recent IOIs i got from the same girl, hot 21 year old japanese-mix on a 8-hour day date:

  • holding hands, fingers intertwined
  • calling me to set up hanging out 1-on-1
  • "you're so adorable"
  • "don't you have a girlfriend?"

there will be no second date. she was genuinely upset when i told her, i don't do friends with girls.

even when you get clear IOIs, they don't necessarily mean they are IOIs, especially when they are much younger. so don't hang your hat on IOIs, it does not guarantee you have the cat in the bag. go in without expectations and be awesome.