I have some things going for me. But I also seem to lack something. So what I've been doing lately is to get quite a good connection with a group of women. I go out alone and when I see a group of girls having a girls night out, I just ask them: "May I sit down for a while?". Usually, they smile and introduce themselves. Sometimes they say "Oh but we are going any second" Then I just say "Okay but then I can sit down until you're gone". Turns out they weren't going anywhere and I end up spending hours with them.

When I do this I feel just fine. I don't feel nervous. I laugh a lot. I am genuinely interested in learning about these new people. The girls seem to appreciate this. They might leave their bags with me when they're going to the bathroom. They might ask me if I want to join them to some other place.

So I must be doing something right. But yeah. I don't get laid very often. I am not alpha. I don't tease. I think they just see me as a nice friendly person. We have a great time. I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to start "escalating" because I'm afraid it will ruin the vibe. So yeah. I don't know. I'm not really complaining though. Because I genuinely have a great time meeting these people. So I'm just wondering what the next step is.