First off, if like to say that I love this subreddit and it's helped me a lot.

Okay, so I have no problem talking to women in person and have a good idea on what to say and do, except for texting/phone calls. I go full on retard when it comes to that. Although that is a huge concern of mine, it's not as big of an issue as this next one: I love talking and getting to know women and I'd love to start a relationship (which I have never really had besides a couple bullshit few month flings in high school, which I'm 2 years out by the way) but the only thing that's stopping me is A. The phone aspect of a relationship nowadays and B. I feel like I know better than to put myself into a relationship.

I would want nothing more than a solid relationship but then again, I feel like I'm not in the right place for one, nor would I ever be. My grandpa used to tell me, "those who don't fall in love are the lucky ones"

I need help identifying what the issue is here...