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| 1 | How to build comfort?How do you do this? | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is really insaneGl with that | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is really insaneim talking about within the context of online dating, specifically hinge. my b i may not have made that clear | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 04:30 AM |
| 5 | Cold approaching is really insanejust nature of the game. also depending on your charms and looks you can reduce the rate of flaking. thats the whole game brotha. or online dating. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Cold approaching is really insaneCold approach I feel like it is. You're prolly right bout overthinking jt | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is really insaneNah like maybe if I could see some snapshots from some text condos? Any tips on building rapport? | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:18 PM |
| 11 | Cold approaching is really insaneA girl has to be pretty damn attracted to you in order for her to take the leap of faith, meet up with you, and believe she will probably not get assaulted. She does t k ow you from a hole in the wall. It's super tough. Atleast for me. Can't be awkward or too shy ir too aggressive or too pussy, can't run out of things to say | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 01:48 PM |
| 9 | Cold approaching is really insaneWould it be cool if I saw some of your convos? I ho estly feel like that would be the most helpful thing for me. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 01:45 PM |
| 16 | Cold approaching is really insanehwo do you keep it from being like an interview? | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 03:48 AM |
| 74 | Cold approaching is really insaneagreed. good for you OP, keep it up. but numbers/insta's are almost worthless. Out of 10 numbers you get you'll be lucky if you get one date. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | 30 Signs A Woman ISN'T Interested In Youhow do you deal with it? biggest one i deal with is with girls not asking questions, and/or giving short answers with little elaboration. advice? | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Is daygame a waste of time?you don't find endless hook ups to become unfulfilling after awhile? im not gonna lie. i want your womanizing skills but i also don't want to be 50 and not married to a woman i love. no offense. thanks for the words of encouragement tho, i've needed them. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 10:12 PM |
| 1 | The laughing chickengod, i feel bad for women reading this shit. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 08:17 PM |
| 2 | The laughing chickenbro. take the loss and move on. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Girl Punches Guy 3 Times In Face - Gets Punch Backyou can tell he's a dumbass by looking at his sideburns. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/08/20 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Haha this hits close to home since my mother is a large turd and divorced my father, who has to do everythingjesus christ she is sexy as hell. too bad. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/08/20 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Girl being detained tries to walk off, gets slammed face first. Denieddamn. she was being dumb and brought that on herself, but I still feel bad she got hurt that bad. this isn't PPD btw.. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/09/19 07:41 AM |
| 3 | The 13 Dont's of GamingHoly fuck, the Bipolar one... I just got out of a relationship with a chick with Bipolar. When she took her meds she was fine, so I'd say that mostly only applies if it is **unmedicated** bipolar. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 05:35 PM |
| 1 | To the guys that get sexual relationships relatively easily. What's your story? How did you change?What were you like when you started. How bad was your social anxiety? What was your social life and self esteem like? What progress have you made? | /r/seduction | 20/04/17 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Let's forget getting laid for a second. How do you get a solid, tight-knit social circle?Yeah, and most people don't go 8 years meeting countless people and having none of them become close friends. You guys don't get it. It's a deeper, more complicated problem than just taking the initiative... | /r/seduction | 20/04/17 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Let's forget getting laid for a second. How do you get a solid, tight-knit social circle?8 years of meeting people dude. Out of everyone I've ever hungout with in 8 years no one has actively showed interest. Its more than that. | /r/seduction | 20/04/17 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Let's forget getting laid for a second. How do you get a solid, tight-knit social circle?in it. | /r/seduction | 19/04/17 05:01 AM |
| 11 | Let's forget getting laid for a second. How do you get a solid, tight-knit social circle?Seems legit... | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Let's forget getting laid for a second. How do you get a solid, tight-knit social circle?Before I do this, can you explain why and what this is all about? | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 11:13 PM |
| 13 | Let's forget getting laid for a second. How do you get a solid, tight-knit social circle?And do the work What do you mean? As for types of friends. Yeah, I do want to party a lot. And my natural tendency when I'm not bogged down by depression, insecurities - basically when I'm in a good state - is to be extroverted and fun and happy. But usually I have some slight depression, insecurity, and shyness. | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 11:12 PM |
| 18 | Let's forget getting laid for a second. How do you get a solid, tight-knit social circle?How do genuine, loving friendships form, then? How do you get people emotionally invested in me? I don't want to go around trying to scheme over how to get each person I meet more invested in me, you know? I just want genuine, organic relationships that form naturally. Why does it take so much effort for me when there are people wayyyyyyy more awkward than me that have social lives that are way more fulfilling than mine? For the longest time I thought - mainly due to watching RSD - I had to be t… | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 10:56 PM |
| 1 | A girl recently friendzoned me. Kinda sucks but it's ok because she's a cool person that'd be a fun friend to have. Question...Word. Thanks. Another guy also noted how me saying "Take care" was just obvious that I was trying to play some kind of mind game to "get her back" and invest, which I wasn't consciously thinking at the time, but I realize I was DEFINITELY subconsciously thinking it, so now i see how that was pretty weird. | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 10:46 PM |
| 1 | A girl recently friendzoned me. Kinda sucks but it's ok because she's a cool person that'd be a fun friend to have. Question..."Marry me?" Isnt something I would ever say over text. In person yes, but it's hard to lose the context. You mean like it's easy to take out of context? If so, how? Isn't it pretty obvious - just like it'd be in person - that it's a joke? How would you have responded? Then you follow up with a needy text saying "take care"... That shit gets you nowhere. It's a solid text if your literally done with her completly. But it sounds like you're trying to mind game her and win her back by playing hard … | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 08:41 PM |
| 1 | A girl recently friendzoned me. Kinda sucks but it's ok because she's a cool person that'd be a fun friend to have. Question...Also your texts were crazy needy. Which ones, and how so? What should I have said instead? "Marry me?" just seemed like a funny exaggeration that could possibly lead to flirting "Cheating on me already? Take care" Just doesn't seem needy what-so-ever to me, so I could definitely use some explaining for that one. After she friendzoned me I gave up on trying to flirt and just wrapped it up "Me too, Holly." At the time nothing else really occurred to me to say. What was needy about this? What would… | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 08:33 PM |
| 1 | A girl recently friendzoned me. Kinda sucks but it's ok because she's a cool person that'd be a fun friend to have. Question...Keep it platonic from here on out, then? | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 08:19 PM |
| 1 | I don't fucking get it.solid tips man, thanks. have you ever dealt with the shit i was talking about, as far as prolonged periods of frustration, especially at the beginning? | /r/seduction | 16/04/17 01:17 AM |
| 2 | I don't fucking get it.You've been downvoted but honestly I think this is true. I am desperate as fuck. It's hard not to be at 22 and only ever having had sex twice and one shitty hand job in my entire life, you know? I know desperation is cancer but like... how the fuck am I not supposed to be desperate. To me it's like tell a starving person not to be hungry. Genuinely asking, how do you stop being desperate when you are genuinely desperate. | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I don't fucking get it.not knowing how to text to actually secure the date, etc. speaking of which, can you provide any tips? To give a scenario, I approach a girl during the day time. The number close wasn't that strong, but not terrible. Where do you go form there? | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 11:48 PM |
| 0 | I don't fucking get it.kill yo self | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 01:46 PM |
| 2 | I don't fucking get it.did you read my post at all?... | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 12:45 PM |
| 7 | I don't fucking get it.No offense dude but this is common knowledge. I've done hundreds of approaches. | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 06:55 AM |
| 2 | I don't fucking get it.Sets just dont go anywhere. Thats really all there is to it. Either they go nowhere, or I get a number but they don't respond, or more recently I'll get a day 2 but then they cancel. | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 05:11 AM |
| 1 | *All* of my numbers flake. All of them. How do I get past this?You gotta make her invest in you and the interaction a bit to leave a workable impression. How the fuck does one do this??? | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 02:31 PM |
| 1 | *All* of my numbers flake. All of them. How do I get past this?word. good to know. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 04:16 AM |
| 1 | *All* of my numbers flake. All of them. How do I get past this?word, thanks man, I'm going to implement this asap | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 04:15 AM |
| 2 | *All* of my numbers flake. All of them. How do I get past this?says cocky_douchebag, lol Any examples? | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 04:14 AM |
| 2 | *All* of my numbers flake. All of them. How do I get past this?Sprinkled across the past 3 years, I'd say roughly 200-300 girls? | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 01:41 AM |
| 1 | *All* of my numbers flake. All of them. How do I get past this?I text them. I don't put a lot of thought into my text game (maybe I should?). I just say hey, whats up, or maybe be a bit more cheeky like "Handle you liquor this weekend?". IDK, I don't have one thing that I do every time. With the most recent girl I just texted her "Hey, whats up" If they respond then I try to make small talk and then try to set up a day 2. But like I said, I never get Day 2's. The vast, vast majority of the time they don't even respond. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 01:36 AM |
| 1 | *All* of my numbers flake. All of them. How do I get past this?You're not giving them a reason for them to want to go out with you. Any tips on doing this? Like I said, my game is: approach direct, make a bit of small talk, make them laugh a bit and say "You seem cool, let's keep in touch" and number close. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 10:59 PM |
| 2 | They're people.lmao | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Fuck these repetitive click bait articles. Let's talk about *actionable* DRILLS we can do to chip away at our sticking points.Exactly. Mark (btw, Models is a FANTASTIC book, anyone could benefit from it) is talking about living a lifestyle that will provide you with more oppurtunities with women that you are likely to be compatable with. An excellent strategy. BUT you still need to know what to do with those women, those "opportunities". So sticking points are in fact important, and to ignore them is a bad mistake. | /r/seduction | 30/10/16 07:49 PM |
| 1 | It's Saturday of Halloween weekend, which means it's the best night of the year. Don't stay in. Go out solo if you must.Nah, I hear you. | /r/seduction | 30/10/16 05:26 PM |
| 4 | 80% of my approaches don't last over a minute. How do I open better?Except that organic relationships don't happen to everybody. I've only had a few ever. This is more important than getting one night stands or superficial fuck buddy relationships, dude. Handle this. | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 04:01 AM |
| 2 | 80% of my approaches don't last over a minute. How do I open better?This is so vague. For one, how do you usually open? Are you smiling? What do you typically say? | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 03:58 AM |
| 1 | As a beginner I am constantly paranoid about showing too much interest. Can some *experienced* people here give some on advice on how much interest to show?Man, I resonate with the approval seeking a lot. I feel stuck with it. I know I should depend on it to feel good but I totally do. Super insecure, especially around women, idk how to break it, my self-esteem sucks. How do you get rid of that need for approval?? | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 03:14 AM |
| 1 | As a beginner I am constantly paranoid about showing too much interest. Can some *experienced* people here give some on advice on how much interest to show?Good advice, thank you | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 12:59 AM |
| 1 | As a beginner I am constantly paranoid about showing too much interest. Can some *experienced* people here give some on advice on how much interest to show?Nice man. What has your pick up-journey been like? Did you learn to become less boring? | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 12:59 AM |
| 3 | As a beginner I am constantly paranoid about showing too much interest. Can some *experienced* people here give some on advice on how much interest to show?i hear you but still, i sitll wanna keep in touch with her so she doesn't forget about me, no? How much experience do you have with this type of stuff? | /r/seduction | 25/10/16 12:29 AM |
| 3 | As a beginner I am constantly paranoid about showing too much interest. Can some *experienced* people here give some on advice on how much interest to show?A couple of fun/funny/flirty texts before suggesting a meet up is fine, but don't sit around texting back and forth She's in cali and coming to NY where i live in a month. so it complicates things. | /r/seduction | 24/10/16 10:40 PM |
| 5 | Feel like I'm missing out because I am depressed. I am depressed because I feel like I'm missing out. How to fucking break this cycle?You lack empathy. Don't give people advice on emotional issues. | /r/seduction | 24/10/16 10:39 PM |
| 8 | Feel like I'm missing out because I am depressed. I am depressed because I feel like I'm missing out. How to fucking break this cycle?It's mainly the 2nd point. "Stop feeling sorry for yourself" is literally the same as "just don't be depressed." That isn't helpful dude, do you really not see that? I know you have good intentions but you're lacking empathy. Is that what someone who is TRAINED in helping depressed people say? "Stop being depressed"? That's the problem, they DON'T KNOW HOW to NOT feel sorry for themselves. It's not just a cut and dry thing. Ultimately the only people who are truly qualified to give advice on dep… | /r/seduction | 24/10/16 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Feel like I'm missing out because I am depressed. I am depressed because I feel like I'm missing out. How to fucking break this cycle?1) See a psychologist. Do CBT and if needed Exposure therapy. 2) See some sort of meditation teacher and learn how to meditate. Everyone tries to teach themselves and then end up having serious misunderstandings in their practice for years, if they even last that long. Dhamma.org. Check that out for FREE 10 day courses at a place near you. Seriously, it's free. At least try it AND THEN decide it's not for you. I know it's intense but it'd only "hard" for the first 2 days. BTW, it changes lives a… | /r/seduction | 24/10/16 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Feel like I'm missing out because I am depressed. I am depressed because I feel like I'm missing out. How to fucking break this cycle?Great advice. "Get over it". How much for a consultation? -_- | /r/seduction | 24/10/16 10:17 PM |
| 1 | 5 Easy Ways to Start a Conversation With Any GirlJUst more of the same rehashed shit that's been said 1 million times. Seddit blows these days | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Am I the only person that finds infield videos creepy as fuck?Look. It is totally creepy. But it's also without a doubt one of the best ways to improve. So either be creepy and awkward forever or do something that is borderline creepy but evolve into someone who is not creepy at all | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 04:04 AM |
| 6 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.Dude let me just say I think you're one of the realest guys on this sub. You have changed my perspective on things. Also I agree, every guy I know that does that approachapproachapproach shit tend to be scum bags that have hard times connecting with people. Also earlier you made the point that a lot of guys can mass approach forever and just be spinning their wheels. I think this is CRITICAL realization that people need to have here. Just approaching a lot is NOT going to make a significant chan… | /r/seduction | 19/10/16 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Woujo's tips for clubbingFuck the haters. Good article, lots of practical advice that is hard to find. I've read your comments and such before and you've changed the way I see and do things. Keep it up. | /r/seduction | 27/09/16 03:13 AM |
| 2 | One of the best videos on insecurities and how to deal with them.Putting him on the pedestal won't help you be like him. | /r/seduction | 16/09/16 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Went to a club. Walked around too scared to approach and feeling shit about itIts just a matter of doing it. god damn it man im so pissed at myself. | /r/seduction | 30/07/16 08:20 AM |
| 1 | is this a seduction subreddit or an infomercial for false promises?What you are saying definitely rings true in my experience. So how does an unconfident- low value guy who become a high value guy? | /r/seduction | 22/07/16 02:10 PM |
| 1 | is this a seduction subreddit or an infomercial for false promises?It is and it isn't. It is definitely a numbers game, but you can't portray it as if there is nothing you can do to improve those numbers. Your body langue, your tonality, your need for approval, your fear of rejection/ridicule, all those things are are factors that are significant in how well you communicate with people. So I definitely think that you should work on different habits in pick up, BUT you shouldn't beat yourself up or blame yourself after every rejection. | /r/seduction | 22/07/16 11:24 AM |
| 1 | is this a seduction subreddit or an infomercial for false promises?most pua shit is nonsense and a scam to take your money. Please, go more into this. I've been reading and watching a lot of pua shit for a while now. I know I'm brainwashed. I don't know where the truth ends and the bullshit starts. What is your perspective, particularly on inner game and RSD? | /r/seduction | 22/07/16 11:06 AM |
| 1 | To guys who are intermediate and beyond, how did your first month or 2 in pick up go, and how did you stop sucking?where did you start deriving it from? im definitely guilty of that, and being that i'm a newbie and i suck i feel shit about myself often | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 09:06 PM |
| 1 | To guys who are intermediate and beyond, how did your first month or 2 in pick up go, and how did you stop sucking?yeah gotta get better at that too any tips? | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 11:11 PM |
| 1 | To guys who are intermediate and beyond, how did your first month or 2 in pick up go, and how did you stop sucking?bout a month or two. I'd say im definitely picking up on patterns a lot more. not getting much results and making a lot of the same mistakes | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Nightclub bouncer gets asked what good pick ups look like (from RSD Nation)lean into their ears bro, not that crazy. like this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XRBOWBlxR1k It builds sexual tension too | /r/seduction | 28/06/16 10:12 AM |
| 1 | How I gamed for 5 years and got 0 results. A couple shifts in the way I was learning, 2 months later, 15 girls under my belt. This video is not about what you shuold do, its more about HOW you should approach pickup, because that's what made the biggest difference for metrying to teach yourself meditation I do not think is the best idea. Its a very deep topic and it isn't just as simple as "focus on your breath". Read up on attachments | /r/seduction | 28/06/16 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Nightclub bouncer gets asked what good pick ups look like (from RSD Nation)It's all about dat "expansive energy" (god I hate PUA lingo). Have fun but SPREAD the fun to those around you | /r/seduction | 27/06/16 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Start watching videos of naturals/celebrities.what makes you say that? | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Start watching videos of naturals/celebrities.I feel like my personality was always kind of weird and beta tho | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Start watching videos of naturals/celebrities.Got any tips on figuring out my own personality? Also, how do have access to all these famous people? | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 03:35 AM |
| 1 | You guys changed my life... from suicidal to wanting to live life.This is a great and inspiring post. I see you are in NY, as am I. Wanna game? | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Here's some of my Tinder conversations from the last couple daysseriously please, can you find that guy with good text game? | /r/seduction | 24/05/16 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Pickup isn't about trying to impress others; it's about having fun with rejection and being confident whether people like you or notWho wrote that? | /r/seduction | 22/05/16 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Let's face an uncomfortable fact. Women will not fulfill us or fix our problems.As for the retreat, were you able to get up and leave at your convenience? I don't really know what you mean, you want to clarify? | /r/seduction | 18/05/16 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Let's face an uncomfortable fact. Women will not fulfill us or fix our problems.Hellll no. You gotta go there man and COMMIT It's 9 days of no talking to anyone (except to the teacher and his assistants), and NO DISTRACTIONS. Just you and your thoughts. No writing materials, no conversation with roommates, no cell phone, no books. It sounds intimidating - I was definitely intimidated - but now I can't wait to do it again. Hopefully for a month. It's so good man. When I was doing it I felt like I literally found the key to life. Then I got home and was not disciplined with m… | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Let's face an uncomfortable fact. Women will not fulfill us or fix our problems.VERY few people bail out. | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Let's face an uncomfortable fact. Women will not fulfill us or fix our problems.All over the world. Dhamma.org | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Let's face an uncomfortable fact. Women will not fulfill us or fix our problems.Then fuck it, go game. But try to keep this in mind every now and then. | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 10:57 AM |
| 6 | Let's face an uncomfortable fact. Women will not fulfill us or fix our problems.I truly don't know and tbh with you, that kind of scares me. I can tell you meditation is almost certainly a part of it though. Therapy. CBT. I really am not sure. One thing I am sure about is this - chasing validation is definitely not the right course of action. | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Let's face an uncomfortable fact. Women will not fulfill us or fix our problems.One thing that I am going to try harder at is to stop feeling like there is something in me I need to fix. I say keep doing approaches, keep flirting, keep trying to expand your comfort zone but at the same time truly try to be ok with who you are, as you are. Wayyyy easier said that done. I know. I don't totally know how to do it myself, and I'm scared. But ultimately I know that this is the root cause. When I lost I just felt like "...so that was it??" It's comparable to seeing a cool movie or… | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Let's face an uncomfortable fact. Women will not fulfill us or fix our problems.I want to pull the hottest girls I can, have a really fucking good time doing crazy shit, create new experiences for myself. Same. My, and a lot of other guy's problem is that I feel less worthy of a person because I don't have those things already. | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Let's face an uncomfortable fact. Women will not fulfill us or fix our problems.Man, you should have written this post. I intended this post as a call to action for myself and others to focus on accepting ourselves. I'm still working on it. Being that you've had success with this idea, please, can you go in depth with how you go to the point you are at now? Were there beliefs that you struggled to let go of, or did you just have an epiphany and then you were changed? | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 11:22 PM |
| 8 | Let's face an uncomfortable fact. Women will not fulfill us or fix our problems.Absolutely. Keep pushing your comfort zone, keep putting yourself out there, but at least try to be ok with where you are at now. It'll make everything about socializing easier. | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 11:20 PM |
| 12 | Let's face an uncomfortable fact. Women will not fulfill us or fix our problems.I totally agree. And that's why I recommend that people still keep putting themselves out there, keep pushing their comfort zones. I used to not even be able to ask old guys for directions. Because of game I can actually approach groups of hot girls. So yes, keep pushing your boundaries, but TRY not to have your self-image tied to it. These sorts of internal shifts we are talking about here are very deep, and not easy to get at all. Way harder then just scaring yourself and getting numb to fears… | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 11:19 PM |
| 6 | Let's face an uncomfortable fact. Women will not fulfill us or fix our problems.dhamma.org Completely free. 10 days. Everyone should at least TRY it, and give up after the first day or something. It's completely secular. They are going to talk about being a moral person, becoming wise, and meditating, nothing about worshiping, getting to nirvana, or any type of shit that you need to put your faith into. | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Is it a sign of disinterest if a girl says she wants to help wing you? Also conflicted about a girl-friend of mine.I appreciate the honest feed back, as well as the perspective it's coming from - that of age and experience. Thank you. How long have you been into pick up? Could you perhaps go more in depth with what your journey with pick up was like as well as your disillusionment with it? Lately I've been becoming a little disillusioned as well, but I stick around because this is the only way for me to get answers in situations that I don't know what to do. | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it a sign of disinterest if a girl says she wants to help wing you? Also conflicted about a girl-friend of mine.Yeah that's what I think as well. | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you keep having amazing sets that look like they're down, but never hear from them again? 2 subtle techniques I learned from women (who did it on me) that skyrocketed my game... I swear to you it's so simple its scaryjesus god please do. there is such a depressing lack of FR's on this sub. | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Is it justifiable for RSD or other companies to charge 3,000 dollars for a bootcamp?I have seen some RSD instructors in the field and I saw some of their videos. I do not think their products are worth 3k. Why? That's pretty valuable information you're leaving out! | /r/seduction | 15/04/16 04:45 AM |
| 0 | Is it justifiable for RSD or other companies to charge 3,000 dollars for a bootcamp?I could see them as being good for making initial breakthroughs on sticking points but yeah, even they say that if you don't keep practicing after taking the bootcamp then it will be a waste | /r/seduction | 14/04/16 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Is it justifiable for RSD or other companies to charge 3,000 dollars for a bootcamp?The number one most sought after thing for men is pussy, so why not sell him a few tips for 3000 in exchange for a few tips that are a google search away Which, to me, is just fucked up. | /r/seduction | 14/04/16 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Is it justifiable for RSD or other companies to charge 3,000 dollars for a bootcamp?Any companies you recommend? | /r/seduction | 14/04/16 10:23 AM |
| 2 | (These are long list of tactics and techniques I have written down over my months of learning pua) Tips/Advice/How-to'sIs this shit you've used or just read about? | /r/seduction | 28/03/16 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Genuine question about what a judge can do during divorce proceedingsHey dude whats up | /r/MensRights | 07/03/16 01:37 AM |
| 1 | I don't know where else to talk about this. I like to fucking fight, and I'm done being ashamed about it.you're weird man. go fight | /r/MensRights | 06/03/16 05:48 PM |
| 1 | I don't know where else to talk about this. I like to fucking fight, and I'm done being ashamed about it.I mean to tell you the truth I didn't really get owned as much as I lost. What happened was he tripped me, was on top of me, and then I just stopped resisting and stopped moving because ground and pound sucks, and he let me go mercifully, which was cool of him. I guess if I got ground and pounded then I would have felt differently, so I guess you've got a point. And yeah, never been hit before college. I come from a middle/upper middle class school, not much violence | /r/MensRights | 06/03/16 01:54 PM |
| 2 | I don't know where else to talk about this. I like to fucking fight, and I'm done being ashamed about it.Because I don't really care to convince you you're wrong and I'm just to get you to shut up. In daily life I'm not that confrontational either. Check out Jose Aldo. He's a soft spoken, introverted fighter | /r/MensRights | 06/03/16 01:51 PM |
| 1 | I don't know where else to talk about this. I like to fucking fight, and I'm done being ashamed about it.I guess the red pill might have been a good place, but that place is kind of weird with their misogyny. I'm don't use 4chan. Ok. I'm lying dude... Kind of an over reaction to get so pissed about it, no? I mean ok, maybe this is the wrong place to post. Why does that evoke such a strong reaction in you? You were just calling me a faggot. A mild "why are you posting this here?..." wouldn't have sufficed? You were (are?) getting really mad about something that isn't as big of a deal as you're makin… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/16 01:44 PM |
| 1 | I don't know where else to talk about this. I like to fucking fight, and I'm done being ashamed about it.No I don't tend to. I got into one that was self defense, the other I do admit I started but the kid was a cunt and deserved it. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/16 01:41 PM |
| 1 | I don't know where else to talk about this. I like to fucking fight, and I'm done being ashamed about it.It says in the title... It doesn't have to do with legal rights as much as it does with contradicting societal expectations and all that other bullshit. Society condemns men's propensity for violence, right? I'm saying that it is a part of my nature, and i'm taking ownership of it and that there is nothing wrong with it if you handle it responsibly. Getting into street fights is dumb but hey, if people are gonna hate on you for liking MMA then fuck 'em. It's just odd to me that violence is a par… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/16 01:37 PM |
| 1 | I don't know where else to talk about this. I like to fucking fight, and I'm done being ashamed about it.Is it the lying part that pisses you off, or the concept of enjoying fighting? Or both? Just answered in one of your other comments | /r/MensRights | 06/03/16 01:36 PM |
| 1 | I don't know where else to talk about this. I like to fucking fight, and I'm done being ashamed about it.Didn't think I'd be judged as harshly round these parts. Figured this would be a good place to find guys that could relate. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/16 01:34 PM |
| 1 | I don't know where else to talk about this. I like to fucking fight, and I'm done being ashamed about it.you've got a lot of anger man | /r/MensRights | 06/03/16 01:33 PM |
| 1 | I don't know where else to talk about this. I like to fucking fight, and I'm done being ashamed about it.Sure | /r/MensRights | 06/03/16 01:32 PM |
| 1 | I don't know where else to talk about this. I like to fucking fight, and I'm done being ashamed about it.Your comment is based on the assumption I'm lying about liking to fight. I guess I'm just finally letting it out. I never really express it because of how unacceptable it is by society and especially my family, but fuck it. I love fighting. Deal with it. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/16 01:29 PM |
| 0 | I don't know where else to talk about this. I like to fucking fight, and I'm done being ashamed about it.I'm 21. I hope it's not too late to have a career in the UFC or something. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/16 12:47 PM |
| 1 | I don't know where else to talk about this. I like to fucking fight, and I'm done being ashamed about it.god damn it I know exactly what you are talking about. Like just landing a clean punch exactly how you meant to, and seeing the other guy get damaged and you know you were effective in what you did. Fuck. It's amazing. It's so weird how on the one hand I'm this really nice, happy go-lucky guy, always the first to befriend the awkward kids and make 'em feel comfortable, won't even kill flies if I can just trap them and let them go outside, but then there is this other side of my that loves fist f… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/16 12:44 PM |
| 0 | I don't know where else to talk about this. I like to fucking fight, and I'm done being ashamed about it.Oh yeah definitely. I've only been in a handful of streetfights. Some bs little pushing/wrestling scuffles in middle school and then recently 2 straight up brawls, both with the anti semtic kid. I told the story of when he whooped me but I left out the other fight when I kicked his ass. Long story short, he was drunk, after months of bullying he finally swung and got a few punches on me, then I completely dismantled him. But yeah, I love MMA - boxing, and BJJ in particular. I haven't been able t… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/16 12:41 PM |
| 1 | How To Pick Up A Girl By Being NORMAL (Full Daygame INFIELD)I'm not experienced, def not a neckbeard. The difference is that I'm not saying what's what, what is and what isn't. You are. Understand? | /r/seduction | 03/03/16 03:52 AM |
| 1 | How To Pick Up A Girl By Being NORMAL (Full Daygame INFIELD)Ok so you don't know what you're talking about. | /r/seduction | 03/03/16 03:25 AM |
| 1 | How To Pick Up A Girl By Being NORMAL (Full Daygame INFIELD)How would you know? The fuck are your credentials? | /r/seduction | 02/03/16 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Eye Fuck VirginDid you talk to her? | /r/seduction | 02/03/16 05:53 AM |
| 1 | How To Be Funny - An In-depth Guide!I like your mentality. How'd you acquire it? Not gonna lie, I'm the opposite of you. Always trying to prove something, self-censoring, attached to outcome. It's harder than I thought it'd be to break these habits. Granted I don't go out a whole lot. | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 11:16 PM |
| 2 | How To Be Funny - An In-depth Guide!I honestly don't think wit is developed by any of those things. Witty jokes RARELY make some sort of reference to - or are even influenced by - poetry, literature or any other academic, "interesting" stuff (all of which I like), and if you make some joke referring to poetry, science, what ever the fuck - something that is not a shared interest with the other party then you will come off looking pretentious or just in general they won't get it. It's like if I was hanging out with some models and … | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How To Be Funny - An In-depth Guide!Rapping really does help. As corny as it feels for a scrawny white boy like myself, it really does help with that free association and in general just thinking on my feet. | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 06:53 PM |
| 1 | How To Be Funny - An In-depth Guide!I have the same problem. I've noticed that when I'm relaxed and comfortable with myself then witty things will just come. With that said, I feel like doing some sort of improv/free association exercises would really help with this stuff. Never tried though. | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 06:52 PM |
| 2 | This is actually a really sick study of Conor McGregor (MMA fighter) and how and why he is so fucking confident.Right? This is a real dude. In real life, who is among the most confident people you can find. And you get access to not only an analysis of him but also the analysis is confirmed by the man himself, in his own words. This is a really important video. If you want to learn how to be successful, learn from this guy. Conor McGregor is my biggest inspiration in life because not only has he attained greatness in his craft but he is also supremely confident and mentally tough, all of which I strive fo… | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 07:45 AM |
| 1 | When girls stare at you in public, do they always want you to approach them and get there number?that too | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 01:33 AM |
| 156 | When girls stare at you in public, do they always want you to approach them and get there number?find out pussy | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys even go out?Oh yeah man. This place fucking sucks more than ever, it's really quite sad. I miss the days of /u/TofuTofu | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys even go out?Ah I see. It came off as a criticism but now I see what you meant, sorry about that. | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 06:41 PM |
| 11 | Do you guys even go out?Not really... This is more of a "You gotta lift to get bigger, why are you guys slacking??!". It's well intentioned and also it's the truth. This subreddit blows because noone goes out. What would the quality of /r/fitness be if noone fucking worked out but only shared broscience. That's what seddit is. No actual seduction or approaching going on, just pickup-broscience and copy-pasted shit blogs. | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys even go out?Nah man, he definitely mean he only has sex every 3 to 4 week. | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys even go out?Totally agreed. I feel more comfortable being myself around women than I do around men. Among the people who are my closest friends, the vast majority are women. I want a tight crew of guy friends. | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys even go out?this is a good video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBhxkOai2HM Models is a good book by a dude, can't remember his first name but his last name is Manson. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE another good video | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys even go out?I stopped paying attention to this sub a while ago man, I only come around every now and then. Seddit's fucking dead dude. Hook like n sinker. A better alternative is rsdnation.com. It's a large community though, so the spectrum of quality is wider. For example, where as in reddit there is /r/seduciton and then /r/redpill, in rsdnation it's all just one giant pot o' gumbo. But if you field test shit then you should be able to sift through the bs anyway. | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 05:34 PM |
| 1 | I approached a girl and accidentally went straight into talking about her being topless and how she likes cum. Got her number.Fav jazz albums? | /r/seduction | 30/11/15 12:42 AM |
| 1 | " Being jealous you give her the excuse to say “Well he already thinks I’m going to cheat so I might as well just do it and have fun.” But giving her an identity as a girl who you regard as having integrity, she suddenly has a lot more to lose." TylerRSDMm good point. That's really true. At the same time though, I sort of see what Tyler is saying too. Most people are mediocre or at least average, as a less negative way of looking at it - usually due to limiting beliefs. And most people do have limiiting beliefs. What do yo uthink about it? Or more specifically, what are YOUR views on society in general, people being in a durr state, etc. | /r/seduction | 31/10/15 11:11 PM |
| 2 | " Being jealous you give her the excuse to say “Well he already thinks I’m going to cheat so I might as well just do it and have fun.” But giving her an identity as a girl who you regard as having integrity, she suddenly has a lot more to lose." TylerRSDI've also gotten the impression that he's super positive (or at least tries to be), I'd really like to hear your point of view on it, sometimes I misread people. | /r/seduction | 24/10/15 08:30 PM |
| 2 | This video was very much of an "Aha! moment" for me - Why Funny Guys Don't Get LaidEh, IDK. I have my doubts about RSD sometimes too but overall, the advice was sound - for me. I've struggled in the past about thinking "fuck I'm not being funny enough. I'm not being entertaining enough", etc., etc. and really I was being reaction seeking. I'd be nervous and feel inadequate and then feel like I have to be funny and it just would not come out well at all. | /r/seduction | 08/08/15 02:47 AM |
| 2 | This video was very much of an "Aha! moment" for me - Why Funny Guys Don't Get LaidI think the point is TRYING to be funny is bad. Don't worry about how funny you are or put pressure on yourself to be more funny. Don't be reaction seeking. | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 11:00 PM |
| 1 | This video was very much of an "Aha! moment" for me - Why Funny Guys Don't Get LaidWhat type of humor for under what contexts? | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 08:53 PM |
| 1 | This video was very much of an "Aha! moment" for me - Why Funny Guys Don't Get LaidExactly. The reason why I connected with the message a lot is that for YEARS now I've attributed a lot of my social awkwardness to not being funny enough. | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 08:52 PM |
| 1 | This video was very much of an "Aha! moment" for me - Why Funny Guys Don't Get LaidThe main takeaway for me is just don't TRY to be funny. | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 08:48 PM |
| 1 | This video was very much of an "Aha! moment" for me - Why Funny Guys Don't Get LaidHow so? | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Why you should start with daygameOP, how long have you been doing DG for? | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Last night I got the truth handed to me, that I have little to no gameHow so? Please explain | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 07:27 PM |
| 1 | So I had my first Tinder date yesterdayWere these things you had to learn how to do? I could give examples but I feel like they are very contextual, but often times I'll say something humorous that is just a dud, only occasionally getting big laughs. A lot of being stifled. | /r/seduction | 30/06/15 05:52 PM |
| 1 | So I had my first Tinder date yesterdayDo amusing things, excite the person you're with in a pleasant way, encouraging them to be interested in who you are, and making them want to continue hanging out. To play with them. That's my problem. I suck at this and don't know how to get better at this. | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Been in college for 2 years and haven't gotten laid a single time.What exactly IS the process or steps? | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Been in college for 2 years and haven't gotten laid a single time.I know it's not a direct acser but finding a wing(s) is incredibly helpful | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 05:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] two weeks ago I was afraid to approach any girl, Monday I approached 30 Girls. (college day game 3)That's fair man. Definitely admirable | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 12:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] two weeks ago I was afraid to approach any girl, Monday I approached 30 Girls. (college day game 3)It's awesome what you're doing, but I don't approach willy nilly on campus for exactly the reason that is happening to you: you get a BAD rep as "that guy",and that will bite you in the ass, as it has | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 11:37 PM |
| 1 | When first starting to improve social skills, did anyone face the problem that most people would never initiate hanging out with you?I mean how did that change come about though? Whats different now compared to before? What was it that had to change? | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 04:07 PM |
| 1 | When first starting to improve social skills, did anyone face the problem that most people would never initiate hanging out with you?How do you get to know then better if it's always just small talk | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 04:35 AM |
| 1 | PSA, or: what I wish I could have read as an 18 year old reading this shitOP could you expand on your last point please? | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 04:00 AM |
| 3 | When first starting to improve social skills, did anyone face the problem that most people would never initiate hanging out with you?Exactly. I feel the exat same way. | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 03:53 AM |
| 2 | When first starting to improve social skills, did anyone face the problem that most people would never initiate hanging out with you?i mean fuck dude, there should be reciprocation in a relationship though, no? What kind of friend is the kind to only chill with you when you come to them?? | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys ask the girl if she has any STD's before sex?Seriously? I've had cold sores on/in my mouth before even going back to early puberty. | /r/seduction | 22/03/15 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys ask the girl if she has any STD's before sex?helllll no | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 07:42 PM |
| 10 | Do you guys ask the girl if she has any STD's before sex?That'd make one hell of a FR | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 05:32 PM |
| 0 | How do you keep conversations going indefinitely with people that you have few-to-no things in common with?True, but most of the time I don't want a relationship anyway, I just want to bang | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 02:11 AM |
| 1 | How do you keep conversations going indefinitely with people that you have few-to-no things in common with?Where can I find these routines? I don't know any of them. | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 02:10 AM |
| 1 | I lost my virginity yesterday. Some words for those who are insecure about being virgins.wait* | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Two girls met me once. They think I'm cute an am taking me out tomorrow. I'm both nervous and excited. Can I get any tips?Not familiar with web proxys, could you link me? | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Two girls met me once. They think I'm cute an am taking me out tomorrow. I'm both nervous and excited. Can I get any tips?Good to know. You sound like you know your stuff, you in New York by any chance? | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Two girls met me once. They think I'm cute an am taking me out tomorrow. I'm both nervous and excited. Can I get any tips?It might not even fucking happen now. So dissapointed. One of their coworkers took off and one of the girls that was going to take me out will have to pick up that shift and she might not be down to go out afterwards. FUCK man. It might still workout but idk. The pessimist in me is now screaming "too good to be true!!" If anything happens I'll definitely let you know. | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Two girls met me once. They think I'm cute an am taking me out tomorrow. I'm both nervous and excited. Can I get any tips?Good tip, thank you. Can you explain that though? Why do I want them to kiss each other first? | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Two girls met me once. They think I'm cute an am taking me out tomorrow. I'm both nervous and excited. Can I get any tips?That's what I'm tring to do. Right now I'm assuming their dtf but I don't actually know, I just assume because shit, it seems like a lot of showing of interest. But like I said, I plan on just going with the flow/energy of things and being confident. | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Two girls met me once. They think I'm cute an am taking me out tomorrow. I'm both nervous and excited. Can I get any tips?If I had any I'd definitely bring it along. I went to Bonnaroo (big music festival) in the summer and took molly. Holy shit was it amazing. It makes you super extroverted and energetic. | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 03:10 AM |
| 5 | Two girls met me once. They think I'm cute an am taking me out tomorrow. I'm both nervous and excited. Can I get any tips?I'm mad at you now. | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 03:09 AM |
| 9 | Two girls met me once. They think I'm cute an am taking me out tomorrow. I'm both nervous and excited. Can I get any tips?Ok, RedPiller | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Two girls met me once. They think I'm cute an am taking me out tomorrow. I'm both nervous and excited. Can I get any tips?Dude, right? Nothing like this has ever happened to me, it's kind of shocking. They want to get me drunk too. I'm ging to try to keep that light. Getting slopping and screwing this up would suck, but I'm really trying to not put pressure on myself. Just go with the flow, focus on conversation and touch. | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 01:37 AM |
| 1 | I am short, bald, and look very old. I am aware of all the available resources, but have problems at a very basic level. Help!If you live in or near a city, there might be a seddit group for that area. | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 04:29 AM |
| 3 | Two Quick Tips for Rapid Attraction by Richard LaRuinaYeah that was kind of obnoxious but the content is good. | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 02:38 PM |
| 8 | Going out solo for the first time.. What are some rookie mistakes to avoid?A big one, get her phone number AND THEN KEEP TALKING to her for a few minutes. Getting the number and bailing usually does not leave a good impression. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to practice cold approach on your college campus?That's a really good point man, and I never thought of JUST MAKING FRIENDS with girls as the main focus, but the payoff would be great. I'm totally going to incorporate this into my deciscion making, thank you man. | /r/seduction | 09/12/14 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to practice cold approach on your college campus?Can you explain more on how to slowly develop relationships and friendships? I don't have much experience and even people that I do hangout with rarely ever hit ME up. I know how to meet people bit how do you form lasting friendships? | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Recommended books not about pick-up?In the Mth of Syphius he's pushing the rock up the hill everyday and finds his own meaning in life and the work. In Faust he's striving to achieve something specific - a Christian transcendence - in the face of futility. So the difference I'm seeing that Camus feels there is no meaning so make up your own and Faust seems to be saying live to be the absolute best you can be, correct? If I'm getting this right then I find it a very interesting comparison since my personal philosophy (even though I… | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Recommended books not about pick-up?I want to read Faust! What was the philosophy like in there? Also can you recommend a specific translation or do you not pay attention to things like that? It's cool that you're well read man, it's too bad it's so uncommon to meet people I can have literary discussions with. | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Recommended books not about pick-up?I've heard of it and I know roughly that it has to do with al ove triangle or something, but could you explain why you like it, what's good about it from a philosphical stand point? | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Recommended books not about pick-up?I kind of disagree with his philisophy I'm not too familiar with him, could ou briefly describe his philosophy and why you disagree with it? | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Is saying "hey, I thought you were cute *and so on*" really a bad opener?Exactly. Being genuine will bring that confidence and energy because you BELIEVE in what you're saying. | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Is saying "hey, I thought you were cute *and so on*" really a bad opener?You're thinking about it from a guys perspective. I'll speak for myself but usually when I think of girls I'll think "god damn she is sexy" or "hot" but you don't really want to say this to her face. Cute, gorgeous, beautiful, adorable even, those are probably better. Sexy and hot are more objectifying, few girls actually want to be called that. | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 02:28 AM |
| 4 | Is it a bad idea to practice cold approach on your college campus?That's a good point. That's the problem for me though, a lot of times when the other person isn't investing in the conversation it's hard to carry that shit and I don't know where to take the conversation. If they're just answering my questions it's not giving me a whole lot to work with. | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Is it a bad idea to practice cold approach on your college campus?Yeah but I don't want to be the weird guy on campus, you know? | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 01:29 AM |
| 6 | Julian Treasure: How to speak so that people want to listen. Very informative video about speaking.What?? | /r/seduction | 05/12/14 03:16 AM |
| 3 | People who have taken an RSD Bootcamp: How did it go?I've heard they are wastes of money. You're paying them thousands of dollars to just get you to do scary shit. Even if they give you good teachings, I don't think 3 THOUSAND fucking dollars is even an ethical price to charge. You can do so much other shit with that. Ultimately if you're desperate enough and you think it's worth it to you then try it, but keep in mind you could go on a trip with that money across the world or just in general do so much more stuff with that money. | /r/seduction | 14/11/14 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Having a friend who is always fucking different girls, but I'm going through a sexual droughtWatch and learn, man. | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 06:47 AM |
| 1 | [Meta] Can we stop with the blog posts?Not to mention these articles are so redundant. They say the same things all the time. Now the same could be said for the self-posts, but at least it's peoples actual experiences instead of someone that is personally invested in profiting off you. | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Moral questionI know. Seddit has kind of perpetuated my lack of trust in people. | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 06:44 AM |
| 1 | 1 month into seduction, status updatesome other mode of self entertaining. Like what else? | /r/seduction | 26/10/14 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Our Alex and Brad RSD encounter at a Bar in NYCRSD is all about cult of personality. Find the coach that you most connect with/wish to be like and have him endlessly upload videos saying the same, vague things with little real content and NEVER any actionable steps to take. | /r/seduction | 24/10/14 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Get The Hell Out Of The Friendzone Forever By Risking Never, Ever, Seeing Her Again.No, I blew it. Sucks. Regret is a harsh teacher. | /r/seduction | 24/10/14 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Get The Hell Out Of The Friendzone Forever By Risking Never, Ever, Seeing Her Again.I went through a very similar thing recently. Met a girl, we were into eachother but 1) I was afraid of escalating and 2) She had a boyfriend. When the boyfriend broke up with her two weeks later or so she invited me to sleep in her bed with her. I told her straight up I'd sleep with her but I was not going to be making any moves on her because I personally would feel like a scumbag to take advantage of a girl while she is in grief. Overall I think it was the right decscion. She's a good girl an… | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 05:24 PM |
| 2 | PSA: Got drugged last night... Guys, even you must be careful with strangers, even if they are beautiful girlsI'm the same way, I'll smoke like a bowl a night if I'm by myself. | /r/seduction | 20/10/14 05:01 AM |
| 5 | PSA: Got drugged last night... Guys, even you must be careful with strangers, even if they are beautiful girlsYou ever feel any negative effects from smoking that much for that long? I smoke almost daily but I often worry about the damage I'm doing to my brain/memory and my lungs. | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 08:19 PM |
| 1 | The Origins Of A Strong Identity And How To Recreate Yourself in 7 PhasesWhy does it seem like bogus to you? It sounded legit to me so I want to hear your perspective | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Kino for Cowards - Easier Escalation...I remember times when I held hands, then placed my other hand together with hers, caressing her hand, and then she responded with more hand caressing. Hold on, now I'm confused. Are you talking about just holding hands with this girl, like walking around, or are you still talking about holding her hand for a long time? You held your hand out for a hand shake, she took it, then you SWITCHED hands? | /r/seduction | 10/10/14 07:03 PM |
| 1 | What Makes People Boring?Start with the fundamentals. What does that mean? Where do I go from here? | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 07:11 AM |
| -1 | Is RSD Julien fucking insane?Just watch Jeffys video on how he handled a girl flaking on him. Completely contradicts RSD teachings. He's a little weakling. Jeffy, Julien, and Tyler/Owen are the worst ones in RSD. | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Is RSD Julien fucking insane?That's because I think they very effectively mix the bad with the good. Hence why I just avoid them all together now. | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Four years of practice, here's what I've learnedBut does 5 minutes even do anything for you? | /r/seduction | 11/09/14 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever experience a girl being into you but then losing attraction?I knew her for about two weeks, chilled quite a bit, but she had a boyfriend and nothing was happening while that was going on. She was most attracted to me around then. Around the third week of knowing her they broke up, when she was sad and talking to me she kissed me but then was all regretful about it and since then the vibe just hasn't been what it was. | /r/seduction | 11/09/14 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever experience a girl being into you but then losing attraction?I know but I should be getting better results. You said you USED to be massively insecure and get needy. Are things better now? How'd you get there? I'm in my first year of uni and so far in 3 weeks or so this girl has been my only prospect and I think I blew it. I know I shouldn't get bent out of shape over a girl but I was so close and then that passion just died and it's sad to experience. Like that excitement to see me, being all over me, touching me a lot, texting me everday, all that died … | /r/seduction | 11/09/14 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever experience a girl being into you but then losing attraction?That's what I'm going through now. I'm a beginner, been gaming (inconsistently - not everyday) for a little less than a year now. Only have attracted like 2 girls. Most nights I get AA and don't approach which is pathetic. | /r/seduction | 11/09/14 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Four years of practice, here's what I've learnedHow long have you been meditating for? I was doing it for 1.5 months everyday for 20 minutes but still didn't really feel like I was getting anything out of it so I lost motivation. | /r/seduction | 11/09/14 08:51 AM |
| 4 | The Ultimate Guide to Hooking Up with Endless Girls [honest version]What guides WOULD you choose? I need something | /r/seduction | 26/08/14 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Girl says "Ill only kids you if you do x...". What do you do?Nah I wasnt. I was with her for like 10 minutes. | /r/seduction | 24/08/14 05:08 PM |
| 1 | I have a hard time just being funnyIn college | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 06:46 AM |
| 3 | I have a hard time just being funnyHow so? "Just make 'em laugh", right? | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Starting college next week, can I get any good college game tips?Why only girls that I feel are with in my abilities? | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Have any of you ever taken a bootcamp? Who was it with and what did you think?Why lovesystems and how so? | /r/seduction | 03/08/14 06:15 PM |
| 0 | I am John Cooper - Teacher of Seduction without Pick upRSD is the biggest scammers of all of them. I'm glad I don't still follow them like the gospel anymore | /r/seduction | 01/08/14 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Stop seeking validationI do, why? | /r/seduction | 20/06/14 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Is Real Social Dynamics an ethical company?Can you give some examples? What are some manipulative stories? | /r/seduction | 17/06/14 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Top 10 FBI Behavioral Unit Techniques for Building Rapport With Anyonecredit goes to /u/sedditdee "FBI Tested". Really? More like "Dale Carnegie meets Samuel Smiles". 1) Establish artificial time constraints Neil Strauss lists this as one of the basics in any opener: Root your opener -- meaning, give a reason for asking your question or speaking to the other person; Give a false time constraint -- meaning, tell them that you have to get back to your friends, you've got to go do [x], etc. 2) Make Sure Your Body Language is In Sync They already cited Dale Carnegie. … | /r/seduction | 09/06/14 04:44 PM |
| 0 | Interesting Comment on RSD.See I think RSD has some great stuff mixed in with the bullshit of cult of personality, saying what to do not how to do it, etc. In fact half-truths are the most potent lies, so I'd see why they would have some true advice in their but also have it mixed with with the shady dealings. Also their prices alone are fucking insane. | /r/seduction | 09/06/14 04:41 PM |
| 2 | What are your personal views on monogamy?and a lot of mistakes and learning in between. Would you mind expanding on this? As a beginner it can sometimes be hard to relate to the advanced guys. | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 06:27 AM |
| 1 | DATING 101 // How To Talk To Pushy Hot GirlsProbably didn't ask | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 05:54 AM |
| 2 | What are your personal views on monogamy?Great quotes, I especially like that last one. | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 02:14 AM |
| 2 | What are your personal views on monogamy?What do you think when people say that if your attention is divided among several people then it's not as deep and meaningful as a monogamous relationship? | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Anyone going to be at Bonnaroo?No, you are. | /r/seduction | 03/06/14 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Why you shouldn't be in your headBasically he knows what to do and can calibrate really, really well. He doesn't JUST do that, he knows they'll be fine with it. Obviously takes practice and fucking up to learn | /r/seduction | 31/05/14 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Why you shouldn't be in your headThis video isn't really about not being in your head... | /r/seduction | 31/05/14 02:36 AM |
| 1 | How to Enthrall WomenMay I ask what you're views are on RSDTyler or RSD as a whole? | /r/seduction | 28/05/14 03:46 AM |
| 1 | 6 Reasons Why a Direct Approach is BestI've never understood why this is. More like I've never seen an explanation of this, but none the less, why should you only approach from the front? | /r/seduction | 27/05/14 02:31 AM |
| 1 | When hanging out with someone, it's not that I don't know the RIGHT thing to say, I feel like I just have NOTHING to say, my mind is blank.Idk, I mean sometimes I'm bored by myself if it's days and days with out handing out with anyone. This summer I'm going to have weeks without hanging out with anyone, if I was just inside the whole time yeah I'd get bored, but usually I'm not bored by myself. Being an introvert, there are a lot of times I like doing solo, like reading, meditating, internet browsing. | /r/seduction | 17/05/14 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Still a noobie after over half a year of constant approachinghis video on approaching is pretty essential also | /r/seduction | 16/05/14 06:52 PM |
| 1 | When hanging out with someone, it's not that I don't know the RIGHT thing to say, I feel like I just have NOTHING to say, my mind is blank.I was thinking of this summer trying to build something, some sort of wood working project. I have no experience with it but my dad does and since i'll have so much free time I think it'd be something to do. I'm thinking a birdhouse. | /r/seduction | 16/05/14 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Why Is This So Fucking Hard?Great quote, clicking the link now | /r/seduction | 16/05/14 03:46 PM |
| 1 | When hanging out with someone, it's not that I don't know the RIGHT thing to say, I feel like I just have NOTHING to say, my mind is blank.Looks like i'm going to have to pursue adventure. How do I do that in my daily life? | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 07:16 PM |
| 1 | When hanging out with someone, it's not that I don't know the RIGHT thing to say, I feel like I just have NOTHING to say, my mind is blank.I guess the main thing is learning how to be happy pre-approach in the first place. God I just have no fucking idea how to do that, even after years of reading self-help stuff. I might feel good for a bit but then I slide back into negativity. | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 04:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] daygame #close at mall, but then she went cold on me.You're right. I type properly on the computer but I find texting more tedious so I get lazy about it, but I'm going to make that change, thanks. What about the rest of it though, what are you thoughts? | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 12:09 AM |
| 1 | How I ask girls outWhy'd you remove it? | /r/seduction | 12/05/14 04:58 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Pretty shit night out, actually.I said how what I'm annoyed about isn't that I got rejected but just that I knew that what I was doing - just hanging on a wall - was not helping me to get out of my head/having a good time. Regardless I'm gonna stop feeling bad though. It doesn't help, I know this. | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 08:04 AM |
| -4 | My friend and I have created a really large guide on how to be more outgoing. What do you think /seduction?This is potentially life-changing material and you want a fucking tl:dr? | /r/seduction | 08/05/14 06:13 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm unhealthily obsessed with pickup and taking action.Do you feel like you've gotten rusty at all now that you don't go out as much? And for how long were you going out before you started cutting it down? | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 01:53 PM |
| 1 | I think I'm unhealthily obsessed with pickup and taking action.When does the vibe ever feel right if it's something that makes me uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Can we compile a thread of most useful videos?I think the biggest thing missing for me right now, other than what's within my control/self-discipline, is that I don't have anyone to go out with. I'm going to be in NYC for the summer, let's meet up. | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Can we compile a thread of most useful videos?They have some good stuff but they are are around the bottom of the bucket - that is their youtube stuff anyway. I advise torrenting Project Go on piratebay, it's pretty good since they have tons of infield and then break it down. | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Can we compile a thread of most useful videos?Liam McRae and especially Nick Sparks have some really good videos too Nick Spark's video on approaching should be side-barred and required watching for all sedditors. His other video How to Hold Conversation Like a Man is also very good. Also a guy who doesn't get enough recognition is Squattin Cassanova. He has complete interactions from open to close, super fast escalation, break downs of what he's doing, and also videos of students making improvements. Very good channel that I'm glad I stumb… | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Can we compile a thread of most useful videos?How did you get to be like this? I still struggle with making eye contact with passing strangers - and that's after doing 25 appraoches. | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 10:09 PM |
| 1 | I'm just going to leave this hereThis is a good point. I think when people say "approaching" it connotates something they have to do, like "Ok, time to approach". Just ask them hows it going. I think many sedditors do lose sight of this though BECAUSE initiating with anyone is hard for them to do. For example, I was the kid in class who never talked to anyone. | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 05:07 PM |
| 5 | I'm just going to leave this hereIsn't that interesting though? People are too scared to initiate but are hoping that someone else will. We aren't excluded from this phenomenon, but I think that is why so many fixate on approaching - that is initiating. | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Understanding your mindsetHow'd you go about whittling these down? One at a time? | /r/seduction | 02/05/14 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Understanding your mindsetWow this is great. Thank you for sharing this. It's late not but tomorrow I'll take part in this activity. I've realized that I'm guilty of just about all of these distortions. What about you? | /r/seduction | 02/05/14 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Understanding your mindsetI don't fully understand, could you expand on your points? How do you change your auto responses, according to him? And what are the brute-force approaches? | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 05:03 PM |
| 1 | I've found this infield to be a great video to analyze - spot rights AND wrongs - You can fuck things up and still get resultsI would've ended the makeout first but who cares at that point right :) Good point, also good way of looking at it. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 04:58 PM |
| 3 | I get rejected fairly often is that normal?Daygame really is harder but I've found that it contributes significantly to my night game. I've done about 19 approaches day game and 5 approaches night game. Even though the night approaches were still a bit scary they were SO much easier than daygame. Nightgame is when you'll get more results, but I feel like really getting this down in day game is like the major leagues so to speak. Daygame is scarier and thus builds more character, which is why we're here in the first place (right?). 1 step… | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 04:54 PM |
| 3 | I get rejected fairly often is that normal?Try being more condescending, it'll get your point across better. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 04:52 PM |
| 3 | I get rejected fairly often is that normal?I've done 23 approaches and have only gotten a few numbers, all of which flaked. This shit takes time. Being conscious of mistakes is enough, really. Doing drills to directly target them are good too. I tend to talk too much, so a drill to target that would be to approach and then pretty much only talk if she asks you questions - otherwise you asking her - getting her to talk more than you. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 04:50 PM |
| 2 | I've found this infield to be a great video to analyze - spot rights AND wrongs - You can fuck things up and still get resultsI noticed: Touched her early on the shoulder, also handshake That first hug was weak but at least he did it - we're all going to do weak ones as we practice KILLER eye contact - this was huge. This alone probably made up for the things he was doing wrong. Clearly showed his intent - also a big one Forgetting her name isn't a big one, IMO. Often the girl will forget your name as well, and besides it's a pretty natural thing to happen. If the girl is going to be a prickler about it she's probably … | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 03:02 PM |
| 2 | I've found this infield to be a great video to analyze - spot rights AND wrongs - You can fuck things up and still get resultsWork on this stuff, you'll get there. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 02:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I just picked up the hottest girl in my collegeI feel like I should be approaching everyday because that is how I'll get over AA and build confidence the fastest. Funny though, even trying to strike up conversation with strangers is super hard for me - in fact i've appraoched more girls than I have just struck up conversation with someone random. Perhaps I could start doing this and considering them approaches as well since I'm forcing myself to strike up conversation even though I'm nervous, which is the point of approaching and getting ove… | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 06:06 AM |
| 5 | Understanding your mindsetThe diagram says that you consciously think these the thoughts that fuck you up. I think they are actually ingrained in your subconcious. In other words when you start feeling nervous, you don't think thoughts to get yourself nervous, you just have beliefs and assumptions based off of past experiences that cause that you automatically respond by feeling nervous. I think using a positive affirmation or thinking on past reference experiences are conscious thoughts. Your automatic responses are not… | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else deal with inconsistently facing your fears while just starting out?some days I'll see a cute girl at the store but I just want to get home from work and relax on my deck for a second. I don't think someone shouldn't approach out of laziness or apathy - I think more what you're saying is don't spend all your freetime focusing on approaching, right? | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else deal with inconsistently facing your fears while just starting out?The thing is that I feel like if I don't approach then I'm sticking to my old patterns. I think to myself "what will my life look like in a year from now if I stick to my old patterns? What will my life look like if I exercise courage?" I think this is a healthy attitude but where I go wrong is I beat myself up, put too much pressure on myself. Also I get worried about doing things wrong (trying to control what I ultimately can't), as well as take things personally. To expand on that, when I do … | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else deal with inconsistently facing your fears while just starting out?On one hand I totally disagree with not forcing yourself to do approaches. Forcing yourself to do it even when you don't want to is what builds all the character traits that we come to seddit to learn about. That's just putting it simply so I don't have to list the various benefits of forcing yourself to do something you know you should do even if you don't want to. But on the other hand your second point... I would recommend making small talk with strangers wherever you are -- in line at starbu… | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else deal with inconsistently facing your fears while just starting out?Honestly this puts things into perspective for me a little bit. I'm too hard on myself. I've got to keep working on that. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Making Friends with Popular People (Discussion)I remember my first 2 approaches were around then. Then I went some months before doing it again late march/early this month (april) I did it for like 10 consecutive days and then doing it very inconsistently since. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else deal with inconsistently facing your fears while just starting out?I go out 5 days a week as it is but the thing is is that when I'm out a lot of the times I just don't force my self to do it. I feel like I can't get myself to do it, but I know it's a choice. The thing with that is then when I'm out I'll start getting frustrated with myself and then say "God damn it you're not doing this again. Next cute girl I see I'm going to approach" but as I said, have really shoddy follow through. I don't know what to do about it :/ | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 01:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I just picked up the hottest girl in my collegeThat's awesome, I'm from NY and hoping to be transferring to a school in Cali after this upcoming semester. I've got a question though, have you dealt with inconsistently approaching? I'll have a week where I'll approach at least once everyday and then I'll go a week not working up the courage to approach at all. It's really frustrating and I have to excersize not getting down on myself and beating myself up but still, it's super frustrating. I've done about 25 approaches, I know that no matter … | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Making Friends with Popular People (Discussion)Yeah definitely. I'm having a hard enough time approaching consistently, usually I don't know how to follow up my approach after 1 or 2 questions. Gotta practice more. What about you, have you been approaching consistently? | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Making Friends with Popular People (Discussion)Just shooting the shit, telling jokes and stories. No real point to the conversation, just hanging out. | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 08:59 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I just picked up the hottest girl in my collegeThat's awesome man, I'm glad you're making a lot of progress. It's crazy how just approaching girls really forces you to look at yourself in a different way. How's your lifestyle outside of pick up? Involved involved in different things? | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Making Friends with Popular People (Discussion)Do you think just vibing with them would be a good idea? Not trying anything, just shooting the shit, joking around you know? I'm asking because I'm not talking from experience, but generally you make friends by vibing with them first, just as you usually vibe with girls before having sex with them. | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 04:51 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I just picked up the hottest girl in my collegeIs this your first month in the game? Not really indicative of much, just curious. Also have you been approaching groups? So far I haven't, I've just stuck to solo girls but that's just another hurdle to get over soon. I figure I'll get more comfortable with solo girls and then go on from there. | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Don't underestimate the power of "Hi, what's your name"?I take it you compliment them shortly after introduction or after a bit of banter? | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Freaking amazing FIELD REPORTCan you give more details for the conversation? It's pretty critical | /r/seduction | 27/04/14 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Have any of you ever taken a bootcamp? Who was it with and what did you think?Makes sense. | /r/seduction | 27/04/14 04:47 AM |
| 1 | I failed like a rookie.This is why dabbling doesn't work. Habits take a lot of effort to reverse. Don't feel bad though, they are just habits which can be replaced by better ones, but inconsistently dabbling won't do a whole lot for you. I wish it was easy too, haha. | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 06:31 AM |
| 1 | how to be less of an antisocial doucheSelf-amuse. Use that boredom to self-amuse and not give a shit, it works in your favor. | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Former unconfident guys of seddit- what helped you work through your period of non confidence in yourself?Yeah but what about when you don't believe what your telling yourself? It just seems ineffectual, like bullshitting myself. | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Free Video Seminar - How To Kill It In Bars And Clubs (link good until Monday)Wise words, thank you. I'll check these books out, especially Four Hour Work Week - I've been hearing about that for a long time. You're right about bringing value, I didn't really know what I was doing or how to ask - it was just a hail mary, hoping you'd say yes. This is more of a random question but what are your thoughts on reading multiple self-help books at a time? Too much? On another note - in the recent weeks since i initially saw your free night game course I've actually started approa… | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Free Video Seminar - How To Kill It In Bars And Clubs (link good until Monday)I quit school, I need a mentor. I can't pay for any bootcamps or anything but is there anything we can work out? You live in Brazil? Would it be possible for me to stay with you at least for the summer? I need to devote my life to this for a while before I continue schooling (which I DO intend to go back), please help. I know this is crazy, but help me out. | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Tinder video I made, proves that not giving a fuck works.even a layman knows a lay is a lay | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 01:38 AM |
| 1 | How I picked up a model in the mall (Infield Audio)Start with maintaining eye contact with strangers on the street and also work on just walking up to girls. thats it, walk up to them. Also start with giving people compliments - this was the big one that started me getting comfortable with strangers. It's about starting small with very small, achievable goals. | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 01:03 AM |
| 3 | What I've learned from fucking girls I met on TinderThat's how those girl feel as well | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Moral dilemma about approaching girls that I don't plan on getting back to "for practice"Because it's dishonestly leading a girl on, getting hopes up that will amount to nothing. There is no way to get around it, I'll be a negative influence on a girl if I pretend to like her and then cut her off. | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Moral dilemma about approaching girls that I don't plan on getting back to "for practice"No, what I meant was that I felt like it'd be inconsiderate to practice flirting (I didn't make the flirting part clear, my apologies) with not-so-attractive girls if I never planned on getting back to them. I've resolved the dilemma though, since I don't have to necessarily flirt with them as I can just make friendly, brief conversation. | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Moral dilemma about approaching girls that I don't plan on getting back to "for practice"practicing flirting, I meant. | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Moral dilemma about approaching girls that I don't plan on getting back to "for practice"That's very fair. I don't necessarily have to practice flirting to practice my conversational skills | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 12:29 PM |
| 0 | My awkwardness is killing my game.Have you read the sidebar? Mark Manson - Models: Attract Women Through Honesty Squattincassanova Real Social Dynamics Simple Pickup Kickass Academy /u/tofutofu | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 07:02 PM |
| 1 | One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective.Great suggestion. I've considered taking dance classes this summer for these same reasons. Just an update since the 5 months ago, I've actually started consistently approaching, or rather I'm on my 4th consecutive day of approaching and I don't see myself stopping | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Taking to girls in community college?epicdroid121, I've been a lurker here for almost 3 years. My AA was so bad that I didn't do an approach until a few days ago after YEARS of everyday wanting to approach but never would. What it comes down to is just doing it. The main things that helped was working on just complimenting strangers and then progressing to approaching from there. So how did I actually get myself to approach? Well a big one is forcing yourself to just walk up to the girl. That's it. Just walk up to her. Once you're … | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 10:51 PM |
| 1 | I've noticed that since I've started approaching I find myself thinking that I'm "superior" to other guysYeah. I tried to get my best friend to join me, especially since he has depression so he stands to gain the most but he just wont. :/ I honestly do want to help my friends but like they say, someone has to want to help them self first. You can lead a horse to water but can't force 'em to drink. Sucks though because I know how much better my friends would feel. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Free Video Seminar - How To Kill It In Bars And Clubs (link good until Monday)Unbelievable, I appreciate that so much man. Hopefully I'll be able to scrape up money some how by June but it's not likely. Thanks man. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Best self-improvement books?How do you straddle the line between assertive male and bossy douche? Sounds like I'm going to have to check this book out. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Free Video Seminar - How To Kill It In Bars And Clubs (link good until Monday)Wow, I saw that course a few days ago and thought it sounded awesome but couldn't pay for it. I don't know if you made it free just for me or just something you changed in the past few days but I'm really grateful for this. Giving this life changing information out for nothing in return is a beautiful thing and I think it shows that you guys care more about helping people than making money. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 07:14 PM |
| 8 | I've noticed that since I've started approaching I find myself thinking that I'm "superior" to other guysThe way you say it it now seems obvious but it's a foreign feeling I've never had before. Damn. So this is what it feels like. I'm not gonna stop. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Best self-improvement books?What would you say are some nice guy tendencies that most guys have that don't realize it? | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Best self-improvement books?Which book to start out with? | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Best self-improvement books?Any specific book/video? | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Best self-improvement books?you get a huge number of AHA moments, where issues in your life suddenly make sense. Can you give a specific example? Sounds really interesting | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Any older virgins successfully turned it around?I can't overstate this enough, Mark Manson's book Models: Attract Women Through Honesty is the best book on "pickup" material. Check out /r/seduction | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Free Video Seminar - How To Kill It In Bars And Clubs (link good until Monday)Aw man, fuck. There is no way I could pay 500 dollars, damn this sounded awesome. Can we work anything out? | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Any older virgins successfully turned it around?Setting up "agreements" to have sex ahead of time, often doesn't work out.) Why is that? The situation is this: My friend has a very cute friend from Italy coming to visit for a week. My friend showed her my Facebook and she wants to fuck me. So this weekend she is getting in and it's expected that we will be having sex then. TBH I don't even know how to handle this situation. | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Any older virgins successfully turned it around?How do you know when you're ready for sex? I'm an 18 year old virgin that'll be getting laid this weekend so I'm interested in hearing this | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Any older virgins successfully turned it around?I don't think I was ready at 17. Please explain. I'm 19 so fairly close | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Free Video Seminar - How To Kill It In Bars And Clubs (link good until Monday)Absolutely, I'll be in NYC at that time so I'm definitely interested. | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 04:55 PM |
| 0 | Free Video Seminar - How To Kill It In Bars And Clubs (link good until Monday)I left a 5 star review. To be honest it's hard not to sound like I'm exaggerating which I find actually kind of frustrating because I truly do think this is better than any other big name project I've ever seen. So let me get this straight, your currently in Brazil and don't throw bootcamps? For some reason I was under the impression you (used?) to be in NYC and did. | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 12:50 PM |
| 0 | Free Video Seminar - How To Kill It In Bars And Clubs (link good until Monday)This course is too good to not be able to access it after this monday. How can I get it permanently? This is the best pickup material I've ever seen. Way better than RSD, I'm truly blown away. How can I still access these seminars? I'm being serious when I say that this is better than any RSD product I've ever seen, and up until now I've been a very loyal fan of RSD. This is too valuable to to be inaccessible after monday, I'm serious. People need to see this. | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Plateaued after first two approaches. This AA is killerIt's so tough. There'll be girls coming towards me and I'll be like "Do it!!" and I just never do. I'm not giving up but I mean it's still really bad. I shouldn't be going months in between approaches. Logically I know it wont be bad but I'm till nervous about embarrassing myself | /r/seduction | 06/04/14 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Plateaued after first two approaches. This AA is killerThe first approach of course I was nervous but I did pretty well. Confident opener, she received it well. I ran out of things to say and left. Second approach I was nervous as fuck and she didn't receive it so well. Haven't mustered it up since. Could you give me any advice? | /r/seduction | 06/04/14 09:32 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveYeah. I'm a freshman undergrad living with 4 other girls. Boyfriend drama errday. If anything the only thing I've learned is that girls talk about guys just as much if not more than guys talk about girls. I think this could be because girls are almost always having options while most guys have dry spells in between girls. | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 08:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR]Daygame, didn't pick up for close anyone, but I learnt alot."I have an idea, I'll give you my number and you text me when you get off work" Never EVER do this. You get HER number every time. Even if the girl asks for your number you should still get hers. | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming Approach Anxiety – (Not a “Hack” or “Trick”, but rather a Lifestyle)There might be a misunderstanding. What he is saying is while in conversation if you're getting nervous then just accept it as part of the learning process, not anything attached to yourself worth. Just be aware of the feeling, not judging it. Furthermore don't try to think your way out of nervousness - that's how you get in your head and over analyze, just accept the feeling and move on. | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 03:25 AM |
| 2 | An Introduction: How I got out of my depression/rut (Must Read)Agreed | /r/seduction | 31/03/14 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Solo in a city dedicated to destroy aahttps://www.youtube.com/user/SimplePickup | /r/seduction | 31/03/14 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Solo in a city dedicated to destroy aaA big point that RSD and Simple Pick (I'm most familiar with those two) make is that the opener really doesn't matter. The only thing the opener is there to do is to just get the girls attention. That's why you have some crazy guys who open with "I want to pee in your butt" and still get laid. Just saying, I wouldn't recommend that. Check out Simplepick up's stuff. They don't have the depth that RSD does but they do a great job at showing intent and really showing that what you open with means n… | /r/seduction | 31/03/14 09:25 PM |
| 6 | How To Compliment CorrectlyOverall though, I think a genuine compliment on someones eyes is better than a forced compliment on, let's say a girls generic hoodie, you know? | /r/seduction | 31/03/14 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Hate to do this but... how many girls have you been with?For how long have you been doing this and how did you rack up such numbers? Even the "greats" like RSD Julien and Tyler say they are around 200. | /r/seduction | 15/03/14 12:11 AM |
| 9 | How to deal with fear: for the guys who know they SHOULD go talk to that girl, but still don'tThank you for saying "poppycock". | /r/seduction | 05/03/14 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Every lurker of this subreddit needs to see this infield footage of RSDBrad. - Incredible escalationI recently became aware of Squattin Cassanova He posts tons of infield footage. A bunch of them are from the open all the way to close. Also his videos only take place in LA and Vegas, so it's almost always nightgame The way I found out about this guy is from searching up "rsd brad infield" on youtube, so I would recommend searching up who ever is your favorite PUA + "infield", as I did. | /r/seduction | 04/03/14 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Article: Too Short, Too Ugly, Too [insert inadequacy here]True that. My buddies roomate is jacked, he get's approached by girls at parties just straight up asking for sex. Looks DO matter. The reason why we say they don't is because there is nothing you can do about your looks, so concentrating on them at all outside of the clothes you wear will only hurt you. It's a selective blind spot. Looks do matter. Dress as well as you can to make up for physical short comings, and become accepting of them. Accept them and become an awesome person with an attrac… | /r/seduction | 03/03/14 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Every lurker of this subreddit needs to see this infield footage of RSDBrad. - Incredible escalationAlso despite being at least tipsy and into him, I can tell you as a beginner I probably wouldn't have been escalating like that either. I still think it's good to see HOW it's done instead of just reading about it all the time. | /r/seduction | 03/03/14 08:55 PM |
| 1 | You wanna get laid? Then put your balls on the table right nowIt doesn't matter whether she had a boyfriend or not, she wasn't interested. That's it. As for the "I tried" - who gives a fuck? You were rejected anyway, as long as you're not being a dick then it doesn't matter - speaking of which I don't know why you're calling yourself a dick, mate, what you did was a nice thing. You complimented the girl, and you built yourself up as a person. One brick at a time. You're right, at least your tried. In fact, FUCK "at least". Recognize that what you did takes… | /r/seduction | 28/02/14 02:27 AM |
| 1 | 1 day, 5 approaches. College DAYGAMEAh ok, you have good English but there were some certain mistakes so I couldn't quite tell | /r/seduction | 21/02/14 01:51 PM |
| 1 | 1 day, 5 approaches. College DAYGAMEWhat's your native language? | /r/seduction | 21/02/14 03:30 AM |
| 1 | I'm afraid that girls will see "behind the facade" of my confidence and will see that I'm actually an insecureI don't know much about DeAngelo but I was always under the impression he was one of those "routine" guys so I never checked him out (which as I type this I now realize that's pretty close minded), what do you like about him? | /r/seduction | 20/02/14 03:56 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Edgy girl from class. Same day f-closeBut higher flake rate for day game also, right? | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 04:09 AM |
| 3 | RSD Julien is doing a webinar tomorrow[WED 9PM] talking about his INSANE Outer Game skills! MUST WATCH for Intermediate/AdvancedBut they also put out useful content, so who gives a shit? | /r/seduction | 18/02/14 11:12 PM |
| 1 | How is the bar/club scene on Valentine's day?Alright, thanks man, that's a good point. | /r/seduction | 14/02/14 01:37 PM |
| 1 | How is the bar/club scene on Valentine's day?But if you don't believe in this, how do you convince yourself of these things? Just start small? | /r/seduction | 14/02/14 04:46 AM |
| 5 | In library right now. Told myself I'd approach. Experiencing massive AA.How do you force yourself not to puss out? THat (clearly) has been my biggest problem. I have recently become more conscious of things I shouldn't be doing -I often project things going wrong. A lot of times I don't expect myself to approach because of all the times I've told myself I'd do it and then don't. I know I have to do it but it's so hard | /r/seduction | 11/02/14 05:49 PM |
| 1 | 'Nother night of walking around and being too nervous to approach. AA is a bitchDo you think I shouldn't read and PUA material until I make an approach then? No Seddit, Simple Pickup, RSD, everything - take a total break until I do an approach? | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 07:29 AM |
| 1 | 'Nother night of walking around and being too nervous to approach. AA is a bitchI know it's what I gotta do but I always would just bitch out at last moment :/ | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 07:18 AM |
| 1 | 'Nother night of walking around and being too nervous to approach. AA is a bitchWhat do you mean? Can you go more in depth so I can understand what you mean? | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 07:11 AM |
| 2 | 'Nother night of walking around and being too nervous to approach. AA is a bitchHow long did it take you to force yourself to just approach? I've lurked the PUA community for 2 1/2 years or so and still haven't actually done a cold approach. :/ | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Example of max level PUA. Worth the read. No seriously I can't stress this enough, fucking read it.Shit, you got me there. I guess I'm wrong then. Sorry bout that mate | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Example of max level PUA. Worth the read. No seriously I can't stress this enough, fucking read it.Are you actually saying that RSD advises using scripts as openers? | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 02:53 AM |
| 2 | My method for attracting girls I meet in my college classes.At some point later I call the girl and tell her that my friends are getting together, and tell her I'll pick her up. I noticed that girls tend to flake less if you call them at this point. This is the best way to set up plans. Generally setting up a day in advanced is good, but not telling what time that day until the day has arrived is a great way to reduce flakes. So it's Wednesday now, let's hangout Saturday. "k" Saturday arrives "10:30 party at X" | /r/seduction | 04/02/14 02:23 PM |
| 1 | I really like what this guy has to say about being "in state"forgot to put "X-Post /r/Gothamseddit", sorry | /r/seduction | 02/02/14 10:04 AM |
| 1 | What do you do if the girl you want to hook up with is drunk and you are sober?awesome, thanks | /r/seduction | 01/02/14 04:36 PM |
| 1 | What do you do if the girl you want to hook up with is drunk and you are sober?Yeah but I mean if she is TOO drunk to really make decisions don't you think it's wrong to sleep with them, if they don't really know what they're doing? If still coherent then sure, but if the girl isn't even coherent do you still think it's ethical to sleep with her? | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 10:41 PM |
| 2 | What do you do if the girl you want to hook up with is drunk and you are sober?capable of making her own decisions. wasted | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight doucheDo you think the bootcamps were really worth the 3,000 dollars? I'm sure their book camps are great but shit, that's a lot of money. That could get you a vacation, you know? In your opinion, why does the benefit out weigh the cost? Is it definitely stuff you couldn't learn with time from going consistently out? | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight doucheIght nice, good luck man, you'll probably be progressing rapidly hanging around those guys | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight doucheThat's cool, you ever go out with them or anything? | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight doucheBootcamps? Nice. Would you say it was worth the 3 grand? Who was your instructor and what not. Could you maybe go more in depth with your experience(s) with RSD - I've thought about possibly doing a bootcamp - probably not tho because of the steep price, but I'm sure others here have. | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight doucheDo you think that maybe you just don't understand the humor? That can be understandable since most human communication is lost over text. Look at the upvotes compared to yours - the majority realize Scorproyale isn't talking Tyler down. | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight doucheLike a bootcamp or what? | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 08:12 PM |
| 9 | Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight doucheCheck out his youtube channel. RSD has a buunch of youtube channels youtube.com/.... RSDjulien rsdbrad rsdtyler rsdjeffy rsdfreetour | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 08:11 PM |
| 12 | Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight doucheHe was using "crazy" affectionately, in a good way | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight doucheWhat do you do as an intern? | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight doucheah yeah, I listened to White Blood Cells for the first time a few days ago, I liked it, wasn't crazy for it though Anyway, how have you come to meet RSD interns? Do you know of any sites/forums that you would recommend in addition to /r/seduction? | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight doucheThis is random but do you live in Detroit, or just like the White Stripes? Or both? | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 01:45 PM |
| 48 | Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight doucheIn a nutshell, the guy is telling Tyler how he is a douche and unnattractive and saying the girls don't want anything to do with them, Tyler is saying that they were having fun and that that guy is among the many people who criticize other people who don't fit social norms and try to make them feel like shit (like how he called tyler a fat, balding ginger. Then Tyler says how there are people he knows who would hve been crushed by an insult like that and the guy is just like "No I'm not crushing… | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 01:43 PM |
| 3 | 30 Day Challenge, Days 1-7"Where are you from" --->"You look like you're from..." "What do you do for fun" ---> "You look like you knit and take care of many cats" or "You look like you're into photography", etc. etc. | /r/seduction | 29/01/14 02:34 AM |
| 1 | PSA: One last important thing before I leave this subreddit.How does Simple Pickup screw you up? Genuinely curious. I've watched a bunch of their videos and they didn't seem bad. I'm not among their cult following though so I'd definitely want to know the truth if you wouldn't mind taking the time out | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 07:00 AM |
| 3 | AMOG telling me to fuck off. How to deal?This is terrible advice, please stop being moronic. Fuck your ego, you deescalate conflicts, not cause problems. | /r/seduction | 07/01/14 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Cannabis and honestyWhat was your reason? | /r/seduction | 23/12/13 10:43 PM |
| 2 | What are good activities to meet girls when you cannot drink and have high-functioning autism?I can't promise I'll remember but I will if I do haha | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 10:55 PM |
| 1 | What are good activities to meet girls when you cannot drink and have high-functioning autism?Yeah, still not sure if I'm going to transfer to that school or not, but right now that's what I'm thinking, in which case I would have that advantage | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 10:50 PM |
| 2 | What are good activities to meet girls when you cannot drink and have high-functioning autism?As soon as possible if I can, which would be next fall. I'd be a year older than most of the people in the dorm but I don't really care. It's not grade school anymore, age doesn't matter that much. And I might have some seniority. I know my way around the campus because I have friends from home who go to the school so I know all the spots and can show people/girls around. | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Funny pickup storyWell that was unnecessary. | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 10:27 PM |
| 2 | What are good activities to meet girls when you cannot drink and have high-functioning autism?Yeah. i mean yeah there is always more you could do to make more friends but yeah, much different environment. I'm pretty much just trying to hold out until I transfer | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 10:17 PM |
| 3 | What are good activities to meet girls when you cannot drink and have high-functioning autism?My daily routine is school, home, school work, internet. I live in a college town but go to a Community college and still have AA so I've made very few friends. Hopefully transferring to a university (which would entail dorms) and it'd be a lot easier to make friends. Much different environment than CC. My school has almost no clubs. I could go into clubs for the other colleges but I have no car so I wouldn't be able to go even if i wanted to. I could take public transportation but to be totally… | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 04:37 AM |
| 2 | What are good activities to meet girls when you cannot drink and have high-functioning autism?18 for me, I'm interested in the same advice | /r/seduction | 18/12/13 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Good ice breaker?Be more concerned about how you feel and your intentions behind what you say, rather than what you should actually say. Check out the side bar if you haven't already, lots of good info | /r/seduction | 18/12/13 03:12 AM |
| 6 | Had to write this for those who are strugglingKeep your word and do what you say. Meeting with someone? Be on time. Wait ‘til tomorrow? No do it now. Said you were going to the gym today? Go. When you do what you say you begin to trust yourself. Trusting yourself is confidence. Fuck, that hit home. That's my biggest problem. I've talked to people about this a few times. I often promise myself I'll do something and then don' and then I fucking feel awful about it and feel down on myself and I realize I've been slowly becoming jaded. My AA is… | /r/seduction | 17/12/13 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Anyone in the Buffalo, NY area?PM if interested in meeting up | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 12:31 PM |
| 1 | What I've learned is working!This is real application and progress, some people have never made it to where you are right now, even after a year of reading PUA material. This is me. I've been a lurker for two years and still haven't overcome my AA. I honestly feel almost helpless. I've said to myself so many times "alright, now I'm going to do it" but then don't because the fear takes over, and now I'm at a point where I don't even believe in myself anymore. If I ever make that decision to do it, i just don't even believe m… | /r/seduction | 09/12/13 12:33 AM |
| 3 | What Seddit had taught me...It's pick up lingo, people outside of the pick up community wouldn't use it, but as mentioned it's just physically touching. | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Are you MR INTERVIEW when you approach girls? - Transform your conversation in 5 minutesAsk a 20 year old girl what's her passion and prepare yourself for a mindless headache. Haha, yeah. I'm 18 and I have no idea what I want to do. Honestly it's frusturating not having a focus. | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Are you MR INTERVIEW when you approach girls? - Transform your conversation in 5 minutesTo me, those questions seem a bit contrived. They have worked to good effect in your experience? | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 11:27 PM |
| 1 | 6 year LTR ended 3 months ago. Just feeling defeated, alone, and don't know where to start.Seconding Models. It is probably the only pick up material you need, a long with good sites like Seddit and other pick up sites. I like datingspecialist.com (the guy, Nick, is an active redditor), RSD, and Michael Valmont, David Wygant. | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Are you MR INTERVIEW when you approach girls? - Transform your conversation in 5 minutesI often have trouble coming up with open ended questions, can you give any examples? | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 07:23 PM |
| 1 | An example of maintaining investment in yourself (read description first).OP, you are needy and got ripped to shreds. Try not to feel bad, you're still learning and are making mistakes and what not. You have a lot of inner game work to do, definitely start meditating daily if you aren't currently. if you hate it just start slow, 5 minutes, 10, 20, etc. | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 05:03 AM |
| 1 | A Beginners Guide for What to SayYou seem very new. Read the side bar for sure man, it'll give you almost everything you need to know. Also the book Models by Mark Manson. I know we often balk at actually buying a book (I've heard a million recommended in this subreddit) but trust me. That book is all you will ever need. Everything. | /r/seduction | 13/11/13 10:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - 0/10 - Theory won't translate to practice.When I was walking around trying to get a score on the board, just a simple hello, I realised something: I want to be a pick-up artist! That is what I want to do! I don't play sport (I go to the gym, I am healthy though), I don't have much in the way of hobbies. A lot of extra-curricular activities have some overlap with everyday life. PUA skills are in every day life! They require confidence and free-thinking, these skilla are so transferable. Why not apply myself to this? Sometimes I feel like… | /r/seduction | 05/11/13 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Reflecting on my year long journey in seduction and why, yes, you can do it too. A long story filled with tips and tricks I've used.I laugh and assure her it's okay but at this point it seems something is up. Trying to use a push-pull mentality, I excuse myself and start talking to some other new party-goers. Doesn't this sound a bit like over-gaming? She liked you. You probably could have kissed her right then, no? From my point of view, with the little info I have and also not being you or in the moment, it just seems unnecessary. What was the point of doing any type of strategy, and then leaving her? Just so you could imp… | /r/seduction | 05/11/13 11:17 PM |
| 1 | How do a bring up sex?Ah I understand what you mean now, and yes you definitely are. | /r/seduction | 03/11/13 04:25 PM |
| 1 | How do a bring up sex?What do you mean by subtext? | /r/seduction | 03/11/13 03:54 PM |
| 1 | A quick note on online game/text gameGoing off on laccro's comment, can you give advice on how to do such a thing? I feel like I'm sexually aggressive but I really just don't know at what point I think I can get away with it and and what point i'll just ACTUALLY be being creepy. | /r/seduction | 31/10/13 03:37 AM |
| 1 | What was your very first approach like?Vonnegut. Check out Mother Night. I think it's considered one of his best but also least known. I know it was one of his favorite books that he wrote. | /r/seduction | 24/10/13 09:12 PM |
| 3 | What was your very first approach like?But now class is kinda awkward lol I guess that's the price you pay puts on sunglasses for being a boss. | /r/seduction | 24/10/13 06:51 PM |
| 2 | A Neurotic Introvert's Guide to Seductionapproaching :/ | /r/seduction | 22/10/13 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Insecure about being a virginDude I was holding that book in my hands when I was read your comment. I've only read the first 3 chapters but so far it's great. I like what I've read a lot. | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 08:46 PM |
| 1 | A Neurotic Introvert's Guide to SeductionI don't know, I've been having mixed emotions lately. They advocate massive action and it seems like putting a lot of pressure on yourself which I think can be massively counterproductive. I'm not sure if it's a good thing or not. | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 04:25 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A newbie's run on some motivation.exacty! If she flakes on you then it wasn't meant to be, it's a good thing! | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 01:17 AM |
| 2 | [FR] A newbie's run on some motivation.Isn't it cool how on your first day you can get a number and a date? Now I know it doesn't mean anything until you actually meet, aka she doesn't flake on you, but I mean really. It didn't take you dozens of grinding and rejections before you had even a hint of success, no, it happened on OP's FIRST DAY. This is a testament to how much girls just WANT to be approached. As long as you don't come off as creepy and super nervous and you make sure to escalate then you'll probably do fine. If you are… | /r/seduction | 18/10/13 07:29 PM |
| 5 | One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective.fuck man, i've been here for a year or 2 and i've never had the courage to approach. fuck. It's hard to think on my past failures after such a long history of them, and then that just builds up so much pressure each time I see a hot girl and then because of the pressure I don't approach. It's a brutal cycle man. 2 fucking years. i don't know what to do. I know this is negative thinking but it's hard facing the truth. I honestly feel pathetic. | /r/seduction | 18/10/13 04:08 AM |
| 1 | A Neurotic Introvert's Guide to SeductionAre you familiar with RSD? If so what are you thoughts on their philosophy? | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 08:50 PM |
| 2 | The Difference between Me and YouThis will sound over dramatic but seriously man, you changed my life. I've recognized so much of myself in this post as things you shouldn't be. I can't deny it, it's a little discouraging, but maybe that's just because I'm having these huge revelations right now, but at the same time I feel like there is no other option but to attain this true confidence that you define. I either strive and strive and fail and feel like giving up a million times over before I'd give up and just accept a shitty … | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 05:34 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Me making out with a random girl in a mall in 6 minutes - Audio FootageI cannot for the life of me get it back. There is your problem. 1) Self-fulfilling prophecy 2) limiting belief 3) negative thought process Check this video out, explore each topic in depth. | /r/seduction | 16/10/13 08:42 PM |
| 0 | a REAL guide on how to be irresistible with womenHow many fucking times do we have to see these same posts in this subreddit? I don't even give a fuck if this is a "good" post. There is nothing new here. This has been posting one million fucking times. I will say OP is doing a good thing by wanting help and give back, but for real. This subreddit is just a clutter of the same VAGUE advice. | /r/seduction | 16/10/13 08:30 PM |
| 1 | How I bend reality to live each day to the fullestit's reassuring and disapproves of the "you can't have fun anymore when you're older" attitude that is almost universally held by everyone. | /r/seduction | 16/10/13 03:55 AM |
| 2 | How I bend reality to live each day to the fullestdedicating about 30 minutes a day to do these time wasting activities. being serious, what do you fill your time with? | /r/seduction | 16/10/13 03:50 AM |
| 2 | I AM TIRED OF THE SHALLOWNESS OF THE GAME. I AM A SENSITIVE UNIQUE FLOWER AND I WANT REAL CONNECTIONS WITH WOMEN :'(This really intrigued me and I made a post about this in /r/InsightuflQuestions. You and the responses I got really changed how I view doing a simple act as holding the door for someone, and in general any random kindness. A big take-away I've gotten is that the reward is in the very act of doing someone a kindness. This really changed how I viewed this, you know? I mean even just this helps me be more grounded and happy. I see a new value in everyday courtesies, they make me feel better now as … | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Keep. Moving. Forward.Yeah wow... I haven't read something as inspiring like that in a long time. | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 03:23 AM |
| 2 | I AM TIRED OF THE SHALLOWNESS OF THE GAME. I AM A SENSITIVE UNIQUE FLOWER AND I WANT REAL CONNECTIONS WITH WOMEN :'(The reason I get ticked when people don't say thank you is because, I didn't have to do it but I went out of my way for them anyway. Yeah they didn't ask me to do it but can they really not handle saying thank you? I ALWAYS say thank you to people who hold doors open and stuff. I see it the same as being a bad or good tipper a little, or saying hi to someone and they totally disregard you. Definitely interested in hear what you have to say, I value opportunities for constructive criticism. | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 02:54 AM |
| 1 | How to be captivatingmake eye contact with everyone in the room for a brief second or two It's amazing how many people aren't taught this by their parents. Honestly if you're in a group of people and everyone is listening to you talk but you're only making eye contact with one person, you're being rude. Whether you know it or not you are excluding everyone else. | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 01:54 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Post Reading "Models" by Mark MansonSo would you say AA is officially a non-issue for you now? I know the fear never goes away but we just learn how to manage the fear better, so would you say AA stopping you is something in the past now? Also how hard was it for you to escalate and basically manage everyhting after the approach? | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 01:10 AM |
| 1 | An alternate guide to text gameDo you think smoking weed helps or impairs your game? I smoke weed every night so I have yet to really go out sober which is probably something I should do. | /r/seduction | 12/10/13 09:44 PM |
| 2 | An alternate guide to text gameIt's 9:15 now good luck mannn tell me how it goes | /r/seduction | 12/10/13 01:15 AM |
| 2 | An alternate guide to text gameDefinitely want to hear how things go | /r/seduction | 11/10/13 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Help on handling this situation - Girl from my past has arisen.So is game just in general pushing yourself to escalate? | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Help on handling this situation - Girl from my past has arisen.I appreciate the feedback a lot, thank you. | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Help on handling this situation - Girl from my past has arisen.The thing is that the audience is much much smaller on askseddit. Take the 150,000 people of /r/seddit compared to the 13,000 of askseddit, you know what I mean? Also being a mod you know your shit, could you help me out with the problem that I posted about? | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 01:45 AM |
| 1 | FR: Solo at the barYou'd like Neuromancer by Williamson Gibson. I think the book invented "cyberpunk". I love the first sentence: "The sky above the port was the color of television, tuned to a dead channel" I've wanted to read Candide for a long time now. | /r/seduction | 06/10/13 03:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Lost my virginity on a solo night out, first ever sober approach.Tips for lasting longer, 1) do kegels 2) once you start to feel an orgasm coming push like you do when you are trying to pee faster. This takes some blood flow away from the dick and thus makes it less sensitive and you'll be able to last longer. Also try totally relaxing your dick when you fuck, in other words dont flex the dick (PC) muscle, that increases blood flow = makes it more sensitive = not last as long. Also try "edging" when you jerk off. Any questions just ask me. Good shit man. I'm … | /r/seduction | 03/10/13 10:58 PM |
| 2 | What sort of ideas do you guys use for a confidence boost pre game?DMX - X Gonna Give it to Ya | /r/seduction | 03/10/13 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Why a Girl Won't Text Back & The Importance Of ControlI'd talk about it to her, and personally if you wouldn't mind i'd like to know her response because I've had similar situations. | /r/seduction | 03/10/13 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Some girls you will have chemistry with and some you won't. Take the pressure off yourself and enjoy the process.Yeah read regularly and it definitely has helped me. There are certain ways of phrasing something or what not that I'll take from an author, and so on. What are you reading now? I'm halfway through The Martian Chronicles, then reading Gulag Archipelago after | /r/seduction | 27/09/13 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Some girls you will have chemistry with and some you won't. Take the pressure off yourself and enjoy the process.Don't you hate having trouble articulating yourself? Whenever I have a similar experience I just think "Why couldn't I say that?!?!?!?!!!!" | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 08:30 PM |
| 1 | For the new guys: Give it a shot! Some insights from a noobThis is the type of response I was looking for, thanks man! | /r/seduction | 23/09/13 07:48 PM |
| 1 | For the new guys: Give it a shot! Some insights from a noobWhat's some of the stuff you'd talk to people about when you'd just meet them? I know it's said you can talk about anything, and that's usually what I do (music most often comes to my mind) but what do you usually talk about or what have you in the past talked about when opening/just meeting someone? | /r/seduction | 23/09/13 04:29 AM |
| 1 | How do you put yourself in the right frame of mine for pick upHow do you increase inner game? I've read just about all the inner-game material but I haven't changed too much | /r/seduction | 16/09/13 08:08 PM |
| 2 | I need help dealing with "Dancing Monkey" syndrome and stop seeking approvalThat was a really good way of putting it and was definitely effective in making an impression on me, thanks man! | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 10:42 PM |
| 1 | I'm proud of myself.Good advice, thanks! I'll remember this | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Question: Post first-date textI think you should stop worrying about if its a bad sign or not. It makes you seem insecure. I have this exact problem. I often do ruminate on if I'm getting a bad sign and it IS because i'm insecure. See the thing is is that I'm conscious of it and I know why it's happening but I'm not sure how to actually approach fixing the problem. I mean you can't "just stop", you know? | /r/seduction | 07/09/13 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone that run cocky/funny feel like it's become too much of what they are?I can think of various guys who fit every personality type, and they all vary wildly in their success with women. I think the major difference is that some guys make moves constantly, while other guys tend to avoid it. Great way of putting it. Essentially you get girls by putting yourself out there and trying. This shit is truly just a numbers game that we hope to improve our chances with, but it's still a numbers game in the end. Never approach = never getting any, always approaching = at least… | /r/seduction | 07/09/13 08:31 PM |
| 1 | "Fake it 'till you make it". How legitimate is this advice?Never thought about it like that. One thing I struggle with though is when i'm IN the moment I can't think of things to talk about, even when I try being mindful of my situation | /r/seduction | 31/08/13 06:08 PM |
| 1 | People don't see you as insecure as you think you are.This is just a theory but perhaps you aren't insecure anymore? Maybe you're just holding onto that identity by claiming its who you are because of who you were? | /r/seduction | 30/08/13 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Sexual Assassin: The "83 Insights" That Have Helped Me Sleep With 200+ WomenWithout even being overly judgmental I could tell this would be shit just from the title, but had to check the comments to test my accuracy. The term "Sexual Assassin" and bragging of having slept with "200+ women" makes him seem like just another scumbag in the game. This subreddit is so polarizing, there are extreme douche bags and very insecure people who want to learn how to "be masculine" and then the other half is people who genuinely want to improve themselves, but it's shit posts like th… | /r/seduction | 30/08/13 06:33 PM |
| 1 | What are fun things to talk about with women?Sure bud, that makes me happy to hear :) | /r/seduction | 27/08/13 06:33 AM |
| 1 | [FR] (Beginner's Luck) First Day of College: The Johnny Appleseed MindsetI've done this several times over, so this is a good thing, I've probably read the same things that you had in mind. | /r/seduction | 24/08/13 12:48 AM |
| 1 | [FR] (Beginner's Luck) First Day of College: The Johnny Appleseed MindsetYeah I wondered about this too, op please respond | /r/seduction | 24/08/13 12:46 AM |
| 1 | [FR] (Beginner's Luck) First Day of College: The Johnny Appleseed MindsetI found ideas from posts, FRs and articles that I really liked, and used them. Can you please expand on this? | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 07:41 PM |
| 1 | DON'T BE CONVENIENTWhat if you just have a more open schedule then the woman? | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 05:59 PM |
| 2 | What are fun things to talk about with women?I mean, if you're talking to girls about them getting raped before fucking them, basically exploiting them, is fucked up man. | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 04:53 AM |
| 3 | What are fun things to talk about with women?That was the point haha. But really, grow up. | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 03:48 AM |
| 1 | What are fun things to talk about with women?You're comment has been downvoted pretty heavily for a reason man. I know a lot of emphasis is put on not subscribing to "group think" and being confident in what you do, but seriously man you should try rethinking your stance on what you just said. | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Seduction in CollegeWhat about with people who are older than you and already have their established friend groups and what not? They aren't exactly looking for new friends, it's not a big deal like it is to freshman. Do freshman generally just stick to freshman? | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 02:17 AM |
| 1 | What are fun things to talk about with women?Yeah, I don't disagree with that. I'd say that religion, politics, etc. can work but it's generally the exception to the rule - but it CAN work. Like you said though, might as well stay away. | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 02:05 AM |
| 1 | What are fun things to talk about with women?Dude... | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 12:38 AM |
| 2 | What are fun things to talk about with women?Things I love talking about are music, movies, playing guitar, traveling, astronomy, poker, literature, weightlifting, etc. Are you me?... | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 12:36 AM |
| 12 | What are fun things to talk about with women?I think that after gauging the girl, her personality, what she cares about, etc. and if you have similar views on RAPE then I think RAPE is ook and can bring people closer together. | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 12:35 AM |
| 3 | What are fun things to talk about with women?How was the bootcamp, would you say it was worth the money? Aren't they like 3 grand? | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Do you have huge approach anxiety? I have come across a solution, and it's brilliant fun. The Name Game.You won't guess mine. | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 11:57 PM |
| 1 | How To Date 4 Women At The Same TimeWhat the fuck is this garbage?... | /r/seduction | 09/08/13 03:25 PM |
| 0 | What are the must watch seduction videos?See now this is a better response than saying something as simple as "he's bad!". Hence why you got downvoted. I don't agree or disagree with you on Tyler since I don't know much about the situation or circumstances, etc but thank you for the input that goes against the grain. (Not being sarcastic.) | /r/seduction | 05/07/13 01:45 AM |
| 1 | I am leaving high school, going into college. What would you recommend to meet new women outside my old high school circle?This really makes me terrified of aging. Awesome. | /r/seduction | 05/07/13 12:45 AM |
| 1 | I am leaving high school, going into college. What would you recommend to meet new women outside my old high school circle?How do you actually leave and disconnect yourself from such things as anxiety? I find it hard to believe that it's really as easy as flipping a switch, could you perhaps explain that a little further to me? | /r/seduction | 05/07/13 12:13 AM |
| 2 | What are the must watch seduction videos?it's a great resource on how to find clothes that fit well, and color matching and what not, but as far as actual clothes to wear, fuck that place. They think dressing up for a yacht club should be an everyday thing. To each his own. | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 02:56 PM |
| 1 | What are the must watch seduction videos?can you name any that he mentions? | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 02:50 PM |
| 1 | What are the must watch seduction videos?how so? | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 02:49 PM |
| 1 | What are the must watch seduction videos?You should really make this into a larger post, instead of a comment on someone elses post. I say this because this is the best advice I've seen on seddit. You described the pattern of "advice" perfectly and you gave more practical advice yourself. | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 02:45 PM |
| -7 | I got rejected for the first time.[Field Report]Yeah, that girl was a major bitch. Not because she rejected OP but because she was toying with him like a punk. | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Inner game is the latest movement in the Seduction community but should beginners still learn Mystery Method?here you go http://www.rsdnation.com/node/432969/forum Just saying I've only browsed the RSD forums twice but the community sounds awful, but I could be jumping the gun or just over generalizing. If you see the thread "What would you do if someone was hitting on your girlfriend" the amount of douchebags was fucking staggering. That said I still think RSD is one of the best PUA companies out there, it just seems that they have a shitty communit but that could be just due to their size. | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Inner game is the latest movement in the Seduction community but should beginners still learn Mystery Method?Oh of course, inner game is most important, I was just wondering if the old stuff was still worth devoting any time and effort into or not. | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Inner game is the latest movement in the Seduction community but should beginners still learn Mystery Method?Why do you think indirect is terrible for most guys? And what is your thoughts on direct day-game. I've heard that direct day-game flakes are drastically higher | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Inner game is the latest movement in the Seduction community but should beginners still learn Mystery Method?thanks for the good response. as far as my beginner slef goes, should i ONLY look into MM just to understand those stages and don't read about the rest of it? | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 04:19 AM |
| 2 | I can't drink.. can I still play the game?awesome response, thanks man! makes me feel good for choosing the sober route | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 03:04 AM |
| 9 | I can't drink.. can I still play the game?Can you please give a legitimate answer? "No" isn't convincing | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 01:38 AM |
| 5 | I can't drink.. can I still play the game?Won't chicks get suspicious though? Like I'm just getting them drunk and will take advantage of them? | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 01:06 AM |
| 8 | Who else lives with their parents?OP, you are probably an asshole. You're number one priority should be to fix yourself. You're a douche bag, you might not believe it but you are. Do something about it. That last last sentence is literally cringe worthy. | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women?As for your second paragraph this is DEFINITELY true for some girls. Source: my sister. | /r/seduction | 11/05/13 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Where does a mid 20's guy go to be surrounded by women?Really? I'm about to enter college and psychology sounded really interesting to me - are most people taking it because they are crazy and want to learn about their own personal issues more or something? | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Where does a mid 20's guy go to be surrounded by women?If you have free time and your spending it inside, you're doing it wrong. Go out at least for no other reason than just to walk around and be out. | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else have game without having to talk a girls head off?Wow, it's annoying how you have a bunch of responses and none of them are answering your question. | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Bear hugs? Picking up a girl with a hug? They are manly, but are they ever a good idea?From what I've noticed they aren't bear hugs as much as hug - pick up - turn around, as an isolation tactic. | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Do not ever be half-heartedly assertive sexually.Is this meant as sarcastically missing the point or are you being serious that you shouldn't say/text what's up to girls? If serious, why not? | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 02:03 AM |
| -1 | Gentlemen, I present to you... the complete memoirs of Casanova. A seduction classic.No one is going to do that for you... | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Some bullet points for your MondayHey, great post. I find this post to be particularly valuable because it stresses points that aren't obvious and aren't the normal ones always mentioned. Also your organization into beginner/intermediate/advanced helped me out a bit. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 01:09 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)You've got a good attitude, keep it up. Do what feels right. You could say that line but I'd probably wait to say it after we just had a good discussion/laughed together/connected. Try to actually connect with her if you haven't | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Billy's Guide to Learning PickupWell, shit. | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Billy's Guide to Learning PickupThanks for the reply, Yeah I definitely intent to make as many friends as possible. I'm actually really looking forward to joining clubs, I think I want to go into too many that I'd have time for. I have a question though. I've mentioned that i'm in high school. I've been a sedditor for almost two years now but I still only made one "approach" (more just like asking a girl I knew if she wanted to chill - I don't think she is interested). I've been too scared to make approaches in school because … | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 01:35 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Ah I hear ya. Is it possible to chat with her a little bit in class/before class? If not then a more direct approach may in fact be best. | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 01:29 AM |
| 7 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I don't know. I know that direct approach is a method some people like, but your chances are better off just making conversation. She already says hi to you and what not, just start chatting. | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 12:29 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I'm really trying to work on my state right now - it's very erratic, but one thing that often helps me is chatting with strangers. Just striking up random conversations with anyone I don't know can set me on the right path. | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 12:26 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Could you please expand on this? | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 12:24 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Good advice, I'll remember this one. | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Billy's Guide to Learning PickupThis is a good point that I haven't heard before. I'm a high school senior right now, 18, and I'm going to be going to college in Buffalo. It isn't that big of a town, although it's bigger than my current town and asides from that it's a college town so there will be thousands of people my age-ish to meet. Even still though, Buffalo isn't a big town, what should I do about cold approach? Keep in mind that I'm a beginner that has barely made any approaches so I should be having my fair share of i… | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 12:11 AM |
| 1 | I'm 20, 5'5" and look like I'm 14This might not help, but tbh it's just fact, I know of a guy who has no arms or legs - born that way, and has a wife. I had a class with a kid last year who was morbidly obese and yet had a pretty hot girl friend. It's all personality. Looks just give you a peg up (and can sometimes be a curse)- it doesn't define your game. Just have good hygiene and e stylish or at least stylishly acceptable. | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 11:56 PM |
| 1 | AMA with JULIEN from REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS!Why? Wouldn't it mean they don't want anything to do with you? | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 10:12 PM |
| 1 | AMA with JULIEN from REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS!Yep, watched the Tyler video several times, thanks for the response! How long and often do you meditate and how long have you been practicing for? | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 04:09 AM |
| 1 | AMA with JULIEN from REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS!I've wanted to meditate but I have two issues with it. One is that I don't know how to approach it - should I clear my mind and relax or should I get to the root of a problem and try to figure it out? It's hard for me to muster up the patience, determination and faith that it will work when I don't know what I'm doing, thus I can never stick with it. Also I have ADHD which probably affects my concentration. | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 12:13 AM |
| 1 | AMA with JULIEN from REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS!What aspect of your game did each help you? | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 09:37 PM |
| 0 | AMA with JULIEN from REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS!outside of your house... | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 09:31 PM |
| 2 | AMA with JULIEN from REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS!Honestly man r/nofap is a sham. It's placebo and makes people think that there is something wrong with jerking it. I mean it's a good exercise in self-control but unless you have a legitimate addiction then it will probably do nothing for you but make you feel guilty. I did it for 15 days and had no effect. Edit: I probably shouldn't be so harsh about it. It's (according to many people who've done it) helped them quite a bit | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 09:28 PM |
| 1 | AMA with JULIEN from REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS!ah alright, I understand what you meant now and I agree | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 09:16 PM |
| 1 | AMA with JULIEN from REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS!Currently a senior and I think you hit the nail on the head. It's all about status. That said there is a little bit of social mobility, at least for me. My school is huge compared to most, my class is 660 kids, 2,500 kids in the school as whole so there are plenty of independent social circles where if you fuck up in one the consequence won't be that bad. It's not an everybody-knows-everybody environment - there are kids that have been around since kindergarten that I haven't had any classes wit… | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 08:00 PM |
| 1 | AMA with JULIEN from REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS!I don't understand... Wouldn't that mean that all flirting is creepy because you have an agenda to fuck? | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 07:45 PM |
| 4 | AMA with JULIEN from REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS!I don't disagree buuuuuuut KISS MORE ASS | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Hey i asked a girl to get together this weekend but the thing is I have no idea what to do.If you're in NYC, the Met is one of best museums in the world and it's pay what you want (can be free) | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Try this game now! Guaranteed positive results!"in this thread". I always forget that one | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 12:07 AM |
| 2 | After the opener, some of us freeze up and don't know what to do. What are some great transitions?God damn it I hate talking to walls. It's bad because sometimes I don't know if I should blame myself (am I too boring/not engaging enough?) or blame them as being base and not socially competent. | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 04:15 PM |
| 2 | After the opener, some of us freeze up and don't know what to do. What are some great transitions?Noob here - all I really know of is RSD and Seddits seduction teachings, which basically means no scripted shit, all spontaneous, fun, not in your head, etc. What are these "scripted" openers? Where can I find some so then I can study them and see how and why they work? | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Little Victories for a BeginnerHonestly I'm not so sure about r/nofap. I did it for 14 days and by the 15th day I felt no different so I just gave up on it. | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Little Victories for a BeginnerAs someone who has yet to conquer their AA - wtf dude? You regret that? You took action, that's all you CAN do. Only regret the times you don't approach. | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Why I hate RSD. My experience.Is Transformations any good? | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Why I hate RSD. My experience.Why are you still not big on RSD? Also I've heard MM get a lot of flak, why do you like it? Also I don't know much about Venusian Arts, but I've heard that Matador is BS and some that have seen him infield saw him do terribly. What are your thoughts? I ask as a beginner that has primarily been listening to RSD (and yeah it's definitely pretty confusing) but is just trying to learn. I'm not personally invested in RSD, if you throw ideas out there then I am definitely interested | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Examples Of My Biggest Fails + What Would YOU Have Said?eh. sounds kind a little lame to be honest. Sort of contrived | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Meditation - A Beginner's Practical Guide by Tyler DurdenThanks, you have been very informative. I just found Mindfulness in Plain English for free online so I might give that a read. Thanks for everything. If I can think of anymore questions I'll ask you, thanks again! | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Speaking Drills For ClarityAnd that will fuck with your voice -and therefore vocal chords- how? | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Speaking Drills For ClarityDo you actually think enunciation practice will fuck someones voice up? Is this for real? Basically he's suggesting to do tongue twisters and you ware warning that can permanently strain your voice... Also, JimmyLegs50 completely stole any credibility you had. Good luck with your voice though, and good job on quitting smoking | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Meditation - A Beginner's Practical Guide by Tyler DurdenBeginning at 10 minutes is a good idea. What is your meditation method, such as laying down in a dark room, or staring at a single point, or pinching and then focusing on sensations on a specific part of your body, cross legged with erect back, etc. Thanks for the helpful response so far! | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 02:51 PM |
| 1 | I'm a funny guy, but I find myself getting stuck in, "funny mode" when talking to girls. Anyone else have this problem, or advice?What would you say your humor is? | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Speaking Drills For ClarityFuuuuck. Trying so hard! | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 05:56 AM |
| 2 | I'm a funny guy, but I find myself getting stuck in, "funny mode" when talking to girls. Anyone else have this problem, or advice?Not gonna lie, often I just end up stealing jokes or phrases from stand up, funny shows, or just a funny movie as oppose to really morphing my own humor, since as you could probably guess I'm not really sure how to do. Edit: BTW, is Louis CK good as well? I assume yes, I love his stand up and show | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 05:46 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Met wonderful gal in the bus, no #-close, but an interesting lesson for the future.Step 1 is sort of a problem though, since she is actually my cousins best friend who I only just met, and I am sure will meet many more times. I think it's worth noting that it isn't a problem in my life. It's not holding me back from other women at all, but Facebook reminds me of her a lot. Perhaps I should make it so her statues don't pop up in my feed anymore, yet still having her on my list and not blocking her. | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 05:44 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Met wonderful gal in the bus, no #-close, but an interesting lesson for the future.How? Saying move on doesn't help much. An equivalent would be to tell a depressed person to "get over it". | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 05:25 AM |
| 3 | Meditation - A Beginner's Practical Guide by Tyler DurdenHow do you stick with it? So far I haven't been successful with sticking to it. | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 04:33 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Met wonderful gal in the bus, no #-close, but an interesting lesson for the future.Sure, but don't make a habit of it. If you're still thinking about this girl three weeks from now, it's a problem. sigh... Fuck. Hate to admit it, it's kind of embarrassing, but I've got a problem. Met an awesome woman way back in fucking November. VERY beautiful, as she was a former model, VERY smart. The way she expressed her self and articulated what she had on her mind was great. When she spoke, you knew right away that she was very intelligent. And on top of all that she was hilarious. Fran… | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Meditation - A Beginner's Practical Guide by Tyler DurdenWhy is that? I kind of am on the fence. He seems a little too intense but sometimes the things he says really rings true, but I kind of feel like my gut tells me not to trust him too much. Perhaps his advice is good but IDK, he charges I thinking something like a thousand dollars to do a two or 3 day bootcamp with him. That is defintiely off putting That guy's company, Real Social Dynamics, also has a number of other instructors who might jive you with more. | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Meditation - A Beginner's Practical Guide by Tyler DurdenDo you meditate daily? | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 04:04 AM |
| 2 | I'm a funny guy, but I find myself getting stuck in, "funny mode" when talking to girls. Anyone else have this problem, or advice?I know this might sound dumb, but do you have any tips to be funnier? | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 04:01 AM |
| 1 | A list of fun, useful "social games"Well put, thank you. | /r/seduction | 13/02/13 07:22 PM |
| -1 | A list of fun, useful "social games"All of these are great, except peacocking. It's ridiculous and a pretty dated idea. It needs to be laid to rest. | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Something that completely changed my game.Thanks for your replies, this is an interesting interaction. When you say "aggression" want do you mean? Like "I'm gonna fuck up the next guy who looks at me"? | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Something that completely changed my game.Like you become more aware of your body, right? I was talking to my cousin about meditation - he is getting a PhD in Buddhist studies - and he used an example to show me. He touched my shoulder and asked me if I felt that, which of course I did. Then he asked me if I was conscience of of any feeling in that area before he touched it and of course I didn't. He told me through meditation you can be come more aware of your bodies feelings, and some masters can even become aware of their own organs. | /r/seduction | 10/02/13 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Something that completely changed my game.How so? | /r/seduction | 10/02/13 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone have advice about going out solo?I went out with some friends tonight, any success I had with the ladies was done solo. This is an excellent quote. It makes sense too. | /r/seduction | 10/02/13 06:29 AM |
| 0 | Tyler's System For Ultra High Consistency"like this is baseline marketing" I'm saying this is a completely normal and acceptable thing to do. I'm not cynical about it, you are just retarded for thinking he does it out of the kindness of his heart. | /r/seduction | 02/02/13 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Tyler's System For Ultra High Consistencyit'd be ridiculous to emulate or even admire his lifestyle. Absolutely. In a recent Tyler video, Tyler was saying how Brad was so drunk one night and was saying how "People can't find out about RSD. I have no life. All I do is party and have sex. That's all my life is." Something along those lines, and Tyler was telling everyone this like it was funny like "Oh yeah that's SOOO bad", but that actually struck a cord with me that I only barely thought of before. I mean there is more to life then ju… | /r/seduction | 02/02/13 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Girls often ask me about my experience, how do I frame my inexperience in a positive way? Or should I keep silent about it?Or if she keeps pestering you like that, keep playing it off or tell her to stop. I mean that just comes off as "errrrr I don't want to say out of insecurity (none)". I think the best response I've heard to this was actually just above that was your first sentence. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Girls often ask me about my experience, how do I frame my inexperience in a positive way? Or should I keep silent about it?I think lieing could be a good way to handle this particular shit test, but lieing as your game, like in your last sentence just seems sort of lame. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Girls often ask me about my experience, how do I frame my inexperience in a positive way? Or should I keep silent about it?So basically side step it? That doesn't seem effective, it's obvious when someone avoids a question they don't want to answer it. If anything, at least in this instance, it seems like it would demonstrate "I haven't slept with any/few, so I don't want to answer that question because i'm insecure about it". That's my take as a newbie, so can this please be clarified? | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Tyler's System For Ultra High ConsistencyWhat'd he talk about, and where you able to permanently actualize the information? | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 05:41 AM |
| -1 | Tyler's System For Ultra High ConsistencyDude, do you SERIOUSLY think that the free videos are some sort of fuckin charity? This is coming from someone who over all likes RSD: Those videos are all marketing. They are samples. They are always alluding to the fact that boot camps (which I don't doubt) are more in depth and you'd get more out of them, but that's the purpose of the videos. Give out some good advice, show what they are all about, try to draw people in through that. Like this is baseline marketing, I'm kind of shocked at you… | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Tyler's System For Ultra High ConsistencyI've sort of struggled with this as well. I mean just the though of having to constantly, every day, pump your state to a high... just fuck. See I think RSD tries to chase feeling amazing all the time, while still acknowledging there will be lows, but honestly is that what life is about? Is that what I want? To be chasing and pursuing feeling amazing and awesome and badass all the time? Why not just be content. It's not a whole lot different, and seems better in general. I mean the fact that you… | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 05:36 AM |
| 3 | Tyler's System For Ultra High ConsistencyI think the best defense for Tyler/RSD as a whole is that their advice is pretty much top notch - they just make the decision to go for girls who are already taken. You could easily take all their advice and still stick to your morals. I mean RSD in a nutshell is "relax, enjoy the process for the process, not the outcome". Perhaps it could be wrapped up better, but that isn't the point. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Tyler's System For Ultra High ConsistencyIt comes from the belief that girls can't be trusted to make sound decisions. No it doesn't. I don't know if this is unintentional straw manning or perhaps a simple misinterpretation. It's not that they aren't capable, but can be manipulated to do something where it would be very hard to refuse. It's not 100 percent on them or on you, but the fact is that a lot of people, if they are manipulated, would do things they would ordinarily never do. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Tyler's System For Ultra High ConsistencyI think this is a misunderstanding of the argument. The argument is that they do have a choice but you are pressuring them, influencing them to do something that if you didn't come along and provide that pressure she wouldn't have to deal with. Temptation is a great power, manipulating it to get a girl do something she will regret just seems fucked up. Like christ, abundance theory. Move on to the next one, regardless of your convictions, you can live with out influencing them to do something th… | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Tyler's System For Ultra High ConsistencyDo you know how many hours of footage that guy has? Like are you seriously trying to argue that he used that footage because he didn't have enough? | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Tyler's System For Ultra High ConsistencyIs that... Are you one of those people who would fuck your friends girl? | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Tyler's System For Ultra High ConsistencyLink to the comment please, I'd like to read it. I've always come from the general frame that if a relationship was good enough, neither of them would cheat so it's not really my problem, but at the same time that isn't a strong belief of mine and I do have misgivings about it still, so in short I'm pretty split on the issue. I'd love to hear the different perspectives. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Tyler's System For Ultra High ConsistencyOver all, agreed, but hey. Take the meat, throw away the bone. Take the good, leave the bad. You could take ALL of Tyler's/RSD's advice to heart and still not apply it to girls with boy friends. But yeah I definitely hear where you are coming from. For me to do stuff like that I'd have to alter my moral compass | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 04:50 AM |
| 1 | My transformation. Thank you Seddit.Thanks for that link | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Top ten cities for hot girls, cool write upDo you live in a big city? Perhaps the "ratio" of hot girls in a population isn't as high, but it doesn't matter. I live just outside of NYC. Every time I walk the streets of NYC I will see at least a few attractive women. You are being exposed to hundreds, or thousands of people, you WILL find hot chicks. | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Top ten cities for hot girls, cool write upThis list is such bullshit. I would have no way of knowing for myself since I haven't been to any of those places, but fuck that list. Being more serious, this list comes off as very bullshit. Beunos Aires as a 1? No. I've seen Argentinian women before, in fact only 3 in my life, and they were all fucking stunning. The 3 different Argentinian women I ever had the chance of meeting were very hot, so I have a hard time believing that a Beunos Aires would have so few as well. Rio I find a bit hard … | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else feel like some of the better known PUAs are a little bit full of shit?Speaking of which, Julien just posted a video related to this discussion. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x--j6J5TB8Q Basically he is saying there is no singular theory/style | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 01:54 AM |
| 0 | Does anyone else feel like some of the better known PUAs are a little bit full of shit?I'm 17 now and just got into this stuff about a year ago as a 16 year old. I haven't tried any of this stuff out mainly because I don't think it's a good idea to practice on girls in school, then be stuck with them after the numerous inevitable rejections, which I don't say in a dejected way, but every one gets rejected. Now imagine spending class with all the girls who've ever rejected you. Yeah fuck that. I'm waiting for college to really hit this shit off though. | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else feel like some of the better known PUAs are a little bit full of shit?I like RSD for this reason. They don't state their stuff as facts per se, jsut a lot of "this has worked for me, and this is my style" I don't maybe I'm wrong. What do you think about RSD? | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Cocaine. Serious advice needed. I don't think it's physically possible for me to be "obnoxiously confident".This is very important. When you start practicing to be more social, you can't JUST learn to be social around hot women. You need to practice on everybody. That doesn't mean trying to pick up the old women behind you in the grocery line, but just chat people up. | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Cocaine. Serious advice needed. I don't think it's physically possible for me to be "obnoxiously confident".Dude, do a bootcamp if you're this desperate. Save the money if you have to. RSD is the best company out here. go to their website (www.rsdnation.com) and participate in the forums. There is always more you can do. | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Does Seddit do AMA's? After all the RSD video posts it'd be fantastic to have an AMA with Owen CookYeah they all have their unique personalities. Brad seems awesome but from where I'm coming from I think I relate more to Jeffy or Tyler, maybe Todd. That is, I was am uncomfortable in social situations where Brad (if I remember correctly) always was social and what ever, but he just didn't know how to pick up girls. | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Does Seddit do AMA's? After all the RSD video posts it'd be fantastic to have an AMA with Owen CookReally? Why? What do you think of the other instructors like Jeffy, Julien, Alex, Todd etc | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 09:29 AM |
| 1 | The Process, a guide for newbiesThis is a video from Julien of Real Social Dynamics, probably the best pick up company in the world. It's titled "From open to close". Tells all the basics in one video, instead of video jockeying to get them ll | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 06:55 AM |
| 1 | I want to re-invent myself during my last year of college.You won't make any progress if you don't approach. You can't jog around the block if you don't walk out the door. | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 06:22 AM |
| 0 | I just wanted to share an opener I've had great success withGod that show sucks | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 06:17 AM |
| 1 | [The Atlantic] The Online Dating GameI want to hear more about this. Please tell. I'm about to be entering college soon, how does it not prepare you for real work? | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Self-improvement question: How can I stop doing an involuntary laugh? Or laughing at everything?I have the same problem, it stems from insecurity and nervousness, so work on that. Of course that is very general advice, but there you go. One thing if you have a hard time holding a straight face when telling a joke (which I do. Seriously, laughing hysterically before you finish a joke is SO DAMN ANNOYING!!!!!) is to pretend what you're saying is completely serious. | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Bang by Roosh V got me my second hookup!Very true. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Bang by Roosh V got me my second hookup!I'm a senior now and I want to start. Why do you say it's a good time? I see it as a pretty shit time to be honest, and if I'm being negative I'm not meaning to be. In school everybody has reputations. Also, fuck ups and blow outs are daily reminders when you see the girls in the hall, or the things that are said about you I was thinking of just trying to break out of my shell socially in HS, but actually approaching girls once I go off to college. | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Bang by Roosh V got me my second hookup!How is he "unflinchingly honest"? I know nothing about him. One thing I've heard recently (can't remember where I read it) that Pick up is really just all a numbers game. What are you thoughts? | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 04:02 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with Alpha's who want to fight? [story inside]Yes, he couldn't take hints so you just tell him, don't be an asshole about it. OP was a bit of a dick about it. If he worded it nicely there would have been less of a chance that the guy would have gotten offended. "Just so you know..." isn't really dickish but the "So you can stop hitting on her now" is just pushing it. Just be nice for fucks sake... "She has a boyfriend." Or "Not to disappoint you but she has a boyfriend" or something that is just generally nicer. Don't condone this shit, bec… | /r/seduction | 29/11/12 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with Alpha's who want to fight? [story inside]Yeah, OP came off as unnecessarily antagonistic, not that it's his fault, the guy was a douche bag but still. | /r/seduction | 29/11/12 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with Alpha's who want to fight? [story inside]Wrong. The fence is better. | /r/seduction | 29/11/12 08:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with Alpha's who want to fight? [story inside]So this flashlight will actually blind someone for minutes, or is that more exaggeration? | /r/seduction | 29/11/12 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with Alpha's who want to fight? [story inside]Yeah, I feel like AMOGS and AMOG Destroyes aren't talked about nearly as much as they should be in this subreddit. I don't even know much about them, just that they exist. | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 12:43 AM |
| 1 | I've convinced myself that living at home, at age 24, to save money and complete my degree is enough of an excuse to not date since girls don't like guys in my situation. Should I continue with this mindset or change my attitude?Yeah. Problem for me is that I will be going to a community college in NYC, so the school won't have dorms and most people will probably just be living where they always have. It's not out of the question to try and find someone who is in the same situation as me and share an apartment, but that is much easier said then done. First I would need to find someone in the same situation, AND I'd have to get along with them. I don't know how do-able that is.. :/ | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 10:23 PM |
| 2 | I've convinced myself that living at home, at age 24, to save money and complete my degree is enough of an excuse to not date since girls don't like guys in my situation. Should I continue with this mindset or change my attitude?How do you handle the situation when the girl asks to go to your place? Do you just saying "No, I live with my parents/roommates"? | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 04:01 AM |
| 1 | I've convinced myself that living at home, at age 24, to save money and complete my degree is enough of an excuse to not date since girls don't like guys in my situation. Should I continue with this mindset or change my attitude?Good point with the parents. It definitely depends on each persons parents, but generally if they aren't ANTI sex and whatever, then they either won't give a fuck, or they WANT you to get laid. My mom used to push me to have a relationship (which entails getting laid, so same shit) all the time. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 03:38 AM |
| 2 | I've convinced myself that living at home, at age 24, to save money and complete my degree is enough of an excuse to not date since girls don't like guys in my situation. Should I continue with this mindset or change my attitude?Got any tips for this? I'm about to move into NYC for college and will probably have either roomates or live with my uncle, in which case OP's problem will also be my own. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 03:35 AM |
| 2 | A great technique I've been using lately to eliminate my AA when first getting to a bar.I understand, but why use such an awkward method on a HB, a HB that one would want to approach because she is hot? That is just my take on it, any discussion is pointless since that is what works for him and that's that. | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 03:48 AM |
| 63 | A great technique I've been using lately to eliminate my AA when first getting to a bar.Ehhh Idk. I mean if it works for you fine, but frankly it sounds really lame. Just reading it sounded awkward. | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Tips on Human Sexuality from a Psycho-biologistJust saying I've tried the no-fapping thing. Made it 14 days through and not single difference. I think it's placebo and has been way, way over hyped. I'd say maturation abstinence is only good for people who actually are addicted to it. For me, it did nothing. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Confession: I've been lurking for over a year and still have not approached a girl. Can't get sustained motivation.I want to thank you for this post. Especially when you quoted me. I don't know, I just never saw things like that. This was eye opening for me. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Confession: I've been lurking for over a year and still have not approached a girl. Can't get sustained motivation.I've tried to have more patience with my mom but it's really hard. Maybe it's part of being a teenager but I lose my patience with her a lot. I can't depend on her for nearly anything, and she is lazy. She does nothing around the house, and the house is a mess because of it. I never have friends come over because I'm embarrassed of it. Furthermore I'm only there half the week, so it's not like I can clean all the time anyway. Which is also to say that I'm not going to be the only one responsible… | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 12:56 AM |
| 1 | 5 Ways to Instantly Appear More ConfidentYou're awesome, thank you for typing this out. It actually changes the way I view things. I'm 17, I just got into this whole business a year ago, I never thoguth about it the same way as you. I have been concerned with immediate results, and stuff, but when I see it through your perspective of basically looking at the macro, all the little things don't matter to much. The macro is much more important. Move towards your long term goal, all the micro will follow. Thanks for this. As a confession I… | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 12:49 AM |
| 3 | 5 Ways to Instantly Appear More ConfidentUgh. THANK YOU for posting this. This is exactly right. THIS. THIS IS IT. End thread. Confidence is really just being congruent to your emotions AS OPPOSED TO TRYING TO MASK THEM. You know who try to mask over their emotions? Insecure people. You deserve much more upvotes. Also out of curiosity, have you done one of his bootcamps? | /r/seduction | 12/11/12 05:49 AM |
| 1 | 5 Ways to Instantly Appear More ConfidentI feel like this wouldn't work around people you've known for a while, since they know how you "really" are. | /r/seduction | 12/11/12 05:46 AM |
| 0 | 20 Ways to Be More Assertive and Get What You WantNick, I don't know about anyone else, but I find it sort of hard to reach your articles. Well, that isn't exactly what i mean, so let me elaborate I will read your articles, then see your links to other articles, then read those, then oh look, more links. I don't really know how to go about this and it kind of seems over whelming. There is this constant feeling of information left out, at least for me. What can be done about this? You definitely have good stuff. | /r/seduction | 26/10/12 02:50 AM |
| 1 | I just got my first kiss!Question: what makes a good kisser? What do? | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 02:11 PM |
| -1 | How does one establish a social network or a list of friends that help you meet more people?Well you've kind of made your self look like an ass. | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 08:12 PM |
| 3 | How do you make small talk with strangers?This is called conversation threading. Take a statement like "I love Paris. It's so romantic" Lets break this down by topics covered that you can delve deeper into. Love. talk about other things she loves or say something that you love to do or what ever. Travel. Where else does she like to go/would like to go. Were do you want to go/like to go Romantic. What makes Paris romantic? etc., etc. Conversation threading makes conversing super easy, and often times people do it with out thinking about … | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Really like this guys style, he comes off very natural.It came off as incredibly natural. Perhaps because he wasn't too pushy. | /r/seduction | 28/09/12 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Dudes, need advice on how to answer and deal with this situationWHAT IS THAT SECOND COMMA DOING THERE?!? | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 05:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)I was wondering how it works exactly. Why does jsut stopping turn her on or what ever? | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 10:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)Most of reddit still thinks only looks and money get girls. | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 04:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)You're dyslectic? Seriously? You're spelling is not bad at all. Some typos but that happens to everyone. Good job on over coming that. Also, about the "turn off" bit. Can you explain a little bit more how that works? | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 03:57 AM |
| 2 | What is your favorite outer-game technique?My only complaint with Cajun is how he says "you'll be my new little sister". What the fuck. That's straight up weird. You want to fuck your little sister? Substitute it with best friend or some other shit and it's not bad. | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 01:45 AM |
| 1 | I'm going to a "write on your shirt" party tonight. What can I write on it to get some attention?That was good | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 07:50 PM |
| 1 | What is your favorite outer-game technique?Sorry, what's DHV? | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 04:56 AM |
| 1 | What is your favorite outer-game technique?Is that a good show? | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, we need to talkYes. That said, getting a phone number for a lot of people in this subreddit is a first for them so it's a big step for them, so I understand why it's applauded and i don't mind it. | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Seddit, we need to talkPost more shiet man | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 09:42 PM |
| 5 | Seddit, we need to talkGetting a phone number doesn't really even mean anything. I know that a lot of us have this "pat on the back" attitude, but getting a number isn't scoring. Scoring is scoring. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Lying about your ageNo, I agree with that, but it just sounded like you don't care about the women you date. That's how it came off to me at least. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Lying about your ageTrue that. It feels so good even when it's hard. (Sexual innuendo not intended) | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Lying about your ageAlright, we gotta hear the story. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Lying about your ageDon't you value relationships at all though? That attitude could be applied to any relationship and just sounds like you DGAF about your partner, ever. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 12:17 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Fundamentals and not giving a fuckI don't give a fuck | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Looking for random (fun) ways to impress a girl.Give em food. Bitches love food. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Looking for random (fun) ways to impress a girl.Good stuff, but holy shit that hosts hair. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 10:09 PM |
| 2 | What Self-Respect Really MeansNick's article on being a real man is great. Just closed the link, sorry. FInd it for yourself! | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 10:39 PM |
| 6 | Seddit, What is one invaluable piece of knowledge have you picked up in the last year - That you think everyone here should know?Is this a bad thing that I see most of those things as good traits? I mean, being on time, or being nice to parents... I mean really? Why are these things bad? | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 01:10 AM |
| 3 | Any tricks to force myself to talk to everyone?Sounds pretty legit. | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, What is one invaluable piece of knowledge have you picked up in the last year - That you think everyone here should know?Can you expand a bit on closing? | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 12:50 AM |
| 4 | Seddit, What is one invaluable piece of knowledge have you picked up in the last year - That you think everyone here should know?Also. look at everyone in a group when you talk. It is a great communication skill that seemingly no one uses. It makes people feel included and like you are talking to them (which you are). I hate when I'm in a group and the speaker only looks at either their friends in the group or just one person when talking. | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, What is one invaluable piece of knowledge have you picked up in the last year - That you think everyone here should know?I don't understand... what are "good beta traits"? | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, What is one invaluable piece of knowledge have you picked up in the last year - That you think everyone here should know?If something doesn't increase your value, don't send it. This is probably the only thing I really disagreed with. I'd say text rarely just because in person is more intimate and it makes your time together that much more valuable AS WELL AS not sucking material for you to really talk about at length in person. | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Seddit, What is one invaluable piece of knowledge have you picked up in the last year - That you think everyone here should know?One that immediately comes to mind is the idea that if you avoid talking to a girl you will be upset at yourself for not having talked to her. If you do talk to her and get rejected, it still might suck, but it would have sucked anyway. At least you made an attempt. Also, if you really change your attitude where you really don't give a fuck if you're rejected, then it doesn't even have to be a negative thing. | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Any tricks to force myself to talk to everyone?You have 30 conversations a day? I can't help but feel like this is extremely exaggerated. | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Picking up on the first week of schoolWhy's that?? | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 12:31 AM |
| 2 | What the fuck do you guys talk about?So it's sort of like you get sick of writing down how shit your life is so it's more motivating to change it? | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 03:04 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck do you guys talk about?I've talked to a few people that I don't know so far in school but often I don't even avoid it like I used to, I just have no idea what to say. I'll just be completely blank on what to talk about. First time talking isn't as bad as other times, because by then I've especially run out of things Ito talk about, and along with the OP, I'm really not interesting, to be honest. | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 04:26 AM |
| 0 | Adding her on Facebook?So for other people, in other words you are saying that there will be many rejections and there is nothing you can do about it, so just get over it. I'm here to help. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 09:17 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck do you guys talk about?Can you give tips on how to escalate and make it more personal each time exactly? | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 09:09 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck do you guys talk about?The whole "who lies more thing" is extremely cliche an even a lot of girls know of it. You have a good chance of just getting embarrassed. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 08:48 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck do you guys talk about?I just started senior year of HS now. Honestly I feel like it would just be depressing. I'd just be writing down how I barely talked to anyone and had no friends. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Im a noob, made first 5 aproaches today. Better than expected!alright thanks dude. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Im a noob, made first 5 aproaches today. Better than expected!I've heard that that book teaches you to "prey on wounded animals". I have no idea if that's true or not. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Video Example of Advanced ApproachingWhat the fuck is "neg" theory and why does it sound like a croc of shit? | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 02:55 AM |
| 1 | I am such a beta, that I'm beginning to hate my life. (If it's too long, just read the bold print for the story.)But then you feel bad about not doing them anyway, so either way you feel bad. Might as well go for it at that point. | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Awkward silences 30 minutes inWhat are these guys saying? | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Awkward silences 30 minutes inGood points, thank you. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Awkward silences 30 minutes inI think it could work, but just thinking about talking to someone like that is, to me, irritating. I hate talking to people and getting any kind of information is like pulling teethe. Again it could work, but seriously "Guess" for everything just sounds annoying and like some routine, which is basically what it is. Too contrived for my likings, I'll probably use it once or twice to try it out, but not for ever question she asks me... | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Awkward silences 30 minutes inTwist words how? Can you give examples? | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Decided to get over AA. This is how it wentAlso, and perhaps not in this particular occasion, but you can write down your number and give it to her in case she changes her mind later. | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 09:50 AM |
| 1 | 18M going to college...A few simple questions?For fun date ideas, lazer tag is an awesome thing to do too | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 04:30 PM |
| -2 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?Out of curiosity, why as a women do you browse Seddit? | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 11:48 PM |
| 0 | What we should be teaching these incoming freshman to collegeAnd this, kids, is why you don't rush into having children. | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 02:33 PM |
| 1 | OK, so lets talk dancing and American girls.This actually highlights a problem for me. I can't dance. I'm just tense and feel awkward, and I don't know how to dance. | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever have a confrontation with a brother/ boyfriend while trying to pick a girl up? How did you handle it, what happened, etc.?How do you feel about pursuing women even if it's known that that that woman is in a relationship, be it fiance, married, or has a boyfriend, but one pursues her anyway? I've thought about this a bit and am wondering others opinions on it. | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Opened a random girl on facebook just for shits and gigs. immediately made logistically massive mistake, recovery and #close within minutes. [full conversation included]Sorry, it was a response to your AND Ateisti's points, I should have made that clearer. | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Overcame AA last night. Failed, but it felt so goodAren't we all? Do you agree that the hardest part of all of this is getting out of the house and start talking? | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Opened a random girl on facebook just for shits and gigs. immediately made logistically massive mistake, recovery and #close within minutes. [full conversation included]It's common to have FB friends that you never talk to in real life... I have almost 200 friends (not a lot by any means), and almost all of them I've AT BEST have had maybe one encounter with, some of them I didn't even know they went to my school (I go to one of the most populated high schools in the US) and what not. Personally, I don't add people I don't know, but the idea of having a random girl as your FB friend isn't that out outrageous. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Opened a random girl on facebook just for shits and gigs. immediately made logistically massive mistake, recovery and #close within minutes. [full conversation included]I don't know, I'm not experienced in this stuff, but it seems a little too early to say. Any outside opinions on this? | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Opened a random girl on facebook just for shits and gigs. immediately made logistically massive mistake, recovery and #close within minutes. [full conversation included]I'm from New York too! We have so much in common! I'm a high school senior though... | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Being more approachable"Looking approachable" just comes with confidence. Work on the other stuff, that'll just be a by-product. Besides, the point is for you to approach other people, not other way around, right? | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Overcame AA last night. Failed, but it felt so goodI really don't think that is a good idea... | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Overcame AA last night. Failed, but it felt so goodBut you are the sedditpro! | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Bros before Hoes, a question about the rule.Fair enough | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Bros before Hoes, a question about the rule.Jesus, the dude is just insecure, try to have some empathy. I'd say stay with him and really try to motivate him more. Try things you haven't tried yet. Say things you haven't said yet. Sometimes just the wording of something can make someones brain click. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 11:10 AM |
| 1 | RSD Tyler on Neediness/Oneitis - Long, but very worthwhile if you're struggling with this!Has anybody attended one of his bootcamps? | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 01:30 AM |
| 1 | What helped me most getting over AAThe Flinch by Julian Smith, correct? | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 02:46 AM |
| 1 | What helped me most getting over AAHaha, that's actually why I didn't want to read it. I was reading Brave New World and was into it, just wanted a main idea so if it was something I hadn't heard yet I could check it out. I'll read it when I get back from my haircut in an hour or so. | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How can I overcome these issues?Yeah, but parties aren't full of people who are there because they fill roles though. There are those people there, but the majority of them are usually just friends and/or friends of friends that doesn't serve a specific purpose. | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Winking conveying confidenceI don't know. Personally I've always hated anyone winking at me for what ever reason, but perhaps it's different for a woman. | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 01:09 AM |
| -4 | What helped me most getting over AACAn you give a general idea, before I spend time reading 40 pages of something? | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 01:08 AM |
| 1 | What helped me most getting over AAIt's just that it's hard to go up to a girl right away, in that instance, with out anxiety. | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.With all due respect, if you are taking meds and you are feeling better, how woudl that make sense to stop taking meds? You're feeling better, at least inpart, due to the drugs, right? So why stop taking them?? | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 01:05 AM |
| 1 | How can I overcome these issues?No offense but I don't think the first part of your advice is that great. YOu are saying that he needs to have some sort of value/role. Some of those roeles was "cool guy" and "funny" guy. Fro the OP's persepctive, peole seem to think he is funny/cool, but he still not getting invited. Literally your advice in a nutshell is be likeable... I've dealt with teh same thing as the OP, and I have to say that this advice doesn't help me at all. Could you perhaps try explaining it differently? Maybe it … | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 12:45 AM |
| 1 | 5 Things That Will Get You LaidSure, don't know when that will be though haha. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 12:22 AM |
| 1 | 5 Things That Will Get You LaidI've only seen like 2 scenes from that movie. FUCK that. lol Well anyway, good luck man. Tell me how the Swedish girls are when you get around to it haha | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 04:33 PM |
| 1 | 5 Things That Will Get You LaidGo there man! You have the highspeed train thing, you can travel the EU in a matter of hours (or most of it). It's really easy to make friends and a foreigner. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Why You're Not Good at ThisMeaning what exactly? I'm trying to get another perspective on this. I've only heard good things about self-improvement, you are the first I've seen to have a negative opinion on it. Can you elaborate? | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Why You're Not Good at ThisI have wondered a little that, if I do "get" this stuff and pull stunners consistently on a weekly basis... how will I ever be able to settle down for a marriage and have a family? That said, the biggest reason I have been scared is simply because I haven't gotten over approach anxiety yet. The other thing is a little worrying, bit it isn't that big in my mind. I do believe that with time and effort I can learn this stuff, so my only long term worry is that, after mastering these skills, I may b… | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Why You're Not Good at ThisDo you not believe in the self-improvement "crap"? Why not? | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Why You're Not Good at ThisIs RSD boot camps worth the money? I'm not sure how much they cost but I heard like 3,000 dollars or something... I feel like I'd be paying 3 grand just for someone to tell me not to give a fuck. Is it worth the money? | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 03:08 AM |
| 2 | 5 Things That Will Get You Laid"You" in American culture is generally pretty general and not always meant to be directly aimed at YOU... In case of any language barrier. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 03:01 AM |
| 1 | 5 Things That Will Get You Laidgermans are very anti-social in their normal behavior. Wow really? Never would have guessed. Is that the same for Denmark or Sweden, or Eastern Europe? | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 02:48 AM |
| 1 | 5 Things That Will Get You LaidDefinitely going to use this. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.How have things changed for you since Nofap? | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 03:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you improve social/conversation skills? Seems to be there is no definite answer.Yes this helps, especially with the "bitches love pictures" bit haha. I think this is probably true for talking to anyone though. I'm definitely going to try and employ this when I speak to people. Also going to not really knowing what to talk about though, as said that definitely helps, but I don't really know how to pull something out of thin air. For example I was at the museum today with my cousin and aunt. My aunt went to the bathroom and me and my cousin were standing there, I had no idea … | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.Damn. I never really thought of it as an addiction, but as I really thought about this the past few minutes... I guess it kind of is. Maybe more of a habit than an addiction, but still. Alright well starting tonight I'm going to try to stop. | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.Fuck. I've been trying to stick to this Nofap thing but it's hard. I don't think I can hold out through the night. Why is it so important/life changing? | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.3 times a day? Holy shit. I do it at most once a day, but not even. I could go days with out doing it. | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 10:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you improve social/conversation skills? Seems to be there is no definite answer.What do you do when someone talks about something that you have no knowledge about? Sayings "Oh wow, that's really interesting" seems a bit dry and disingenuous. Also, could you please elaborate on... Engage the listener. Rocks are boring, but add an emotion people can connect to in how you found the rocks or it was a gift from a loved one and people get interested. Don't overdue it though, otherwise it gets emotionally overbearing. Pay attention to the signals that others are displaying People … | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 10:31 AM |
| 1 | How do you improve social/conversation skills? Seems to be there is no definite answer.My trouble, and I suppose this is what troubles most people, is how to stop a conversation for stalling out. Have any specific tips? | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.Good site, thanks for this. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.Have any tips to stick to this commitment? How does this help? | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.I have an opposite problem though. I will try to do something with out planning, then not feel confident in what I'm doing because, well I really don't know what I'm doing, then stop. Structure gives me groundwork, and i can work off of that and improvise from there, but actually setting the groundwork is a bit tough as a noob. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.Thanks man, I'll add you to friends. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.Good point with the "work on your self" bit. I'm going to try to be, not so much honest because I'm not gonna lie about it, but I'll try to dig into my mind to see why I truly want a girlfriend... What immediately comes to mind is to have someone to care for me, as I care for them. To connect with someone, to have our time spent be meaningful and deep. To enjoy doing the same things. To learn things from her. I mean, to have someone where I make their day just by seeing them, and they do the sam… | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.Have any suggestions for work out Systems (P90X, etc)? | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.Thanks for the great advice man. I'll practice the things you say more. As for the wardrobe, I don't know. I'm going into my senior year of highschool (just to give you an idea). A typical wardrobe for me would be Levi Jeans, with a shirt, like this one (which I actually do own). The "popular" kids in my school dress no better and they have great social lives so I kind of think dress isn't that important, as long I don't look like shit. Am I right? There are so many people telling me to get back… | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.When ever I try to work out I just burn out because I have no type of structure. How do I build a detailed, structred work out plan for my self? | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.You know, this might sound weird, but I feel more nervous about trying to make guy friends. I'm not gay, so I don't want to apply the same methods that I've heard for picking up women to getting guy friends. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.Hey, I wrote down the list as you said. I was avoiding writing anything you already wrote so I didn't get much since you pretty much covered it all, but I have : The Mall - clothing area, music shop, book store, food court Also in a grocery store, especially when an employee asks me if I need help, try to start up a conversation. I think that's about all I got. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.True enough. I need to be more of a go getter, and not wait for things to happen. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.NY | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.Have you over come your social anxiety? How long did it take? Also i do plan to join clubs ones school starts again, and soon I'll be joining a Tennis class so I could hopefully meet people. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.New York. I'm in high school though, so no car, although I'm getting a car and drivers license this year. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.Ah, I live in New York | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.Rules of the Game? Is that the book by Neil Strauss? Thanks for the help man, I appreciate it. I'll PM you if something comes up. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 07:25 PM |
| 0 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.I plan on joining a tennis class soon, and something with community service (for school). Other than that I'm not really sure what to do. I could go to the gym but I would need a personal trainer since I am a total noob, but I can't afford one. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 08:39 AM |
| 0 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.What do you mean tell them how I really feel? "Hello sire, do you need help finding anything" "Well not really, but you approaching me reminds me of how people on a dating forum have told me to talk to anyone about anything" I don't know, maybe I'm taking it too literally. Perhaps you could expand on this? Don't worry about the hygiene, that is an easy fix and only recently gotten bad because I've gone weeks with out being with a friend. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 08:36 AM |
| 3 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.I want to become a real socialite. The hygiene stuff was jsut to help illustrate how I've kind of hit rock bottom. That is easy to fix, but the social part isn't. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 08:24 AM |
| 1 | I have a hard time openly hitting on girls, not out of fear for rejections, but out of fear of looking like an idiot.It's pretty easy to not be a douche man. You are making it into a big effort. Essentially, don't act like a douche. Approaching people in general with a confident (aka don't-give-a-fuck-what-others-think) attitude is way, way different from being a douche bag. You already know the differences. My advice is you must genuinely want to talk to and learn about them. Listen, ask engaging questions, be funny (personally I struggle a little with the "be funny" part, most people in this subreddit (and o… | /r/seduction | 15/07/12 01:52 AM |
| 1 | I have a hard time openly hitting on girls, not out of fear for rejections, but out of fear of looking like an idiot.I know this is old, but I think the OP is wondering HOW to stop caring. | /r/seduction | 15/07/12 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Hand them your cell phone when asking for a number. Here's why.Thank you. | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Fifty tips for Picking UpSerious wtf. What horrible advice. Instead of typing that all the author could have just said "force yourself on woman" | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Hand them your cell phone when asking for a number. Here's why.Can you explain this a bit more to a newb? I don't really understand. | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Can someone explain eye contact to me?Good catch | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Can someone explain eye contact to me?I'll correct this sentence for you, only since you are trying to improve. Other wise I wouldn't comment so not to be a dick. Yes, I am sorry. English is not my native language, but I am (or you could say "I'm" instead of I m if you want) actually trying since it seems to annoy so many people. You have pretty good English, people know what you are saying so that's what counts, just have to refine it a bit :) Good luck! | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain eye contact to me?Eye contact basics. When you are listening to someone else: Maintain eye contact. When you are talking to someone else: have moments of eye contact, but don't keep staring at someone as you talk. It gets sort of weird and uncomfortable. Basically, follow the patterns you see when others talk to each other. As for attraction, that gets a little more complicated, and that is what seddit is for : ) | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 02:23 AM |
| 2 | HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN: 4 Effective Ways to Turn On a WomanMy bullshit meter is going off with this guy, but at the same time, there IS some good stuff in this article. Smell is very important, and often overlooked, and the "touching the lower back" is very sound advice, for the same reasons he said. | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 02:17 AM |
| 1 | How Seddit changed my life, and landed me my perfect 10.I imagine this woman looking like Natalie Portman. Idk why :P. Great job man. I'm happy for you! | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else have trouble trusting in relationships now?What is beta? | /r/seduction | 23/05/12 01:46 AM |
| -3 | [Intermediate] ''Shit Openers'':That movie should be struck from the earth. Holy fuck Iwant to stop hearing about that movie!!!!!!!!!!!!! | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 02:52 AM |
| 1 | I was recently told that I act kinda weird and it pretty much set a bomb off in my head and it clicked why I may have trouble attracting women.I actually have this same problem. So how do you stop using one type of humor and switch to another? Often times witty things don't really come to me. How do I become consistently witty? | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 10:51 PM |
| 2 | My life in the last 7 days with r/seduction (THANK YOU!) [multiple FR's]I like how you brushed off the girls rejection at the carnival "Thanks I'm practicing".:P Sounds great dude. JW, how long were you a lurker here at Seddit before you began to approach people? | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 10:49 AM |
| 1 | What is the single most important article or report that you've ever read online? (Either from seddit or elsewhere).Thank you for the response. Trouble I have though is actually keeping a conversation going, and also saying witty things. I say witty/funny things sometimes but it's pretty inconsistent. How do I improve that? | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 10:41 AM |
| 1 | What is the single most important article or report that you've ever read online? (Either from seddit or elsewhere).as a guy who is brad new to seddit and seduction, this guys stuff is very vague to me. "dont look for sex, just have fun with everyone", i cant help but feel "that sounds really good... how the fuck do you do that?" I guess it's part of being a newbie, not knowing anything. You said this has helped you a lot. can you tell me how you applied this and perhaps more details? | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Thank You Seddit! I almost feel like a different human being...I saved this post. You're awesome. | /r/seduction | 21/04/12 04:14 PM |
| 2 | "I like your style", An easy IOI that still leaves room for qualificationHow do you gauge someones interest? | /r/seduction | 19/04/12 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Tyler Durden at 22 years old, with Mystery.I know this is a month old post, but could you explain further how Mystery and Tyler Durdan have awful social problems? I know nothing about them. | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 03:24 AM |
| 1 | My review of the Simple Pickup guys and Tyler Durden (RSD) after having seen both in field during the past weekWhat does state dependent mean, and what are "reality destroyer" openers? | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Let me say thank you, seddit by sharing my amazing (long) life story that you have helped shape.This deserves more than 47 upvotes. | /r/seduction | 07/04/12 02:59 AM |
| 1 | How long did your journey take until you became a success at getting the women you wanted?Some "simple" changes that one can make, and their social repercussions are amazing. I instantly was more respected once I cut my hair from being long to have short hair. Crazy. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 03:10 AM |
| 2 | How long did your journey take until you became a success at getting the women you wanted?No, you're BOTH awesome! | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 03:08 AM |
| 1 | How long did your journey take until you became a success at getting the women you wanted?"LMR"? I'm still pretty noobish and not used to some of r/seddit's limbo. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 03:07 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Putting the kino guide to the test (first FR)Is Amsterdam (at night) dangerous at all? Might seem like a ridiculous question from a foreigner, but my sister was there and she was almost kidnapped one night by guys following her in a car pretending to be a taxi, then getting out of a car and walk fast to her. Is that shit common? | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Can't tell if this girl likes me.Sorry for the mistake. I'll repost in askseddit now. | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Can't tell if this girl likes me.Thanks a lot for the response. I'll try it out today. Thanks again | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Friend zone level: 99How do you make it clear that you want to have a sexual relationship with a girl that you are talking to? | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 02:51 AM |
| 1 | I survived my first direct approach :)How would you do that? | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 08:13 PM |
| 2 | I survived my first direct approach :)Holy shit, not this guy. | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 08:07 PM |
| 1 | I survived my first direct approach :)One step at a time. So true. I am still in the early stages of doing more reading, not applying yet. Still nervous/self doubting. I get shy even around fellow males and often don't talk much unless they are my established friends. Just today I spent lunch in the library instead of sitting at the table where I only had one real friend. At the same time, I probably wouldn't have sat at that table if this was taking place not too long ago. Also I am more socially outgoing, but not out going complet… | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 08:04 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Absolutely epic night. Four-way with porn star, crime scene investigator & ex-cheerleader MILFThey're totally obscure, you probably don't know of them. | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Seddit Community, listen; this shit works. 1st FR"its not that bad if she rejects you, its much worse not bothering to capitalize on a opportunity." Wow, that is great. I'm going to remember this for a long time, if not forever. | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 09:26 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to compliments? slight [FR]what does "kino" mean? Also I too have the same problem as far as "dealing" with compliments | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Video: How To Make Your Conversations More Fun and ExcitingWow that was great. Awesome video. I favorited it. Thanks for posting this. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 05:14 AM |
| 1 | I am Warlizard, AMAA. I had sex with somewhere between 75-90 women by having fun and enjoying my life. Frogma asked me if I'd drop by and talk to you guys....How did you accomplish this? | /r/seduction | 20/01/12 08:40 PM |
| 1 | May have herpes. Is my game dead?update this when you find out. JW (hopefuly this doesn't get weird) are they skin colored, and around the base area? | /r/seduction | 08/01/12 06:58 AM |
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