Twice in my life I've I've felt up in public by girls under the table. Like on my inner thigh kind of area. One time the girl knew me from before and another time she was a stranger.

Being a young guy, I obviously was immense turned on by this. I mean both times were like a fucking shot of electricity. It turned me on so so much.

But I've never felt comfortable doing this to a girl. The social risk of rejection (and a slap in the face/drink poured over me) is very high and I don't want a reputation as a creep.

But if it worked on me, wouldn't it work on them as well? Like for the sheer confidence factor.

I was just at a wedding and got talking to this drop dead gorgeous girl there. We were bantering and flirting, had a few drinks, exchanged stories and had some great dancing together. We really vibed. Unfortunately I'm only in this city for the wedding and will likely never see her again.

Should I have gone for a bit of under the table hand on thigh action during the boring speeches? She clearly liked me enough to dance with me for an hour.

To be clear I've been in relationships and had plenty of sex before. It's just this kind of public escalation that is so risky and I can't bring myself to do. So I always end up disappointed in the end.

If we were alone I 100% would have done something with her. But again I kinda bailed cos I need a bit of a run up...im not the guy who fucks on the first date...but I kinda want to be.

Has anyone done this before? How did it go? Is it the worst idea ever? Am I a perverted freak for asking this? Is the sky blue? Help me out here 🙏