It seems like I get no reaction from a lot of women with kino escalation. From what I'm told this is cornerstone to picking up, so I'd like some ideas on fine tuning (or maybe all is good the way it is).

I work in a restaurant, and it is extremely relaxed. Its not uncommon for coworkers to date and hook up. So a TON of flirting happens there.

I work with a lot of guys who hit on the girls at work pretty relentlessly. I don't focus on them, but I feel like the girls are kind of jaded to it all. Intense eye contact is standard, not special. I will put my hands on the small of their back, lightly tickle, even put both my hands on their hips, but they seem impartial. I even run my hands on a girl's face or massage their lower back and get no signs to keep going (except massages, which they then start asking for :-( ) . But I get no signs to stop either. And it seems like with a majority of them they are not attracted to me, but I don't know that. Even the married girls are okay with all the touching.

I don't get it. I used to for a long time not flirt with anyone, and was really a beaten-down person. But in the last month or so I have really come out of my shell. It used to freak me out to even touch others, and now i do a lot. I am super satisfied with my "inner game"results and have made a ton of progress, but I feel like I found this new sexual energy I am wanting to channel.

Almost all these people knew me from before when I was a lot more passive, so that could be it. I just want to make sure I'm not doing anything counterproductive. I can't control whether or not someone likes me, but I would like to put my best, most seductive foot forward.

Also, the most successful guys at work are super laid back and chill, not playful and enthusiastic. They are not like the described alphas here at all which confuses me.