You met a girl in the club, you kissed her, then you exchanged numbers because she had to leave. Good for you, but what next? You were out at the mall shopping, you approached a girl, you talked for a while, then got her number and parted ways. That's fantastic, but what next?

A common mistake I see with most guys here, and in my personal life is they don't know how to precede after the first interaction. A guy will get some sort of close in a club (k-close is the one I'll be focusing on since f-close is the goal), or a guy will get a number out day-gaming, but they really have no idea how to conduct themselves moving forward from this point. Hopefully after reading this guide, some of you will at least have a concept of what should go on after the first interaction, and hopefully some pick-up veterans can help me out with some points I might have missed. Let's get into it.

Scenario 1: The K-close at a club. The ideal interaction with a girl should look somewhat like a bad porno. I can't remember who first said this, but this concept really resonated with me. Essentially you walk up to a girl, and the initial interaction looks like some bad acting, but you're both completely serious, and you end up fucking. This should be your goal, but of course, hence the title, this interaction happened to end in a k-close scenario where you got her number. This isn't bad, but most people mess up after they get the number. For the sake of simplicity, let's say the interaction you had with the girl went great, you created some tension, you escalated well, and at least initially she was interested in seeing you again. I've texted a lot of different girls at a lot of different times to schedule meet-ups, and I've found that texting early the next day (before 2PM) to try to schedule a meet-up is the one that works the most. The meet-up doesn't have to be for later that day, and personally, I don't like scheduling meet-ups for the same day because I'm busy person, but just make sure you attempt to get something going. I like to decide on the place, but I like to let her decide what time. This is a somewhat classic principal that somewhat combats against flaking. For the most part, that's all you can do to schedule a meet-up and most people don't have a problem with that, the huge problem tends to lie within the meet-up itself. Some guys seem to forget everything that happened last interaction and treat the girl like she's someone they've never met before. Do not do this. Your goal is to make her as comfortable as possible as quickly as possible so you can escalate as quickly as possible. Skip formalities and start talking to her like she's an old friend of yours, try to initiate kino as soon as you meet with her. I think you'll be surprised by how much your success rate goes up after doing this. Also, make sure that the date doesn't make the girl bored. Talking is fun, but only for a certain amount of time. The same goes for activities. Constantly keep the girl engaged. Constantly keep moving forward, no dry spells. As the date is winding down, and your taking her back to her place, if you haven't already (you probably should have) go for the kiss. It doesn't fucking matter if she rejects it, just go for it. This is your stepping stone to sex. If you don't go for a kiss on the first date, the odds of you ever seeing this girl again are pretty much zero. If you get the kiss, odds are she doesn't want the interaction to end, continue to escalate, and hopefully she's down, but if she isn't, I can almost guarantee that she'll at least want to see you again. If she's not dtf on the first date, that's kind of okay, it happens sometimes player. At least you can have another interaction, and another shot at success.

Scenario 2: Day-game number close. You're walking through the mall shopping for your shitty cousin's birthday because he got you something for your birthday and gave you shit for not getting something for his birthday last year. Bummer. Along the way you see a HB9, you decide "Hey, what the fuck my day couldn't get any worse let's just go talk to her." It goes well, you guys click, but eventually you have to part ways so you get her number. Excellent, but here's where things can go wrong. Day-gaming and the club scene are two different beasts. As far as texting goes, I feel there's more freedom with day-game than night-game. It's absolutely okay to text a girl you met that day, later that night. Just shoot her a text, and try to schedule a meet-up for later that week. You can text her the next day and do the same thing. Personally, I would avoid the whole "wait x days to text her bro" thing, because honestly she might forget about you. A few hours after you meet, but no longer than 24 hours should be your goal. As far as the meet-up goes, make sure it's somewhere where she'll be comfortable at. If you picked her up day-gaming, she might not feel completely comfortable with you at a club. Also, avoid movies, just a rule of thumb. Find some places where you can get to know each other and have some fun, while keeping her comfortable so you can escalate. Also, a note on escalation. The main problem I think most day-gamers have, is that they don't know how the fuck to escalate. You might not be able to meet-up with her and then right away start making out, but you can for sure meet-up with her and instantly establish some sort of kino. Girls shit, vomit, and grow hair just like us guys do, they like to be touched, just like us guys do. Once again, do not be afraid to touch her. Also, please go for the kiss sometime during the date. Even if she rejects it, you'll probably be able to see her again, but most girls will kiss you just because you had the balls to go for it.

You could summarize what I said with this one concept: abundance mentality. Don't be afraid to take some risks, and for sure don't be afraid to do whatever the fuck you want to do. There are plenty of women to meet, if one doesn't click with you, who gives a shit? Don't vary from the basics just because you got a girl to go on a date with you. Feel free to leave some questions, comments, complaints below. I love pick-up and I love reading about other's thoughts and opinions in regard to pick-up, so don't be shy.