Both me (36) and P (33) got in to a temporary (18 month contract) job (research) in a European university. She is European and I'm Asian, and I have experience abroad and dated quite a few foreigners. So no Asian complex here.

She is attached to a sexless LDR-beta BF who is very central to her career and is 10 years older. Both of us were friends for a month, we knew we had something for each other, since she showed lots of ioi. We started making out without kissing and sext a few times.

Last weekend: After lunch at my place, she mentioned to me that she doesn't want to have sex since she has cheated before and doesn't want to hurt her LDR-BF (I understood this because i did something similar once-guilt is a bitch). She also says that she would sleep with stranger if there are no strings attached and then move with her life is that person is not related to her somehow. She won't want to do it with me because we work in the same university and doesn't believe i can keep quiet about it. After this conversation-we proceeded to my place and made out again, started kissing and I got a handjob. I just want a FWB here as I'm happy with that since I’ll be moving for another job soon.

Problem:

We made plans for her to stay over in the weekend before i go for business trip for a week. We went out a couple of times during the week. I had to limit my touching and she didn’t really allow me to touch her in the cinema and when i was at the her place. She told quite harshly twice “don’t touch me”. When i asked her why-she told me something dumb because “i said so” kind of excuse. (She has also mentioned that it is she that is allowing me to do stuff in some of our previous interaction). I decide to leave and head back home- telling I’m not in a good mood and I’m uncomfortable, acting cool and left. She slammed the door.

I texted her the the today (should have NEXT her), asking to come over for lunch. She came, she ate and avoided any kino (e.g sitting away, moving away when i came closer) and told me she is gonna hang out with our common friends and left, while smiling- in some sort of revenge-satisfaction way.

NOW: How do i mitigate this?

Note:I doubt she is seeing anyone else.