I did it again, I drive 30 minutes to Gilroy outlet and walked into some random shop for discount clothes and shoes during the Black Friday season. I was pretty confident I am done with all 2018 clothes, which now, I just feel pathetic.

Give some extra thoughts, I am an engineer for a long time, basically, once in a while I design something actually pleases others pretty well (and I could be exhausted), the life is ok with ok income, driving a low-end bimmer, fly the cheapest rental Cessna 172. I was so absorbed in my job that, at the age of 35, I am still calling myself as "in between girl-friends".

I recently got turned down by another woman again. I don't even feel sad or anything, only numb I think. Just now, I took a look at myself in the mirror, I was like, laughed myself off -- It does not make any sense -- I am off shape, a sloppy hair-cut, again, sloppily shaved, and absolutely zero fashion (with poorly chosen clothes)

I am just too rusty to get involved in seduction. However, after reading a few posts here, I do admire the experts here. I want to do something from the very basic. My question is, where to find/hire people can guide me get dressed up, using some products. So I can be at least decent in front of women. (Plus, it is kind of respect as well.)

Thanks and cheers!

-- X