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[–]SpinPlates 16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Okay. I'm going to give you the same advice I give 17 year old guys on here.
Get the fuck off of reddit, especially these types of subs and focus on the gym, proper nutrition and your school.
Honestly, at 17 any guy you make out with is going to be harder than a Grade 8 titanium bolt so just slow your roll and focus on your future. Don't get pregnant and don't get any felonies and everything will be cool.
Plenty of time to have fun and fool around in your 20s.
[–]grrinchas 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nothing beats fit body.
The girl can be average or even below on attractiveness scale but if she has that slim petite figure with a nice ass. I don’t care anymore how her face looks like.
So hit the gym.
[–]cpcallen 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love it when women touch the back of my head and neck when making out. Like they want to very gently discourage me from coming up for air...
But I suspect that every man is different, so good advice would be to try different things and keep doing the ones that go down well.
[–]UneAmi 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good passionate make out.
[–]Nighteif 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Touch neck, ears, back of the head, shoulders and even lower back.
Tell him hold me, put your arms around his neck and jump, make him hold you above the ground while you make out.
[–]flammafemina 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
26f here. One of my favorite moves is to face a guy straight on and playfully grab his shirt or the collar of his shirt, then sorta slide the fabric between my fingers almost as if I’m straightening it out for him. I let my eyes drop down to what I’m doing then I look back up at him with a cute/slightly naughty/mischievous smirk and make a short “hm” sound almost like a giggle. Then I’ll give his shirt a little tug and pull him into me for a kiss. Or if I feel like being a tease I’ll sort of turn away from him as I’m tugging on his shirt and playfully saunter off. Works especially well if/when I’m about to saunter off to his bedroom, but that will come in due time!
Really the best advice I can give you at this point is not to think about it too much. No need to be self-conscious. A 17 y/o boy is likely freaking out in his own head just as much, if not more, than you are. Not every experience is going to be perfect, but that’s the beauty of figuring out what you like and don’t like. Take things at your own pace and don’t be afraid to “correct” him if he’s doing something you don’t like. Can’t tell you how many guys still don’t know how to properly kiss a woman, even into their 30s. If I’m swallowing more of his saliva than my own, we’ve got a serious problem. Unless that activity has been previously agreed upon, lol.
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[–]SpinPlates 16 points17 points18 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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