have been reading about include your "inner game" and "outer game" as well as kino (sp?). I've also just been reading some really great tips in general that are good for talking to not only women but anyone in any social setting.
RESULTS
I've been much more confident in who I am. I am starting to believe in myself more and more as every day passes.
I don't put attractive women on a pedestal.
I've gotten about 10 numbers since I started applying these new tactics to my mind-frame and social approach. I know that might not be a lot to you guys, but to me, that's CRAZY! I've been reading this stuff for only 2 weeks!
I took a beautiful girl on a date and we are going on another date.
The don't-be-sorry for being you advice has helped me tremendously.
Some interesting obstacles I've ran into include not knowing the right time or even if I should move things to my place. And HOW would I go about doing that? I'm 24 and met a 34 year old at the bar and wanted to get her back to my place.
Also, I've been struggling with what I want. Part of me wants to settle down with a girl because I know how awesome just having one girl and not chasing girls is. Part of me wants to chase girls because it is fun. I just don't know and I'm not sure how to go about finding that out. I mean I love going out on dates with a girl and going back to my place and just chilling but I also love the bar scene and just talking up a bunch of ladies. I even like talking to ladies in public. It's thrilling. And while I don't NEED a girlfriend, I know a good girlfriend can be great and very helpful.
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