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| 1 | I cold approached a cashier and she told me she has a crush on me, but she’s already in a complicated relationship.true. | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 02:12 PM |
| 1 | I cold approached a cashier and she told me she has a crush on me, but she’s already in a complicated relationship.I will, thanks man for the good words | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | I cold approached a cashier and she told me she has a crush on me, but she’s already in a complicated relationship.I will, thanks Sir | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 06:44 PM |
| – | I cold approached a cashier and she told me she has a crush on me, but she’s already in a complicated relationship.I think she’s debating breaking up with her boyfriend or not. She told me her friends don’t want her to date him | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 06:44 PM |
| 2 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I promise you guys if I ever succeeded in finding my SO, this will be a changing point in my life that I’ll never forget and I’ll owe you all a-lot! | /r/seduction | 15/12/17 04:23 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I appreciate every single person who read and/or responded. That’s actually the only thing that made me happy in a while now. Thanks for your comment and encouragement | /r/seduction | 15/12/17 02:38 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I’ve been working for it and putting myself out there for 17 months right now and NOT A SINGLE RESULT OR RECIPROCATED INTEREST HAS HAPPENED. Isn’t that enough for me to believe the reality and stop dreaming? I’m not slightly even trying to live someone else’s life. I’m not that type of guy anyways. I have my own mindset and I think I’ve been through a lot to prove that I have my own purposes and goals in life and they’re not tied to a single person on this earth. Even my siblings. By mentioning … | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 02:16 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?An update about my status now, Last Saturday an acquaintance I knew through a mutual friend messaged me and then we planned dinner on campus, we had been chatting for 3 hours and then she gave me the biggest and tightest hug I’ve ever had in my life. It made me feel better? Yes It made me get rid of negative thoughts? Yes But today is Tuesday and I’m feeling EXACTLY the same before I even met her. What I’m coming to here, that I need consistency. I need a gf that I can hug all the time without a… | /r/seduction | 12/12/17 10:05 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?How does exhibiting myself so pathetically like this is going to help with ANYTHING? Bro with all respect, those are the last kind of advices I want to hear. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 04:06 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Both actually, I live in a small town and pretty much a simple date like a movie theatre or something requires a car. I actually have tons of fun stuff I can do with the person and I have a beautiful apartment as well to watch a movie in. I don’t want just to give any one a false intention, but it seems like no matter how hard I try nothing is good for me to get a gf. That’s why when I read the post text I felt like I’m a younger version of this dude who wrote it. We both share clear intentions … | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 05:58 PM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I’ve already checked these boxes out early in my freshman year when I came here to the US. Having a gf is something I really want yet I’m not allowed to have. I have to accept that but I just can’t anymore. Edit : One good illustration of this, I work at a bagel place on campus everyday morning shifts and busy hours. I hold the register most of my shifts because I’m quick, smiley, and efficient at it. I draw on the order cups every day smileys and cute jokes just to brighten peoples day. 90% of … | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 02:36 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I’ve been in the US for a year and a half now. It’s a grind so far. But just seems everyone here is having an easy time dating and enjoying their college years and I’m lost all by myself between my classes and the library. Loneliness is more scarier that not just a having a gf. | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 01:52 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I’m starting to feel that the lack of having car is also contributing in decreasing my confidence. Is that normal? | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 01:24 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I got my focus and my purpose figured out already. | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 01:01 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?We are just very different I guess. Women are not my mission, but I need a single woman beside me to pursue my mission. See the difference? | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 01:00 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Update : I don’t have a car yet here in the US. I used to drive for 2 years in high school, frankly it’s hindering me from asking girls out because I think where would I take them or we can’t go anywhere except on campus. Opinions? | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 12:57 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Easier said than done unfortunately | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 04:05 PM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I’m not perfect and never will, I have flaws but I try to present the best version of myself. Okay how to do that? | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 03:57 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I’ve been pretty much sharing how I feel exactly with my roommate, mentor, genetics professor, counsellor. Man you need to know that I traveled continents by myself to be a physician. Isn’t that scary and goal oriented? But it’s never enough for anyone here. Living by myself and remaining strong is not good enough. Working hard in school is not good enough. Staying hygienic and healthy isn’t either. Remaining positive and hiding my feelings isn’t attractive. Never like never complaining is not a… | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 03:38 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Doesn’t that make me sound desperate? Not genuinely intrigued in a person which is a turn off? | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 03:21 PM |
| 2 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?That’s exactly why I panicked when I read the post-text! | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 03:08 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I can relate man I really can. Stay strong and don’t let your brain mess up with you as mine is doing to me. | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 03:04 PM |
| 2 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Exactly here. | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 03:02 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Well pretty much I’m very good at masking how I feel in-front of people everywhere. If I’m having a bad day, I keep it to myself, If I’m stressed about school I keep it to myself. I never like NEVER complain because I see the beauty and positivity in everything. If I’m interested in someone, I can’t show it. Basically I need someone to give me a safe haven or just spark of interest so I can be comfortable reciprocating it, But guess what? It never and will not happen. I don’t want to sound negat… | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 02:44 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I’m doing exactly what the last 2 lines are saying and haven’t gotten anywhere. Edit : I’m not talking to everyone, I’m shy. | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 04:14 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?It’s true, I just I feel I’m missing out and I’m growing very impatient! | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 04:13 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?How to keep a conversation not awkward and going? | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 04:10 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?and how to achieve this? | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 04:03 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I guess you have a different understanding of the word “partner” then. They’re supposed to help us emotionally, their love should support us through hard times. The lack of love accompanied by LONELINESS is not an obstacle to you? It’s to me and I don’t know if I can get over it. I’m still striving to move forward but it’s so hard and I’m losing my spark to do anything! True love is valid I’ve seen it in my parents at least. I feel not all people are blessed to experience it | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 03:55 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?l already love myself. I already know what I want in life. I love and care about people that’s why I choose medicine as a career just help people in the field of my interest. What else can I do? I’m very happy with myself, but my loneliness is eating me alive. | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 03:47 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I really need to overcome my approach anxiety.. | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 03:27 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I’ve been trying to, I love myself so much by the way. I just want someone close to share my hopes, dreams, and strives with | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 03:23 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I totally understand that. I took very big challenges in my life and they are painful and it makes me happy that I’m accomplishing something through pain, but recently I started thinking what I’m I doing this all for? I don’t even have someone to love since I’m living in a whole new country by myself now I have to explore every single aspect of life alone. What’s the point of it? without a companion and kids eventually life has no purpose to me which kills my pain love working spark. Can you rel… | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 03:08 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?These people basically are making a living of hearing people talking about their struggles. Don’t feel bad about it, that’s what their getting paid for. I would say avoid complaining and just try to explain your problems honestly and frankly and you’ll start to feel better I guarantee you. | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 03:01 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?A fact about me, I was born and raised in a foreign country and got my citizenship passed from my mom from another country. So being a foreigner is imprinted in my DNA I guess. Because I was the only christian boy in class, surrounded by 25 muslims kids (single sex school), I was always different. And when I came here for college I guess I’m experiencing the same cycle I had when I was 5. Do you think that’s a major issue? | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 02:54 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I came from a very enclosed culture treating people who go to therapists as psychics. I’m very happy that I broke that taboo when I started seeing one. Therapists can help explore and break the depression shell which causes the isolation that leads to loneliness and that’s what we exactly need. Easier said than done, but I would totally recommend seeing one if you can afford it. Getting stuff off your chest is always a good idea even if you don’t get advices | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 02:50 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?How do you find purpose and motivation to work hard then? | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 02:45 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I just need help to overcome my shyness! | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Had a chat for 3 hours with a beautiful Chica I randomly planned lunch with. How to follow up with her and keep her interested in me? 20/m never had a gf nor a date or kiss before. Any help is appreciated.Will do! | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 02:30 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Oh one thing you didn’t know about me, I’m on average 13hrs/day on my campus, So I don’t sit on my ass alone in my room unless it’s bed time. I see tons of people every new day and it’s too hard to fit in. Didn’t know being shy is a crime here. | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 02:30 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I don’t approach women constantly. I have approach anxiety and the last thing I want to do is make a girl feel uncomfortable. I’m very uncomfortable expressing sexuality to girls I’m attracted to. I have weird social defence mechanism that keep me from meeting my needs as you mentioned because simply I care about people. I will definitely check out these books on amazon, nothing to lose now! | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 01:34 AM |
| 2 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I’m happy for you, please my friend do not take it for granted because I would do anything just to be in your shoes now. When you see your SO anytime cherish every moment you have with her! | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 01:00 AM |
| 2 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Easier said than done, maybe because I grew impatient? Like I lost the energy to do all of that because of being alone for too long? I’m also new to both dating and the American culture in general | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 12:57 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I view women as beautiful soft side partners, not a goal in life. But for me having a woman by my side is a necessity to achieve my purpose in life which is to be an ophthalmologist one day! | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 12:55 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Good words, I’m going on break in a week, definitely will travel! | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 12:52 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?The whole text is not my story. I wish him the best, we share the same fate with women that’s all. | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 12:28 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Don’t you feel the need at least once a day to give love and care to someone? Don’t you want to have kids and watch them become successful as you are? Why would I do everything in my life for myself? what’s the point? I’m taking a cardio kickboxing class and it’s helping with nothing regards to confidence. | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 12:27 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?How to overcome the fear of making girls feeling uncomfortable with my cold approach? I already read on reddit girls opinions about cold approaches and it got me even terrified more! They feel objectified and just being talked to because of their physical appearance. When in fact I need a companion not a one night stand. Edit : Can you tell that most guys who are successful with girls did cold approach or them or not from your experiences? I’ve been only 1 year in the US so I don’t know how norm… | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 12:21 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I’m already taking a cardio kickboxing class this semester and it’s helping with nothing in regards to confidence. I promise to be too hard on myself and try to workout though I don’t see the point of it. Just to get six packs and muscles? and then what? Who’s even going to look at that body If I’m always alone? | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 12:18 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I already love myself. I already know what I want in life. I love and care about people that’s why I choose medicine as a career just help people in the field of my interest. What else can I do? I’m very happy with myself, but my loneliness is eating me alive. I’m craving just someone to hold me at night and tell me (it’s okay, everything is going to be fine) is that too much to ask for? | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 12:15 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I feel it’s one journey we all share in different ways. Thanks for this comment man! It’s a like a wake up call to be honest | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 12:11 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Thanks for the post Sir. I feel I need to work on accepting rejection more and just not worry about my ego. Because frankly I tend to care about my appearance and embarrassment a-lot! | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 12:09 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I already love myself. I already know what I want in life. I love and care about people that’s why I choose medicine as a career just help people in the field of my interest. What else can I do? I’m very happy with myself, but my loneliness is eating me alive. I’m craving just someone to hold me at night and tell me (it’s okay, everything is going to be fine) is that too much to ask for? I need no one to fix me I need someone to be WITH me. I can be in a relationship without sharing my problems … | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 12:06 AM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?How to find the motivation to hit it? | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 11:57 PM |
| – | Had a chat for 3 hours with a beautiful Chica I randomly planned lunch with. How to follow up with her and keep her interested in me? 20/m never had a gf nor a date or kiss before. Any help is appreciated.Thanks for the encouragement, you gave me this feeling (I got your back and you got this) though I don’t even know you! | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Had a chat for 3 hours with a beautiful Chica I randomly planned lunch with. How to follow up with her and keep her interested in me? 20/m never had a gf nor a date or kiss before. Any help is appreciated.Hopefully it’ll work. I’m getting a Christmas tree tonight and might invite her to help me decorate it. Hopefully I won’t faint from the fear to mention those words, but I just can’t wait to live the life I want to live with someone who I love and they love me back :/ | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 11:54 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I appreciate your concern and time to write all of this. Side note I didn’t write a single letter from the post-text myself. It’s a comment I read online and I copied here when I felt I only share the one who wrote the text fate with women. I pretty much started doing the stuff you mentioned above not all but some. I’m 20 btw and I have very different story than the guy who wrote the text. Main problem: approach anxiety. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 11:36 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Great question. I started isolating myself this semester due to not having the interest to do anything without having a gf by my side, it’s like I’m deferring everything in my life when I get a gf first. I know it’s messed up and doesn’t make sense but that’s how I feel. A fact about me I’m always alone this semester. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 11:31 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Because I’m afraid and tired of being by myself. I’ve been alone since 9/4/2016 and I’m just tired of it. I’m a very nurturing-character as well. I love to care to be cared for. I’ve been waiting to have a girlfriend since I knew what the word girlfriend even mean. I’m just afraid of being by myself. I want to share my life with someone. I want to ask them how is your day? I want to take her shopping and listen to her complain about that she finds nothing she likes in that shopping mall. I want … | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 11:28 PM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I surely do, who doesn’t? | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 11:18 PM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?My first counsellor liked my personality so much and he feels just I’m defeated by my own thoughts. That I’m strong but being alone broke me. I was doing all talking most of the time and he would ask questions to understand much of my problems, unfortunately it was an hour a week so I didn’t get the chance to hear a lot from him. I’m going on winter break in a week from today in which I will not see him in and I’m panicking about that fact because I will stay in apartment a whole month doing not… | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 11:17 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Thank you, I really will do all the stuff you mentioned, by the way I just created my reddit account 18 hours ago. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 11:13 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Though I agree of most what you just mentioned, but I’m not waiting for any person on earth to give me purpose. Guess what? I traveled continents by myself to come here for school to be a premed major and get into medical school one day though it’s very hard for foreign nationals to do it. Hobbies? I can tell you how much I love soccer and online gaming. I could be speaking about them for days at a time without getting bored. Driving? Saving up for car from my part time job and already got my li… | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 10:39 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?First of all, I appreciate your comment a-lot. It really brightens my day to see strangers helping more than friends can do. But I’m not waiting for any person on earth to give me purpose. Guess what? I traveled continents by myself to come here for school to be a premed major and get into medical school one day though it’s very hard for foreign nationals to do it. Hobbies? I can tell you how much I love soccer and online gaming. I could be speaking about them for days at a time without getting … | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 10:36 PM |
| 3 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Well you got that very wrong my friend. I’m craving emotional intimacy more than physical one. Why would I waste something I’ve been holding for my entire life to a stranger I paid to be with me? I thought about paying someone to cuddle me because I started getting chest pains because of my fear of sleeping alone every day. I’m a student and nothing in this whole text applies to me except my fate with women is similar to the guy who wrote that comment | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 10:17 PM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I already understand myself. I already love myself. I already know what I want in life. I love and care about people that’s why I choose medicine as a career just help people in the field of my interest. What else can I do? I’m very happy with myself, but my loneliness is eating me alive. I’m craving just someone to hold me at night and tell me (it’s okay, everything is going to be fine) is that too much to ask for? It’s becoming so hard talking to strangers these days as I’ve built a wall of an… | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 10:12 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?The only motivation I had to acknowledge my problem is that if having a gf by my side is an end reward, I would do anything to achieve it. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 10:09 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?How is that supposed to help build my demolished confidence? | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 10:06 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?That’s a weak point I have is just I care a-lot about people. Also cold approaches are nerve cracking man and I don’t feel they are for me anymore since I failed in all of my attempts especially when the girls tell me they have bfs, I feel like okay why I’m the only one left out here? is that a message? I’m I not worth anyone’s time? Will I have my own kids one day to love and care about? The more time passes the more terrified I become especially because I’m alone in this whole country and I’m … | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 10:04 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I feel like you’re to tell me, the less I care, the more I succeed? | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 10:01 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I need someone to explain to what’s going in my head from frustrations to problems to ideas. Stuff that you can’t say to friends, parents, peers, acquaintances. I’m a student success leader on my campus and one of the resources I’ve known is that we have free counselling sessions with graduate psychology students for free. I dropped in and started having weekly sessions. I feel better talking about how I feel there, but I don’t think I’m going anywhere building confidence to talk to girls. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 09:59 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Fun Fact, 90% of my classes are women. ALL of them look like they fell from heaven. 60% of my whole school are women. So pretty much I get attracted to 500 of them a day? even more? The thing is I need to buy the confidence to talk to them or at least to know how to interact because I’m very inexperienced. I’m just way afraid to do anything because I don’t know if I can take the guilt of making any one feel uncomfortable because of me. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 09:56 PM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I’ve really been thinking about playing it, might save up and order one on amazon prime something | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 09:26 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?It’s becoming very hard since I’m an international student and my loneliness is eating me alive. I’ve been wanting a gf since I was 5 watching those Disney movies and I just can’t wait anymore. It hurts watching couples on public these days to me as I lost interest in almost all my social interactions because of this demon telling me I’m always by myself and no one is going to love me | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 09:14 PM |
| 1 | What should i doJust move on and as you mentioned focus on other girls. Never commit if nothing is official right? Don’t take it on yourself as I always do. It’s hard I know, but just if she was really busy, she’ll try to make up for it. Nothing is worth the emotional effort especially on the beginnings! | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 09:12 PM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?The text are not my words. It was a comment online in an article titled (don’t kill yourself because you can’t get a gf) I just copied the text here because I feel I related to this guy fate’s with women. That’s not how I think about women because simply I don’t even have experience with them since I was born and I’m 20 now and in college | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I wish you the best. Thanks for your comment. Hopefully your brain won’t work against you as mine is doing to me | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 09:05 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I would surely would why not? it’s just initiating chats and romantic interests that I fail to do. If we’re talking about comfort zones, I already busted that up by being an exchange student for 2 years now. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Had a chat for 3 hours with a beautiful Chica I randomly planned lunch with. How to follow up with her and keep her interested in me? 20/m never had a gf nor a date or kiss before. Any help is appreciated.I’m not sure how well I can handle rejection at this moment in my life. I’m very shaked and damaged from the fear of loneliness. I count my heartbeats every night when I’m scared because of no one to tell me goodnight and hold my hand to sleep. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Had a chat for 3 hours with a beautiful Chica I randomly planned lunch with. How to follow up with her and keep her interested in me? 20/m never had a gf nor a date or kiss before. Any help is appreciated.Thank you for the people who commented. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 08:54 PM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I don’t think I’m physically unattractive, If I were to have the motivation and commitment, six packs would be a near goal for me. I take good care of my appearance as well. The thing is that my confidence is shattered. I WISH YOU ALL THE LUCK MY FRIEND BECAUSE I WOULD NEVER WANT TO SEE ANYONE IN THIS WORLD STUCK IN MY PLACE! | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 08:52 PM |
| 3 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I mentioned in the title that the post-text is a comment some guy left on a random article online called (don’t kill yourself because you can’t get a gf). I’m 20, International sophomore premed/biology major. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 08:18 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Though I agree of most what you just mentioned, but I’m not waiting for any person on earth to give me purpose. Guess what? I traveled continents by myself to come here for school to be a premed major and get into medical school one day though it’s very hard for foreign nationals to do it. Hobbies? I can tell you how much I love soccer and online gaming. I could be speaking about them for days at a time without getting bored. Driving? Saving up for car from my part time job and already got my li… | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 08:08 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?It’s just the fear is so great of doing it in the first place. Frankly I read every article online about cold approaches/ tinder and every other random thing you could think off. I tried cold approaches around my campus like 6 times or something and got rejected in all of them. It shattered my confidence than already it is. I feel so much pain right now of being alone for too long. Even hugging a girl gives me content and satisfaction. That’s all I need, is it too much to ask for? | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 07:59 PM |
| – | Had a chat for 3 hours with a beautiful Chica I randomly planned lunch with. How to follow up with her and keep her interested in me? 20/m never had a gf nor a date or kiss before. Any help is appreciated.Good example to bring it up while I’m with her? | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 07:55 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Well I’m in college and 60% of my campus are women. Yet it’s very hard to me to get along or relate to them. It’s killing me from the inside and I feel cut off from my own humanity sometimes seeing couples together on campus and I’m always doing everything by myself | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 07:54 PM |
| 2 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Sometimes I get the same thought.. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 07:51 PM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?what do you mean? | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 07:51 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Okay but how to get the energy to do it? My problem is not putting my self out there or joining clubs or interests. It’s how to initiate chats and then initiate romantic interest I fail to do properly. It’s causing me a lot of anxiety because I care not to make women feel uncomfortable! I’ve been taking cardio kickboxing class this semester for fun and there’s tons of my girls in my class, but I fail to do ANYTHING with them :( | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 05:18 PM |
| 2 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?That’s right but it’s not that simple. Interestingly that’s what my counsellor has been trying to find. I’m just scared of being alone as I’m an international student as well. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 05:15 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I know that he’s depressed. He mentioned ending his life as well. I’m just scared that I’m going to experience the same fate. I will never have perception of life like this! | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 05:12 PM |
| – | Had a chat for 3 hours with a beautiful Chica I randomly planned lunch with. How to follow up with her and keep her interested in me? 20/m never had a gf nor a date or kiss before. Any help is appreciated.Like just : Hey I’m interested in you. then what happens? I am too scared to get rejected for showing interest early I guess | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 05:09 PM |
| – | Had a chat for 3 hours with a beautiful Chica I randomly planned lunch with. How to follow up with her and keep her interested in me? 20/m never had a gf nor a date or kiss before. Any help is appreciated.Okay but how to let her know I’m interested without saying it directly? I’m very unexperienced! | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 04:58 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Thanks for the encouragement. It’s not like I would date anyone, I just need one girl who can love and understand me, I’m not pushing the numbers game thing. How to motivate myself to do the guitar thing? | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 04:46 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I guess my problem is approach anxiety since no girl before reciprocated interest in me. I tried a few times to cold approach and got rejected in most of them. I watch tons of youtube prank videos on picking up girls on campus, But I just can’t do it. I’m pretty much involved in my campus. I have a part job as a barista, teaching a first year experience course to freshmen and taking 16 hours of premed classes. As far gotten no where with women and I think it’s the end of the road for me as I sta… | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 04:43 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I’ve been seeing a counsellor for 13 weeks now! | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 04:39 PM |
| 3 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I guess he means he doesn’t care about his social status or money anymore because of no one beside him to spend it with or something | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 04:35 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I’m trying to. It’s just my life is way different than this guy’s and the only thing we have in common is our fate with women. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 04:34 PM |
| – | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I appreciate your comment, but actually I’m finishing my 3rd semester in college and I have tons of hobbies and activities I’m interested in, but I’m losing my spark towards them gradually because of doing them by myself. I’m way different than how this guy views the world. It’s just the lack of having any intimate relationship has damaged me inside out. Recently I’ve been thinking about paying someone to cuddle me. That’s all I need at the moment for someone to tell me it’s going to be okay and… | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 04:30 PM |
| 8 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Do you want me to pm it to you in smaller paragraphs? | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 04:21 PM |
| – | What should i doThen I would recommend sending a causal text just double checking the time and place. Let me know how it goes! | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 02:01 PM |
| – | What should i doDid you guys talk after that last time you planned it? If not send a casual text just giving the intention of what you guys are doing in the date like comment on the food you want or something. Keep your intentions high. The last you thing you want to is be with a flacky girl, believe me you got no time for her. Show up and if she didn’t and did not get in contact with you afterwards of why she did not, delete her contact info and move on because you got no time for girls like that! | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 01:58 PM |
| – | What should i doAlways be assertive about how you feel. I had the same feeling last week with a girl I met and I supposedly will be meeting her this week again. The whole idea of the date is to know if you guys like each other not. Even if the date is not interesting like you think it is, if there’s attraction you’ll enjoy and know it. Her being flacky is not a good sign, but just keep every thing as planned and let us know what happened. If you want a friend to discuss it with dm me and We can share the same s… | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 01:05 PM |
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