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[–]AdryBowGaming 8 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Always be assertive about how you feel. I had the same feeling last week with a girl I met and I supposedly will be meeting her this week again. The whole idea of the date is to know if you guys like each other not. Even if the date is not interesting like you think it is, if there’s attraction you’ll enjoy and know it. Her being flacky is not a good sign, but just keep every thing as planned and let us know what happened. If you want a friend to discuss it with dm me and We can share the same story and help each other. Enjoy and keep your confidence intact mate!
[–]node202fighter 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But what should I do? We are suppose to meet in 4-5 hours but I'm sure she will flake so I already made another plan anyway. I should just move on maybe?
Did you guys talk after that last time you planned it? If not send a casual text just giving the intention of what you guys are doing in the date like comment on the food you want or something. Keep your intentions high. The last you thing you want to is be with a flacky girl, believe me you got no time for her. Show up and if she didn’t and did not get in contact with you afterwards of why she did not, delete her contact info and move on because you got no time for girls like that!
We planned it yesterday, I meet her on Saturday.
[–]AdryBowGaming 8 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Then I would recommend sending a causal text just double checking the time and place. Let me know how it goes!
[–]node202fighter 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well, she did flake as expected, she asked me if I was in town when the time was 17.45 but our plan was 19.00. when I wrote back to her that the plan was 19.00 she then wrote to me that she couldn't make it but we should meet next time. Now, I don't know if that was a manipulation flak from her side but I will be damned if I put all my focus on her only. Yeah yeah, this is the game we play ^
[–]AdryBowGaming1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Just move on and as you mentioned focus on other girls. Never commit if nothing is official right? Don’t take it on yourself as I always do. It’s hard I know, but just if she was really busy, she’ll try to make up for it. Nothing is worth the emotional effort especially on the beginnings!
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