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[–]HappyJerk 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I would text her on Monday, with this:
"Hey something came up so I can't do Tuesday. I might be free Thursday. I'll call you and let you know." Then wait. If she texts back, she's interested. If not, nothing.
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[–]egzaaa 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is a really good tip. Thanks!
[–]joshsway 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I have had very little success with Hey Last chance or any type of message that acknowledges they ignored one of your texts. Just ask again as if you never even sent the last text or do what /u/happyjerk said.
[–]disimulo 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"last chance" texts (as in, dating ultimatums) usually mean you gave them enough chances to say yes, and they didn't.
[–]joshsway 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea, in general I think people send them because they just want to hear a "No" for "Closure" or whatever. Women just don't work that way usually (in terms of giving closure).
[–]thechampionbaby 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girls like CONFIDENCE. Texting her two times in a row, is just showing desperation. But, if you really think she is WORTHY of a second chance from you... I would say something like "So, how long have you and your boyfriend been dating"? Then if she responds with something like "what boyfriend" you can play it from there or she says "10 months" and you can delete.
[–]puaCurveBall[M] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl
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