Where do I even start?

Stujitsu2 · 2022-04-24T17:14:14+00:00

Don't expect women to accept something you do not accept yourself.

Women abhor insecurity. True confidence is not something you do it is merely the absence of insecurity.

Change what you can. You cannot grow. But you can get fit. Make money and so on.

Weak social skills hurt you more than the lack of looks by an order of magnitude.

Action is more important than reaction which you can not control anyway. And courage more important than confidence. Its better to shoot your shot as a shaking studdering nervous wreck than do nothing.

This is counter intuitive but you are starting conversations wanting too much. You want to get women to like you...its a bad goal. Your focus should be to find women that like you. You are looking for openness incremental openness.

She's cute lets see what happens if I say hi. She said hi back lets see if she will chat. We had a nice chat lets see how she responds to something flirty. Oh she reciprocated lets see how she responds to asking for her number and so on.

You test a womans openness to subtle advance. Stop trying to make women like you. Find women that like you. Stop bitching about what you cannot change. Start fixing what you can. Your social goal should not be to make someone accept you. It should be to be able to approach anyone without fear rather they reject you or not!

2022-04-24T17:04:24+00:00

Love yourself and get a hobby.

Nah, kidding. Maybe you talking boring stuff. I do it A LOT and I noticed I do it way lesser when Im faded with some drinks and not high, is like weed fucks me up I be thinking for 3 hours what the fuck to say

EstablishmentLimp477 · 2022-04-24T17:57:10+00:00

I hear this time and time again with people that have a Immutable trait that "turn women off" it could be face, height, race etc. Truth is yes women get turned off by a lot of thing's and those thing's are most of the time not changeable. You could be 6'2 blonde with blue eyes but she want's a 5'11 guy with green eyes and brown hair. Everyone has there own type some types are more commonly looked at as attractive, it's just how it is. But does not mean there is no such thing a women who is interested in you. NOO! there are 100% women out there that are into your type rarer sure but they exist. Problem is you focus to much on the ones who are not interested in you. And that's more of a inner game problem taking in other people's views of you who do not matter. Instead of focusing on the ones who do matter. Example if you apply to a job and get rejected 50 times then finally get one, would you still be looking at those company's that rejected you and say this is my value in the market place hell no. You just did not have what those company's where looking for but you got what the company that did hire you want's and that's all that matters. Same thing with dating you don't need a society of women interested in you all you need are the right ones that's all. Even if that number is 1% focus on them not on that chick that rejected you in 10th grade for being to short etc.

Zangief89 · 2022-04-29T16:04:50+00:00

Read a book called The Mystery Method

Wear nothing but suits and similar attire

Get a game called Chickenshit off Amazon

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Title	Where do I even start?
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Date	April 24, 2022 4:47 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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