Where do I start developing a gameplan?

2015-04-05T17:12:54+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/100sets/ looks like a good idea.

And while doing it:

Vary your environment and time. Night and day game. Malls and campus. High end clubs, and rough underground bars.
Fight off urge to label women of a certain look, in a certain environment, or worst of all women as a whole, as bitches. Stay positive and love women absolutely. There's like 500,000,000 females between 20 and 30. If a few women are genuinely cunts to you, it's 'few bad apples' thing. Keep loving women in general even if something bad happens.
Take full responsibility, but don't be too hard on yourself. Don't blame her, don't blame your upbringing, don't blame anything except you. And use that as a motivation to improve yourself as a man, and to tighten up your game... at the same time however, continue to love yourself. Don't view it as you becoming adequate. View it as you changing slight nuances in how you act. View it as a great person becoming even greater.

Once you get comfortable, you need to add another element to work on. So a rough plan with steps would be:

1. Approaching directly and with intent right off the bat. Key is with intent. Make sure she know's you find her attractive and would like to go out, and not as friends.
2. Making the approach smoother. By incorporating things like indirect openers, and cashing in on IOI's and approach invitations.
3. Being more real. Making the approaches more unique to the girl and the moment. Being more spontaneous. Having more fun with it and making your game less linear and formulaic.
4. Creating tension. Making things sexual.
5. Creating comfort. Being yourself, having a healthy amount of vulnerability about you. Putting yourself in her shoes in the dance that is seduction, and realizing it isn't easy or simple for her.

lntoTheSky · 2015-04-05T18:34:26+00:00

/u/thugswagyolo420 has all great advice. The one thing I would add is that you need to have the mindset of always escalating, and escalation is all about touch. Think about this scenario: If you approach a woman and she's either deaf or doesn't speak your language, how would you hold yourself, and how would you hold her? How would you escalate this touch from a simple stroke on her arm when you first start talking, to the first kiss, to bringing her home with you, and finally having sex.

You don't really need a gameplan, other than a rough outline of how you want the interaction to progress, which is going to be the same everytime since seduction is a linear process, and loosely put things together and push in that direction, regardless of how the interaction goes in between steps.

Title	Where do I start developing a gameplan?
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Date	April 5, 2015 4:01 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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