~ archived since 2018 ~
Popular
Other
JoshiStitic
[–]Daytripsinsidecars 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Approach women your own age!
At 16M I would recommend dating women 15-16 years old.
[–]JoshiStitic[S] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
See there’s a problem with this. I would, you know, but every time I think someone looks my age, her husband and two kids come out from behind her. When I do see people my ages, they’re almost always accompanied by someone and as an amateur I don’t have the guts to approach someone in a group
[–]Th3M1lkM4n 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Hey man, I’m the same age as you. What I’ve been doing, is I just go up to girls that look around my age, and introduce myself, maybe ask how old they are, then ask for their number/give them my number. If you didn’t ask how old they are during the interaction, then you should ask in a text so you know if they are around the same age.
[–]JoshiStitic[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah man, I’ll try but people my age have the least amount of commitment and obviously I’m underage so I’m not in it to get laid
[–]Dontfeedthelocals 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'd mention which country you're in next time you ask for advice. Saying that you're underage at 16 so are not in it to get laid suggests a cultural difference (here in the UK I think 15-16 is pretty average to lose your viginity, or it was in my day) and that'll factor into people's answers/the quality of advice you get.
Good luck!
[–]JoshiStitic[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Alright! (FYI It’s the UAE 🇦🇪)
[–]likeitfastlike 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well I think your best way would be .. when you see this girl you think is pretty find the right moment to just get close say hi ,,, say something like wow great day for the beach... see what she says ???? If she smile at you ; say to her you have a pretty smile ... then you’ll know if she keeps smiling back at you then ask her if she to go to the beach or something fun ... the number shit will come after ... asking for her number right off the back will not 90 % of the time
Ok
[–][deleted] 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
[permanently deleted]
[–]JoshiStitic[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good luck mate
[–][deleted] 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]JoshiStitic[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Fair enough I guess, there were a couple cute people who I caught giving me looks but they all had like wrinkles which shows they’re age. I would’ve gone for it but in all honesty they all looked way too old
[–][deleted] 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah but also I personally want to save the embarrassment of being scolded at by a 30 year old married woman for hitting on her
Alright I guess, I’ll try
[–]BrexFlexx 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Bro I have the same problem. I just approach and don’t give a shit but I understand the struggle believe me. And there is another problem too. Nowadays girls look older than they actually are. Like a girl born in 2005 looks like she is 16 or even 17 wtf??
Lmao, everyone who looks young in my country is also most probably a mother of 2 kids, that’s why I never cold approach anyone here. I rely on meeting new people through my friends
[–]EvilPencil 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wait till you're over 30. To me most 17-18yos look 12...
[–]quinnmcd 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.
Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:
As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.
new to r/seduction? click Here or Here
[–]BarneyFighter -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I have the exact same problem as you. I am also underage. The advice is that you should get girls that are pretty the same age as you. You can lie about your age but just 1-2 years and most if the girls are over 18 when not older. Get girls with the same age.
The only people I see who are my age are people in my school and they’re all either not what I’m looking for or already taken. The few exceptions don’t want to date and that’s fair enough because we’ll all be leaving for college in 2 years anyway!
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.created by /u/dream-hunter
[–]Daytripsinsidecars 5 points6 points7 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]JoshiStitic[S] 2 points3 points4 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]Th3M1lkM4n 0 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]JoshiStitic[S] 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Dontfeedthelocals 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]JoshiStitic[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]likeitfastlike 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]JoshiStitic[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]JoshiStitic[S] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]JoshiStitic[S] 0 points1 point2 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]JoshiStitic[S] 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]JoshiStitic[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BrexFlexx 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]JoshiStitic[S] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]EvilPencil 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]quinnmcd 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BarneyFighter -1 points0 points1 point (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]JoshiStitic[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link